What do you find attractive?

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  • AllOutof_Bubblegum
    AllOutof_Bubblegum Posts: 3,646 Member
    Confidence. A guy approached me at Wal-Mart of all places and just said "Hi, my name's Clay. I just want to let you know you're one of the most beautiful girls I've ever seen. I would love your number and take you out on a date."

    My jaw was on the floor I was so flattered. If I hadn't been married I totally would have given him my number (even though he totally wasn't my type at all and I didn't find him terribly attractive physically) and given him a chance, just to reward the sheer ballsiness of it all. That was almost 5 years ago, and I still remember his name.
  • Iscah13
    Iscah13 Posts: 1,954 Member
    Animal lovers. Not somebody who has love with animals...but is compassionate towards animals.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    Inner beauty


    Damn autocorect


    Meant to say her booty
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    @JaylessCreation‌ so have you figured us women out yet? ;)
  • vaani96
    vaani96 Posts: 72 Member
    The first things I notice are eyes and lips (creepy but I used to have this weird habit to stare at a persons mouth when they're talking...don't do that anymore though)

    Though creativity, personality, and respect are major points.
  • edileonardo
    edileonardo Posts: 66
    Eyes are always the first thing I notice on a person
  • Yvi79
    Yvi79 Posts: 37 Member
    Eyes, nice smile and good taste of perfume...
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    The smile and eyes are the first to catch my eye. Then, I'll admit that tall, Dark hair and nice arms and chest and scent attract me and if they are kind and compassionate, that reels me right in! :)
  • Bill8855
    Bill8855 Posts: 4,267 Member
    Eyes and a great smile
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    A big bank account
  • ashley1215
    ashley1215 Posts: 2,199 Member
    Good father, masculine, kind, hardworking.
  • cowbellsandcoffee
    cowbellsandcoffee Posts: 2,975 Member
    Rides a bike, pigtails and tattoos...

    Does that count?
  • Hardenton
    Hardenton Posts: 136 Member
    Smart, confident, open minded, loyal
  • PrincessFrancescaFox
    PrincessFrancescaFox Posts: 5
    Independent men, respectful, kind, funny and strong minded. :)
  • RJ0274
    RJ0274 Posts: 4,173 Member
    good sense of humor, intelligent, good conversationalist - nothing forced. Blonde hair, blue eyes and great legs are definitely a plus!
  • the_chiha
    the_chiha Posts: 784 Member
    Good sense of humor and wit
  • mhecht32
    mhecht32 Posts: 360 Member
    I have always been completely thrown by light eyes and dark hair. A blue eyed, dark haired, man with a great smile turns me into a babbling idiot! :). He generally has to be fit as well - I have always dug soccer players :).
  • Behindthesehazeleyes96
    Behindthesehazeleyes96 Posts: 544 Member
    Intelligence, eyes, and sarcasm
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Old family money, low morals and inhibitions, high sex drive, lesbian tendencies, younger with a Daddy complex, no common sense, good sammich skills.
  • eva_letsdance
    eva_letsdance Posts: 2,731 Member
    kindness (and all of the above)
  • stephaniejsharp
    stephaniejsharp Posts: 1,568 Member
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    Old family money, low morals and inhibitions, high sex drive, lesbian tendencies, younger with a Daddy complex, no common sense, good sammich skills.

    Lol hilarious
  • christinelyn
    christinelyn Posts: 85 Member
    Personality, smile, sense of humor
  • La_Malfaisante_
    La_Malfaisante_ Posts: 1,064 Member
    edited April 2015
    #1 Sense of humor!! Nothing sexier than a man who can make his girl laugh. Beards and tattoos are a bonus
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
    edited April 2015
    *kitten*....pretty much says it all
  • _Risko_
    _Risko_ Posts: 183 Member
    Eye contact and a smile, does it everytime
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    edited April 2015
    Other than liking me?

    Intelligence, sense of humor, curiosity (which 3 often go together), good command of English, manners, honesty, respect for self & others.

    As part of 'respect for self': not abusing his body by being overly/unhealthfully thin, overly/unhealthfully fat, overly muscular, married to the gym (overexercising). I prefer someone with no tattoos, or maybe only a few small ones which aren't usually visible. NONSMOKING!!! No illegal drugs, moderate use of legal drugs such as alcohol.
    As part of 'respect for others': basic hygiene, no or minimal foul language, assertive but not aggressive, not self-centered or stuck up, good communicator. Being kind & thoughtful shows good character.

    Respect for & support of civil rights. No bigotry (opinions based on experience are fine, even if negative). No or little religion (I prefer people who are rational).

    It's OK to be protective, but not controlling. No unnecessary violence. (IOW, it's perfectly acceptable to stop someone from harming me, if I don't do it myself first.) Willing & able to protect himself, not upset that I'm willing & able to protect myself.

    Having money is always nice.
    Kissing well, enjoying sex (esp. if he enjoys the same things I do).
    And I know it's completely un-feminist of me, but I do like having my hand kissed. :blush:
    I prefer someone who's not very hairy on his body, and if he has a beard or mustache it's neat & clean & he uses conditioner on it so it's not scratchy.

    ETA: forgot to say that he must like, or at the very least tolerate with good grace & humor, cats.
    Because I like cats and will always have one.
  • SubZeroDude
    SubZeroDude Posts: 1,519 Member
    Tonydevolani_ wrote: »
    can you all hypocrites stop lieing?


    That's the beauty of these threads. We get to create a welcoming community behind the mask that is our profile, when in reality, we are all divided and judge each other, giving ourselves superiority over each other in our minds. The falsification is beautiful.
  • BodyByBex
    BodyByBex Posts: 3,685 Member
    PixTheCupCakeDestroyer wrote: »
    The ability to quote Firefly, own comic books, be able to identity the nemesis of each Superhero without Google, own at least one CosPlay outfit, be totally comfortable with me geeking out over Bill Nye, know the original cast of Star Trek, be tattooed, have an abundance of music on your IPod that spans every genre and don't flinch when I respond to questions using song lyrics and interpretive dance.

    The ability to quote Firefly is a MUST or I swear by my pretty floral bonnet, I will end you.


    Confidence. The last guy I fell head over heels for walked up to me confidently and jumped into a conversation and then left me his number. I called him and the rest was history.

    Passion. I used to bug my ex-husband because he would be working on his book and explaining something to me/asking my opinion and I would want to jump his bones right there. I adored being around him because he had multiple passions and wanted to share them with me.
  • kungabungadin
    kungabungadin Posts: 290 Member
    A great smile, muscles, brown eyes, sense of humor, and of coarse a great personality yes of coarse I care about that.
  • Melissa90xo
    Melissa90xo Posts: 1,020 Member
    Sense of humour is paramount! If you can't keep a joke/playful banter going, chances are we're not a good match. Good moral compass. Nice smile. Confidence. Big hands :open_mouth:

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