Pissed

Oh no he didn't! I hate it when guys think they can say what they want, thinking they are perfect. Bull^()**&! Use it to your advantage and keep up the great work. Wow....22 pounds. That's awesome!

Dudes suck, screw him.

:sad: I iz dude, I no suck

Dudes suck, screw him.

:sad:

OK SOME dudes...sorry lol.

Who says high school ended at graduation? Sorry that someone was so rude. I bet he's just got a lot of insecurities himself, and the only way he knows to make himself feel better is to put others down.

well i have to agree that men obviously have no concept of size, i mean they think 6 inches is twelve, and you give them an inch and they take a mile, how could he really see what fat is or not? You are doing great and the only opinion that really matters is your own.

I'm usually pretty mild mannered.

That said, when someone decides to go down that road, I choose to interpret it as open season on ALL of their personal shortcomings.

You should've seen the face on the "living at home with mommy, not getting any, stupid, insecure, broke-*kitten*, little hobbit f*c#", when I labelled him much in the same way he'd chosen to stick me with the label of "chubby".

He's been a bit more cordial in class of late.

Dudes suck, screw him. I love it when a guy is hitting on me I'm "voluptuous and curvy" but when I turn him down flat all of a sudden I'm a FAT *****! HILARIOUS to me. Small peepees fo sho.

At that point, does peepee size really matter? :laugh:

Joke em' if they can't take a f*c#.

Don't let his narrow-mindedness hinder your progress. You know you're beautiful and you know you're awesome for taking control of your body.. that's all the validation you need. The jerk probably has never committed to anything or worked as hard in his life as you have, be proud of yourself for that!

Stupid people make stupid comments, it's just the way it is.. I'm sorry you had to go through that. We've all been there. Just keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing! 22 lbs is a MAJOR accomplishment. Be proud of it.

HAHAHAHAHA

I can relate I have always struggled with my weight and always struggled to loose it, I had a pair of old scales and treated my self to a new set of digital scales when I got home the LCD screen was faulty on the way back I met my sister and her partner she enquired where I was going, I told her the story of the faulty scales and said that I was returning them she asked how much I had lost so far and I said 5lbs (at that time, I was still quite proud of my achievement) her partner said "phew yeah those scales are definatley faulty I'd return them too!" and laughed. If I am honest my feelings were quite hurt as anyone knows with a weight problem it is a sensitive issue. My husband realising my feelings were hurt and that a simple comment had probably made me ready to run for a family size bag of malteasers said you know what honey you have done amazing don't let anyone judge you just you prove him wrong!
At 25lbs lost currently I have had a lot of comments about having lost some of my weight as at 5ft it does show when you are over weight but my proudest moment had to be when the same man crossed the street to say "Jeez missus you havn't half lost the weight!
So I thanked him for helping me keep my focus to loose weight and that someday I hope to feel as confident in my own skin as he so obviously does to which he got very embarassed and apologised. Do this for yourself, use comment's to your advantage and remember above all else who is the better person in these situations.

Sorry to hear, but you know what? You are better and stronger for having your attitude about continuing your weight loss. Good luck!

Libby, yes you can girl! Use this as your motivation "fire" to continue to lose weight. Keep the positive attitude, as this will be your best friend in your attaining your goal.

Keep up the good work!