Why am I gaining weight?

Lady_Grell
Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
edited November 15 in Health and Weight Loss
At first I was losing, but now I seem to be gaining all the weight I lost right back. For the last 3 days, the scales have shown the same weight - which was more than I weighed last week. (I don't typically weigh everyday, but after seeing the weight gain, I wanted to make sure it wasn't just a normal fluctuation.) I have carefully counted and measured everything I have eaten. I have done my best to exercise. Yesterday, I didn't eat like I should because I was on the road all day. I also have finished filling out today's diary because I haven't decided on dinner yet. However, I'm so careful about recording everything I eat. It's getting frustrating.
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  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    How much have you gained?

    If you're starting a new workout or something, water retention and gain is normal.

    If not, you could be eating more than you're burning.
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    I've gained 3lbs back, and this has shown up consistently for the past 3 days on the scale. I haven't started a new workout. Mostly, I'm just walking. I would do more, but I have a large hernia on my right side. The nurse said the hole in my abdominal wall was the size of a grapefruit, but the surgeon is on vacation. I wear an abdominal brace when I move to keep it from growing. I might try and do a bit more, but I have to be very careful.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Period?
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    edited April 2015
    Yeah, I've been on my period for 11 days now. Every time I think I'm stopped, I start again. I'm calling the doctor on Monday about it.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Probably that then
  • atypicalsmith
    atypicalsmith Posts: 2,742 Member
    edited April 2015
    PLEASE see your doctor. That's how my ectopic pregnancy started, which nearly killed me. Don't call, go see. Today if possible.
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    I got a kidney transplant back August 29th, so I am on a lot of meds, but the doctors are after me to lose weight. I went to my surgeon week before last to look at the large knot on my side, and he said I was too fat for him to see anything. Turns out the CAT scan revealed this massive hernia, but he went on vacation.
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    Trust me, I'm not pregnant. Other than the fact I've been told I can't have children, it would take another person to get pregnant.
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    *sigh* I guess I'll just keep trying. I know 3 lbs doesn't sound like much, but I had only lost 10, and it's frustrating to watch yourself gain 1/3 of the weight you've lost right back.
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    Lady_Grell wrote: »
    *sigh* I guess I'll just keep trying. I know 3 lbs doesn't sound like much, but I had only lost 10, and it's frustrating to watch yourself gain 1/3 of the weight you've lost right back.

    What's the alternative? I don't mean to sound harsh but giving up definitely won't get you to your goal!
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    You're not harsh, and you're right. I'm just feeling a little defeated at the moment. It's like nothing I do seems to work, but I AM going to keep at it.
  • 999tigger
    999tigger Posts: 5,235 Member
    Water retention, time of month, natural fluctuation. Not long enough so keep doing what you are doing and you seem to have double checked (smart) your logging which is all you can do. I fluctuate about 4lbs a day.

    Chill out and be frustrated or down is pointless, just be calm and wait. When it happens to me I follow the advice above and probably work even harder at the gym.
  • scottacular
    scottacular Posts: 597 Member
    Lady_Grell wrote: »
    *sigh* I guess I'll just keep trying. I know 3 lbs doesn't sound like much, but I had only lost 10, and it's frustrating to watch yourself gain 1/3 of the weight you've lost right back.

    No, I get it, 3 lbs can mean a lot to some people. It does to me. But the upside is you can lose that weight as quickly as you gained it. It won't take much to shift it, especially if it's water weight.
  • gle8442
    gle8442 Posts: 126 Member
    You are retaining water, maybe because you are on your period or maybe because of your health problems. Don't worry about it, as long as you are still doing the right things your body fat is still decreasing and eventually you will see it again. Last month I gained 5 lbs for a week just because I spent a couple of days visiting friends and eating salty restaurant food... it is very frustrating when it happens but just keep pushing through.
  • gle8442
    gle8442 Posts: 126 Member
    Also, your doctor sounds truly terrible, is there any way you can change to someone else?
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    Sadly, I can't change my doctor. Where I had the transplant, no other doctor dares to try surgery - especially since this hernia is right under my incision. This isn't the first time he's talked to me like this. Doesn't he realize how hard it is to lose weight when you're on steroids, other medicines that cause weight gain, have an underactive thyroid and have to push to do any exercise because your guts feel like they're falling out? He claimed to not be able to see the hernia and said I had just gained weight. It's amazing I can gain weight on one side of my body in a ridge shaped like a football. I should (hopefully) hear back tomorrow about the surgery, but I know he'll tell me I need to lose weight first.
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    Oh, and I wouldn't doubt that it might be salt. I did eat more than I should the other day. I hadn't thought about it until now. Like I said, it was just depressing.
  • jessicapk
    jessicapk Posts: 574 Member
    Don't weigh daily unless you can handle the fluctuations. I can easily go up or down 3 lbs in a day or two. It all depends on what you eat, how much you drink, exercise, and so many other factors. If you want to weigh daily, either keep a spreadsheet or use an app that averages out your weigh ins or charts them so you can see that you're heading in the right direction. I do agree with the above posters - go see another doctor. This guy sounds like a quack. There's a huge difference between gaining weight and a hernia!
  • valente347
    valente347 Posts: 201 Member
    It sounds like your hormones are messing with you. Combined with the travel yesterday, it might take a little longer than normal for your weight to go back down. Don't sweat it! If you're doing everything right, you'll see the numbers drop back down again.
  • tlmeyn
    tlmeyn Posts: 369 Member
    I agree with not weighing daily. I was at 116kg one day... was down to 109kg two weeks later. started my period, by close to the end of the period I was at 115.5, that was friday. yesterday I was down to 113.5. Did I lose 4.5 pounds in 2 days. not likely. water weight. I am sure I didn't lose 15 pounds in two weeks either. It's a roller coaster, once a week is plenty! It will be fine, but see the doctor about that super long period!.
  • LovelyIvy466
    LovelyIvy466 Posts: 387 Member
    There are way too many health factors at play for this to be a real issue just yet. Stay consistent with healthy eating, being faithful with your logging and activity levels, and monitor your health situation closely. I don't think, given all that's going on, a daily weigh in will be truly healthy for you- you have too many other things that should take your attention- but only you can make that decision.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    You are not eating enough, your body is trying to hold on to whatever it can get!
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    You are not eating enough, your body is trying to hold on to whatever it can get!

    OP hasn't mentioned her calorie goal, so what makes you think that?
  • krysmuree
    krysmuree Posts: 326 Member
    Pretty agree with everyone else - 3lbs is very little to worry about with what your body has been through recently! Just keep trying and take a deep breath. Focus on the changes and not just on the scale. I actually had my mama hide my scale from me for the next month, so I could focus elsewhere. I often have fluctuations of 2-3lbs, then it suddenly drops. Water retention from food, exercise or my period, or sometimes too much sodium. It's okay!

    Don't let it get you down. :)
  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    Thanks so much everyone. I don't usually weigh daily, but when I saw the gain I started monitoring a bit too closely. I was just upset this morning, but I'm feeling better. I'm going to stick with it.
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    I agree, normal fluctuations due to TOM and water retention. Still, looking at your diary, use a food scale. One chop?? This is going to have a huge variance.
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    edited April 2015
    You are not eating enough, your body is trying to hold on to whatever it can get!
    No.
    You've been here plenty long enough to have learned by now that what you just wrote there is
    complete and utter nonsense.
    Why would you post it at all, let alone trying to get a newbie to believe it?!

    You have to burn energy to stay alive. Have to. No way around it.
    Your body will NOT "hang onto" calories if you're not eating as much as you need.
    If you are eating less than you need to burn (to live), you will lose weight because your body will
    burn what it has available to keep you alive.
    It prefers carbs (glucose {blood sugar}, then glycogen {stored in muscles & the liver}), then it
    burns fat, and as a distant third it burns protein.
    (Yes, there's some overlap; it's real life, not neat & tidy. But that's the general order.)
    Protein is last for 2 reasons.
    First, it's an inefficient conversion. Just like when eating protein, you don't get all the calories out
    that you'd expect for the mass of protein you're working with.
    Second, it's a race against death. Your body is betting that you will find food before you run out of
    muscle and die. (Particularly your heart & diaphragm.)


    This is a somewhat long, but very informative, thorough, and well-written explanation of why what
    you wrote up there is wrong. He gives 4 ways of proving that it's nonsense.
    http://www.aworkoutroutine.com/starvation-mode/
    what most people think of starvation mode to be is complete and utter nonsense
    ...
    As long as you create a caloric deficit (meaning consume less calories than your body burns, or burn more calories than you consume…), then you will lose weight every single time regardless of whether you’re creating a deficit that is small, moderate or large.

    Even if your calorie intake is dangerously low (not recommended at all, just making a point), you will still lose weight.

    There is no such thing as “I’m not losing any weight because I’m eating too little.” That’s horses.h.i.t. And there’s definitely no such thing as “I’m gaining weight because I’m eating too little.” That’s even bigger horses.h.i.t
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    You are not eating enough, your body is trying to hold on to whatever it can get!

    NO
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
    edited April 2015
    OP, I agree with the others that
    a - it's a small fluctuation (in the overall scheme of things; I understand it's a large part of what you've already lost)
    b - likely related to water retention & maybe your other health problems

    Don't worry too much about not being able to exercise much or strenuously right now. Just get well.
    "Most weight loss occurs because of decreased caloric intake.
    However, evidence shows the only way to maintain weight loss is to be engaged in regular physical activity."
    http://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/physical_activity/index.html


    But I also see some room for improvement in your food log.
    I'm not trying to be mean here, just point out some places that might be slowing you down. :innocent::flowerforyou:

    I don't need answers here, but you do.
    Are you short enough that 120 lb is a healthy goal weight for you? If not, why are you at 1200 cal?
    And why are you consistently eating less than that? You're making this harder on yourself than it has to be.
    1200 is the minimum for a woman of average size to get the nutrition she needs. (That's actual calories, not net.
    Ignore net. Just eat at your healthy calorie goal.)


    In your diary, I'm seeing few fruits & vegetables, lots of carbs, sodium, sugar (candy).
    Don't use "homemade" entries unless you've entered the recipe yourself.
    Use brand names, or for nonpackaged foods include "USDA" in your search string.

    As much as possible, don't use "piece" or "serving", try to use weight or volume.
    Your ice cream cone... how many ounces of ice cream was that? Was it a sugar cone or waffle cone? It makes a difference.
    How much did your pork chop weigh? They vary a lot!
    "Generic - Broasted Potato Wedges, 7 wedges" ... how much did that weigh? They're different sizes.
    "Home Made - Steak Kabob - Beef, Bell Pepper, Onion, 1 kabob" How much of each ingredient? Having 6 oz of beef
    makes for a much more calorific kabob than 2 oz of beef with 8 oz of veggies.

    Enter the ingredients.
    As an example, instead of "Homemade - Grilled Cheese on White, 1 Sandwich", enter 2 slices of bread of whatever
    brand you used, and the butter you spread on it to toast it, and how many slices or ounces of what brand of cheese.
    And the "Generic - Beef Vegetable Soup Homemade, 1 cup". What was in that?


    These might help:
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10012907/logging-accuracy-consistency-and-youre-probably-eating-more-than-you-think
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/819925/the-basics-dont-complicate-it/p1
    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/872212/youre-probably-eating-more-than-you-think/p1

  • Lady_Grell
    Lady_Grell Posts: 103 Member
    Okay, I will try entering the specific ingredients for homemade foods. I usually very small portions of things, but I will do my best to be more exact. The pork chop I know weighed just under 3 oz. The kabob was three pieces of beef strips with several pieces of bell peppers and onions.

    There were fewer fruits and veggies because I hadn't had a chance to go shopping. LOL. I was just eating what was left in the fridge. I'm going shopping tomorrow, so I'll be able to get some fresh produce. I admit I do have a sweet tooth, which I'm trying to cut back on.

    I'm about 5' 3 1/2" so I thought 1200 was about right. I usually try to eat between 1100 and 1300. The other day was an exception. I was out to visit family and got trapped by a mudslide. By the time I got home, I was too tired to really eat. Normally, I would have taken the time to eat better.
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