MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!

AmysNewBeginning
AmysNewBeginning Posts: 244 Member
edited September 27 in Motivation and Support
hello mfp peeps...yes i have been drinking...i am very very sad...all my life i have been rejected. tonight i felt empowered becuz i am taking control of myself for once..not my mom patting my stomach when im a friggin size 6 and im fat! she has always rejected me. tonight i was with my girls dancing having a good time, and becuz of that, that i was not afraid to dance, to have a good time, people rejected me. had the juke box turned down at the pub we were at. i bought for the first time heel sandals, cuz i felt sexy due to all of you...i can dance, i can shake a leg...why are people so judgemental? why? why can't everyone acccept everyone for who they are. i have had people delete from here, don't know why...maybe becuz i speak the truth, whatever...i am in a size 8, and i feel awful tonight. why are people so mean? why? i get tossed dirty looks at the bar, made like i shouldn't be cute, shouldn't show i'm having a good time...you all are from differnet parts of the world and i love that. you dont know me, but for some reason i am coming home to you tonight and sharing my thoughts. i know the bar scene is not the best place to judege...we go to small pub...but for once in a long time i felt sexy, i felt good about me, and people made me feel like ****. i'm tired of this. when does it end. when do people just love you for who you are? i know i'm usually the happy one on here, but tongiht, i am just very very sad...i am real, this is who i am. love me or hate me...i am a good person, but why do i feel so yuck right now. dont say its the alcohol, cuz im sober enough that im not making that many typo's. :) i love you all, and thank you for supporting me...MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!

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  • sweet_lotus
    sweet_lotus Posts: 194 Member
    Trust me, your life will be a lot better if you stop caring what other people think. Skip the pubs next time for a dance club!
  • annastacia10
    annastacia10 Posts: 106
    If you feel sexy then you are sexy! Don't let other people get you down because it's usually jealousy motivating them. There is nothing more attractive than someone who is confident in themselves, doesn't matter what your size might be. Confidence and loving yourself is the key. If you have that, and I think you did when you first ventured out tonight, it makes you beautiful to the world. Do not let other people ever make you think otherwise!
  • Becca_007
    Becca_007 Posts: 596 Member
    never mind
  • kellyyjean
    kellyyjean Posts: 499 Member
    Trust me, your life will be a lot better if you stop caring what other people think. Skip the pubs next time for a dance club!

    I agree with sweet lotus. Chin up! Keep being happy :happy:
    Unfortunately, there will always be "mean people" you need to try and ingnore them.
  • artemis222
    artemis222 Posts: 390 Member
    You are sexy. I guarantee some of those icy glances were those of jealousy. Don't worry what those people may or may not think. Trust me, I know exactly how you're feeling. Just gotta love yourself and know that you ARE loved for who you are not just how you look :)
  • SuperMoniMonk
    SuperMoniMonk Posts: 467 Member
    It think it comes don't to respecting their opinion but not believing for yourself.
    If you focus so much on how people should be , you are doing the same thing they do to you when you judge them for judging you.
    Seeds of rejection grow deep within us and we suddenly put our value on what others think of us . People are always going to have an opinion about you and your life , what matters is how you see yourself. You are a unique person , there is no one else like you m yes you have made mistakes and so has everyone else. Yes you have probably judge others like they judge you .

    We can't do much about others, we can only change how we take things. If people treat you like a doormat , but if you know that you are not a doormat ..you will not allow their ill will rob you of your peace. I know my mom has said some really hurtful things to me especially because she is my mom and should not be like that ....but guess what ...she is . So i prepare myself whenever we talk for I know she will say something hurtful but I;m not what she says I'm ...I am who God says I am ...He says I'm beautiful. I forgive my mom and the others...for i know I;m not perfect myself.

    Have a blessed night :)
  • cenafan
    cenafan Posts: 398 Member
    why give complete strangers that much control over your emotions? you went to have a great time. You were having it until you starting paying attention to some perceived dislike vibes people were sending your way. And even if they were...who cares? Take control of your confidence the way you have your health and body and everything will fall into place.

    Live your life for you...not what others think. :)
  • DKBelle
    DKBelle Posts: 585
    There will be always people who will like you and doesn't. Just avoid nobody is perfect and even the ones who gave you a look being looked at the same way like you were by someone else :) So who cares, just like you said if you felt good and happy about how you looked just give a smile at them or avoid don't show them that it makes you feel bad, because once they see that it is bothers you they will do it more. I never give a f...k about others only about ppl who knows me (friends, family). Smile at them and avoid that is the key !
  • AmysNewBeginning
    AmysNewBeginning Posts: 244 Member
    Thanks to all of you for your words...it helped...I just needed to vent and TODAY IS A NEW DAY AND TIME
    TO KICK *kitten*!!!!!!!!!!

    HAVE A GREAT DAY MFP PEEPS! CHEERS! :drinker:
  • Becca_007
    Becca_007 Posts: 596 Member
    Glad you're feeling better this morning!:flowerforyou: :heart:
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