Losing my butt!

There have been a few threads about this on the Exercise and Fitness board. You might want to look there for good suggestions. My suggestion would be to check out Strong Curves by Bret Contreras. He's known as the "glute guy" and has great workout programs for shaping lower body. As far as specific exercises, barbell hip thrusts activate the glutes more than any other exercise. If you do them along with squats (tons of varieties of those--front squats, zerchers, goblet squats, regular back squats, etc.) and various deadlifts (Romanian deadlifts, American deadlifts, etc.) you will get great results.

I think I found it! lol Just keep doing what you can. You can't spot reduce.

There is also two other moves you could try. They are called donkey kicks, and fire hydrants. I found these on a youtube video to get a brazalian butt lift!!

Just start doing Squats, that will solve all your problems.

Just remember that as long as you're eating at a calorie deficit you're not really going to build muscle no matter how heavy you lift. That doesn't mean the squats, deadlifts, etc., aren't a good idea, because they will help you maintain what muscle you have, but until you start eating at maintenance or a surplus you won't be able to really build your butt up, as I understand it.

I hear you though. I never really had one to begin with but I at least used to have a bit of roundness from all the skiing I do, but lately when you look at me from the side it's honestly STRAIGHT DOWN from my back and then a little dip in to my thighs. It is the saddest looking thing I've ever seen on my own body and once my wedding is over and I'm not cutting calories anymore I seriously need to try a little bulk and do some major eating and working out, because it is awful.