why do people sabotage

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  • razisready
    razisready Posts: 41 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    Sabotage would be say feeding you something that is nutritionally healthy when intern it is. So it doesn't sound like sabotage. What is does sound like is that you were coerced to their points of view and gave in.
    Now realize that it's a point of view and not always something you need to agree on.

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    I do realise that now thanks
  • razisready
    razisready Posts: 41 Member
    techgal128 wrote: »
    razisready wrote: »
    Hi family and friends said they liked the older larger version of me.

    That's... kind of an odd thing to say. Did you ask why?

    Yea they said that they werent used to the slimmer me and thought l looked unhealthy.
  • razisready
    razisready Posts: 41 Member
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    razisready wrote: »
    Hi family and friends said they liked the older larger version of me. I lost weight through exercise and calorie controlled diet of 1200cals l was 12stone and went to 13stone 3lbs

    When you use the quote button, you can just write under the text you quote.

    Thank you for that advice
  • techgal128
    techgal128 Posts: 719 Member
    razisready wrote: »
    techgal128 wrote: »
    razisready wrote: »
    Hi family and friends said they liked the older larger version of me.

    That's... kind of an odd thing to say. Did you ask why?

    Yea they said that they werent used to the slimmer me and thought l looked unhealthy.

    You could always say something like, "I feel so much better than I did before!" or something like that. Basically just reassure them that this is an improvement for you.
  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    I haven't read all the other replies. But my husband tells me at least once a day to STOP losing weight. I only had 20ish lbs to lose, so was never huge in the first place. But I have yet to figure out what his motive is...
    He does a lot of the cooking, a couple of things I've caught him doing is adding extra oil/sauces to my food, adding sugar on my fruit and who knows what the hell else!
    so yeah, I live with a big ol saboteur
  • razisready
    razisready Posts: 41 Member
    christinev297 wrote: »
    I haven't read all the other replies. But my husband tells me at least once a day to STOP losing weight. I only had 20ish lbs to lose, so was never huge in the first place. But I have yet to figure out what his motive is...
    He does a lot of the cooking, a couple of things I've caught him doing is adding extra oil/sauces to my food, adding sugar on my fruit and who knows what the hell else!
    so yeah, I live with a big ol saboteur

    Lol thats funny
  • razisready
    razisready Posts: 41 Member
    techgal128 wrote: »
    razisready wrote: »
    techgal128 wrote: »
    razisready wrote: »
    Hi family and friends said they liked the older larger version of me.

    That's... kind of an odd thing to say. Did you ask why?

    Yea they said that they werent used to the slimmer me and thought l looked unhealthy.

    You could always say something like, "I feel so much better than I did before!" or something like that. Basically just reassure them that this is an improvement for you.
    I have told them all to respect my weightloss journey and its my health that matters to me now
  • LAWoman72
    LAWoman72 Posts: 2,846 Member
    christinev297 wrote: »
    I haven't read all the other replies. But my husband tells me at least once a day to STOP losing weight. I only had 20ish lbs to lose, so was never huge in the first place. But I have yet to figure out what his motive is...
    He does a lot of the cooking, a couple of things I've caught him doing is adding extra oil/sauces to my food, adding sugar on my fruit and who knows what the hell else!
    so yeah, I live with a big ol saboteur

    He adds sugar to your fruit??

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  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    edited March 2015
    LAWoman72 wrote: »
    christinev297 wrote: »
    I haven't read all the other replies. But my husband tells me at least once a day to STOP losing weight. I only had 20ish lbs to lose, so was never huge in the first place. But I have yet to figure out what his motive is...
    He does a lot of the cooking, a couple of things I've caught him doing is adding extra oil/sauces to my food, adding sugar on my fruit and who knows what the hell else!
    so yeah, I live with a big ol saboteur

    He adds sugar to your fruit??

    yep! He thinks sugar is loaded with calories ;)
    I sometimes chop a whole heap of fruit up and leave it In the fridge or he does fruit salads and my bowl will have sugar added, and his won't

  • Christine_72
    Christine_72 Posts: 16,049 Member
    Oh and I also just got a pedometer, so I've been walking around at home more. Like when I'm waiting for my cup of tea to brew, instead of standing there waiting I'll go outside an do 4 laps of the house. He seriously thinks I've lost the plot now :grumble: :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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