Emotional eating

I'm not sure what you mean by 'broke my break'? But I'm an emotional eater too. It's mostly under control now that I'm using MFP because I can see what the damage will be if I give in, but there are times something overwhelming happens and throws me back to that state of mind.

Last week was the anniversary of my Husband's passing. The grief threw me back to the state of needing to eat for comfort. I had one bad day and one somewhat bad meal, but those two bad days did not ruin the last three years of work I put into losing weight and in fact by yesterday I was already back to my lowest weight so far. This week I'm determined to do much better.

This is just my own experience and I'm certainly not speaking for anyone else, but when I'm heading towards that state of mind (which doesn't happen much anymore) and I haven't been able to push it away within a day or two I find the sooner I give in and have a couple candy bars or chocolates, just for example, the binge will be so much smaller than if I keep pushing the thoughts away. Eventually it gets so overwhelming for me I have a really big binge. For me, I would rather have a candy bar, chocolate, etc than have a feast of candy a couple days later that I'm then angry at myself for and it takes me 1-2 weeks to get back to where I was scale wise.

Is there anyone close you can talk to to help you through your emotions? Family or friends? Or are you in college possibly and could see a school counselor?

I also don't know what "broke my break" means, but I found your post because I just triggered into an emotional eating moment - the first in the 21 days I've been on MFP. Someone double-crossed me, made an offer to pay me for something and then randomly withdrew. Worst, this is a fellow business owner for whom I have done many favors and this was supposed to be his opportunity to finally pay me back.

So here's what I did after I wrote him an email ending our business relationship:

1. I recognized that I wanted to eat emotionally.
2. I logged on to see how many calories I have left today.
3. I made myself a piece of whole grain toast with low fat Swiss cheese.
4. I ate it thoughtfully and consciously.
5. I came on here and searched "Emotional Eating." Because I know I'm still angry and food doesn't solve anything

I'm pretty pleased with myself, frankly. I'm still 650 calories under my allotment today, which means I'm going to be OK. And I'm writing this, breathing and realizing bad things just happen sometimes; some people lie; some people are inconsiderate; and I'm still OK.

I am one too, more of a boredom eater than an emotional eater but I've had my fair share of binges in the past.

I've been reading "The Hunger Fix" and its been helping a lot with emotional eating. Some of my go to tricks are popping in a piece of gum, sit down and just take deep breathes and focus on the gum, then go do something, anything...the mouth motion along with keeping your hands busy will make you forget your "binge" moments. Something else that works is giving yourself a mantra..anytime I'm reaching for that piece of chocolate or cupcake and I know it's my mind willing me to it, I start repeating "It's a lie, this is a fix...You're not truly hungry, you control what goes into your body"...and I just push that and keep repeating it, you'd be surprised how much it helps!

deadbyassociation wrote: »

TavistockToad wrote: »

Why is therapy not an option?

because my income is very very small and i have no insurance or the ability to obtain insurance. I have no family in the picture and support myself financially 100%

Don't let food become a therapist. As long as you realize it's emotional hunger and not physical hunger, you shod be able to holdout longer.

Maybe have a 'sad' day. I have a pint of Ice cream every Sunday so I don't feel so strict with my diet all week. If you're sad, focusing on exercising and healthy eating will help your mood the best. But if the temptation is too strong and you're afraid of having a major binge, plop down, get some ice cream, grab a box of tissues, and put in a sad movie. Your ice cream is now a 'treat' not a failure, and won't lead into a major binge.

Broke my break? People...the poster obviously meant broke their heart. I hate when people make stupid statements or questions lol. Anyways, this is so me. Just take a deep breathe. Maybe try some meditation. And if they broke your heart, think if you eat, you gain. If you stay on track, you'll look amazing and they'll regret losing you Also, maybe a treat or two. Don't go all out, but a little might take the edge off. Good luck!!

Emotional eating, wow. I ate so much ice cream 3 weeks ago and felt so sick the next day. It didn't fix the problem. Temporarily soothed me then gave me another problem to deal with (calorie influx). Just went on my public library site to look for the book mentioned (The Hunger Fix).