After dinner snacking! Help!!!!

Go floss and brush your teeth after dinner! Then you can have some water or herbal tea. I have the same problem and it helps me.

Im håving thė såme problem! Kills me. Only suggestion either.....plan healthy alternatives such as make your own kale chips or plain yogurt parfait using...plain yogurt..light whip cream..and fruit and or cinnamon n granola....orrrrrrr practice not eating after hours! Ugggghhhh. Im goin to practice intermittent fasting!

Prelog your day to include the evening snack.

I second trying to fit things you enjoy into your calorie goals for the day.

Also consider whether or not you're getting enough calories and the right macros throughout the day. It's much easier to resist temptation if you're not terribly hungry. Don't cut your calories so low that you feel insanely deprived while you're watching someone else eat all the things you want.

Also, drink water after dinner and find something else to do that doesn't involve watching your husband eat. I like to play video games to unwind at night (keeps my hands busy).

Good luck!

I don't have to deal with my partner snacking late at night, fortunately. But when I have the late night munchies, I try a) brushing and flossing, as others have mentioned, or b) chewing some gum. It makes your mouth feels like it's doing something, and frankly wears my jaw muscles out to the point I don't feel like eating anything else.

cityruss wrote: »

You have three choices.

- Fit an after dinner snack in to your calorie/macro goals
- Willpower
- Eat them and don't change

Option #1 for me every day.

...Or eat dinner late. I'm not sure if this is an option for you because many like to eat with their family, but it's what I do. It's also the meal that makes up the majority of my calories for the day. I have always been a night time eater, so this just works for me. I usually don't start eating until about 11 a.m. or noon for the day. Sometimes it's earlier if I'm hungry but usually a very small meal. I have a snack at some point in the afternoon, and then have lunch about 5 or 6. Then I eat my supper around 9 or 10. I usually make sure I have about 800 calories left for my supper so it's a good sized meal. This works for me, and has eliminated my night time snacking altogether.

One of the things that I do if I have a hunger attack is to take a walk. Even if it's 15 minutes, it gets me away from the thought of food. I purchased an MP3 player and listen to this while I am walking. Also, we are encouraged to eat raw foods so make yourself up a plate of cut carrots, celery, grapes, cantaloupe. I use either salsa for the veggies or a low calorie salad dressing. It makes me feel that I don't have to deprive myself. The other thing I like is the 40 calorie popsicles. It takes a longtime to eat them and I am adding extra fluid to my body. Hope this helps.

Lostcoastline wrote: »

Go floss and brush your teeth after dinner! Then you can have some water or herbal tea. I have the same problem and it helps me.

This is what I did at first; adding mouthwash helps too, because literally nothing tastes good after that. It was really hard for me to adapt to not snacking in the evenings when I first started MFP, especially when so much of my socialization with friends and bonding time with my ex-husband was over snacking (and drinking) at that part of my life.

Nowadays I find it a lot easier to fit in smaller portions of snacks in the evenings if I need them, even though I have fewer calories to work with. So you can learn it as a habit! It just takes time.

Unlike some of the commenters that eat light at dinner to leave room for a snack, I try to eat a little heavier at dinner and then observe an eating cut-off at about 7 or 8 p.m. I started this a few years back as both a weight loss tool and to cope with reflux. The first week or two was brutal, but then it sort of retrains your body not to want anything at night and I think it has saved me from gaining back a ton even when I'm not focused on losing weight. And believe me, I know the situation- my husband is fit and has a high metabolism and can and does eat anything any time. It's not always easy sitting there next to him while he's got his bag of m&ms or big bowl of ice cream, but for the most part I've become indifferent. I also agree with the brushing your teeth thing... it helps me because I'm too lazy to do it twice

Got2beme7 wrote: »

(please don't tell me to change my husband's habits - won't happen and I believe I need to change, not him).

Please don't think this insensitive (it is not meant to be)...
Your husband may need to change, but he didn't write in, you did (he's there, you're here)
The variable you have the greatest chance of being able to affect in this equation is you.
You got some great advice here (I especially like @Lostcoastline's Eat/Brush/Sip one) I hope something here resonates that you can adopt, for your health/sanity.

Cheers!