Doing it to get her

mdeanburrier
mdeanburrier Posts: 1
edited November 2024 in Introduce Yourself
I'm trying to slim down and get in better shape so I can approach the woman of my dreams.

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  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    Have you tried approaching her yet?
  • dufus12
    dufus12 Posts: 393 Member
    arditarose wrote: »
    Have you tried approaching her yet?

    Yup.....do you talk or you just admiring her for afar?

    I do that with Jason Statham but me dropping 30lbs ain't going to bag him. Mores the pity.
  • Childfree1991
    Childfree1991 Posts: 145 Member
    Slim down for your own health/sake. Don't ever change yourself for someone else.
  • VeronaBose
    VeronaBose Posts: 58 Member
    So... is this for selfesteem?
  • dufus12
    dufus12 Posts: 393 Member
    Us women so much more forgiving than men when it comes to weight.......have faith in that.
  • teagirlmedium
    teagirlmedium Posts: 679 Member
    Good luck with your body change. Why can't you approach her now though?
  • livingleanlivingclean
    livingleanlivingclean Posts: 11,751 Member
    If she would want you only after you lost weight, she's not worthy of you. Someone should love you and want to be with you for who you are, not what you look like!
  • DedRepublic
    DedRepublic Posts: 348 Member
    No I get why he's doing this. When you get to where you want to be don't let the confidence become arrogance. Also ask yourself this question, "What kind of man is the woman of my dreams looking for?" Become this man along the way in your fitness journey...and you'll find her brother.
  • DedRepublic
    DedRepublic Posts: 348 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    But he probably shouldn't tell her he's "slimming" - she might find that odd. :pensive:

    Bah...I slimmed down by 35 lbs. Is it odd? ;)

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  • paperhearts32
    paperhearts32 Posts: 10 Member
    How do you know she doesn't find you attractive the way you are ?
  • StrongLife
    StrongLife Posts: 525 Member
    As ex Vikings coach Mike Tice once said "All men get more confident when they get stronger". Don't be surprised if others magically appear in your life.
  • TheLegendaryBrandonHarris
    TheLegendaryBrandonHarris Posts: 502 Member
    I understand you, my friend.
    We all like to pretend appearance isn't a huge part of attraction...but we know it is.

    If that's your motivation, more power to you!
    Good luck.
    Brandon
  • TheLegendaryBrandonHarris
    TheLegendaryBrandonHarris Posts: 502 Member
    DedRepublic wrote: »
    No I get why he's doing this. When you get to where you want to be don't let the confidence become arrogance. Also ask yourself this question, "What kind of man is the woman of my dreams looking for?" Become this man along the way in your fitness journey...and you'll find her brother.

    Exactly.

    Take care of your mind, body, and others. Be strong, be fit, be compassionate, confident, thoughtful and decisive. Be a builder. Build your character, build others up, build good relationships.
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