Can I lose my belly flab with weights?

BigMamaLynsey
BigMamaLynsey Posts: 390 Member
edited November 17 in Fitness and Exercise
i have bad belly flabby loose skin after having 2 kids, I'm short at 5ft 3inches, weighing currently at 14st 2lbs (lost 5lbs so far) think that's 190+ pounds. I'd really Love to add weights to my daily exercise but worried I'd gain muscle under the flab and look bigger, I've read stuff like that on the Internet. Is there anything I could do with a set of Dumbbells to lose fat specifically all over my body (tummy preferably) is anyone using weights for weight loss? Would love some help here, I'm new to weights, don't know whether to use them or wait until I've lost the flab first? Thanks for feedback! Welcome to add me :)

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  • tmdpotts
    tmdpotts Posts: 27 Member
    weight training is a better option to loose wight then cardio as you continue to burn calories as the muscle repairs long after the workout. but you will actually have to lift weights to fatigue to make it work. That and you cant out work a bad diet so what you eat is the most important thing
  • BigMamaLynsey
    BigMamaLynsey Posts: 390 Member
    @tmdpotts thanks, do you know in what ways I need to use the weights? Or what way is best? There's quite a few diff ways but not sure where to start
  • awesomejdad
    awesomejdad Posts: 493 Member
    edited May 2015
    get on youtube and learn as much as you can. Lift weights!

    A fat person is a marshmallow. A fat person that has lost weight is a smaller marshmallow. The only way to change the marshmallow into a rock is with lifting weights.
  • BigMamaLynsey
    BigMamaLynsey Posts: 390 Member
    @awesomejdad hi, thanks I will do, do you know a specific YouTube workout with weights I can do, I have tried looking before but didn't know what I need to watch really, or what can I type into search might be easier?
  • awesomejdad
    awesomejdad Posts: 493 Member
    there are a million different types of workouts out there. You have to find what works for you. Something that is effective but is also something you can stick to long term. If you want to know something to get you started then look up "compound lifts" or just look up "how to use........(whatever you have)."
    If you want your body to look fit then your body needs to believe there is a reason for it to have muscle. Lift weights and your telling your body it needs muscle.
  • WaterBunnie
    WaterBunnie Posts: 1,371 Member
    Some of it will be fat, some loose skin, tightening the muscles below will help for when you've lost the fat and will help you look slimmer beforehand as you'll hold a better posture. Losing the fat though is going to be helped by cardio so I'd do both if I were you. Classes like Zumba are good allrounders.
  • BigMamaLynsey
    BigMamaLynsey Posts: 390 Member
    @awesomejdad thanks a bunch, will have a look now!
  • awesomejdad
    awesomejdad Posts: 493 Member
    @WaterBunnie Cardio is fine and all but it is not the reason for fat loss. Yes it does help but the reason it helps is ONLY because it helps people to create a calorie deficit. If a person is doing cardio without some form of weighted resistance then they are becoming the "smaller marshmallow" I mentioned earlier. If a person is eating at a calorie deficit then cardio is not needed. Lifting weights actually burns more calories overall and helps the body to "firm up." If a person is limited on time then lifting weights is the far better choice.

    Of course Moderate Cardio is absolutely great for overall heart health though.
  • WaterBunnie
    WaterBunnie Posts: 1,371 Member
    edited May 2015
    I was thinking more for body shaping than for the burn to be honest. Core strength, posture and agility. When you're eating back exercise calories the burn from workouts almost becomes irrelevant on the loss rate front - just makes it a lot easier to maintain that deficit.
  • s2mikey
    s2mikey Posts: 146 Member
    edited May 2015
    Great to hear you are considering weight training to help your goals out. My wife has recently started and shes seeing results, slowly but surely! What she does is a full-body circuit 3 times a week. We do NOT have any fancy equipment. Just a very basic bench & a bunch of dumbbells. Thats it. Here is what her routine looks like:

    1 set of deadlifts
    1 set of bench presses
    1 set of shoulder presses
    1 set of bent over rows
    1 set of bicep curls
    1 set of tricep extensions
    1 set of squats
    1 set of ab crunches

    Repeat 3 times a session, 3 times a week. Mon, Wed, Fri works great if you can.

    As for what weight to use? You want to ideally be able to just do about 8-12 reps for each exercise so you'll have to experiment to find out what weight to use. Start light and work your way up. No need to kil yourself but it should be reasonably challenging. Less reps than 8 means the weight is too heavy. More than 12 resp and its too light. 8-12 reps seems to be the "magic" number of reps for both strength & toning from what Ive read.

    Hope that helps....
  • BigMamaLynsey
    BigMamaLynsey Posts: 390 Member
    @s2mikey thanks a bunch! This i will definately try! I only got one set of Dumbbells lol, they are my partners haha.
  • CaraRahl
    CaraRahl Posts: 72 Member
    I like fitnessblender.com for strength training workouts, they have a ton of full-length workout videos for all training types and ability levels on their website, all for free (they also have a youtube channel, but I find the website lets you search the workouts better). they recently released a 4-week core program (abs, obliques and lower back) that you can buy (less than $10 american) if you want them to tell you what videos to use, or you can go through and find what you want for yourself completely for free.
  • Jennloella
    Jennloella Posts: 2,286 Member
    Don't spend/waste so much time wondering where/how to start! Jump in! Pick a program, find what you like because just wanting it won't change a thing...
    I personally like a combo of lifting heavy (I like stronglift 5x5) and cardio.
  • VanderTuig1976
    VanderTuig1976 Posts: 145 Member
    A calorie deficit is the solution to fat loss. Strength training (especially heavy compound lifts) will improve your overall body composition. I've been working out with weights for 1 year + but as of January have been focusing on the 4 compound movements (squat, deadlift, bench, and overhead press) with progressively heavier weights.

    I've seen a huge difference in my body composition in just over four months. I've had four kids and have loose flabby belly skin, too. It's not gone (and I may never loose it completely) but it's improved a lot!!! I have a flat stomach when I stand up and I can see the outline of my abs when I stretch or flex.

    Yes, you may experience some slight thickening in your waist if you lift and eat maintenance or surplus calories. This happened to me but was not very visibly noticeable. Don't be alarmed - you can diet down later and reveal your fab abs!

    Hope this helps!
  • s2mikey
    s2mikey Posts: 146 Member
    @s2mikey thanks a bunch! This i will definately try! I only got one set of Dumbbells lol, they are my partners haha.

    You don't even need a bench. I started without one. Presses and other exercises can be done on the floor. You don't get quite the range of motion but it still works the muscles. It'll also be safer if you are new to lifting since you can't overextend your shoulders or whatever. Just a set of dumbells is perfectly fine. Maybe add a few more dumbells to cover a weight range that'll work for you. They aren't expensive at all and will really help you. :)
  • slp51
    slp51 Posts: 201 Member
    You can even do weight lifting using your own body weight! For example, triceps lifts. Sit in a chair (I use my fireplace hearth, it's about 2 feet high). Grip the edge of the chair with both hands. Lower your body towards the ground, hold for a second or two, and sit back up (but don't sit down in the chair) and repeat. Try to do 8-10 reps, 3 times.

    Another one is push ups, also good for triceps. Just remember to keep your elbows in. There are other versions of tricep work through push ups that work secondary muscles, but just a plain old push-up will do for now.

    Lastly, squats. These work the front of your thighs. Pretend you're going to lower yourself into a chair. Hold for a second or two, then raise back up. Be sure to keep your back as straight as possible! You can also do squat pulses. That's where you go into a squat position and just pulse up and down. Try to do that for 20-30 seconds, 4-5 times.

    Disclaimer: I am not a trainer, fitness expert or medical or physiology professional. I'm just a woman who works out. Google what I've mentioned here to get more professional instruction on how to perform these exercises, should they interest you.

    Good luck!
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    OP - if you want to lift, look into strong lifts, starting strength, or new rules of lifting for woman …pick a program, stick to it, and continue to eat in a calorie deficit.
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