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wesley58
wesley58 Posts: 129 Member
Are most people (men and women) looking for love or money in a relationship, or both?

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  • kfebersole
    kfebersole Posts: 13 Member
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    Love. And well a spouse who will help my sinning *ss get into heaven. Money not so much. I've lived so long without it. :D
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    WAT kind of a question is this?
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,908 Member
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    I'm always looking for money but not in a relationship. Like if I find a shiny dime on the ground I'm happy.
  • Skrib69
    Skrib69 Posts: 687 Member
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    Why would you go into a relationship for money??? OK, OK, I know the rhetorical answer here is a big fat yes, but it is perfectly true that money doesn't make you happy. I have met people with money but the personality of a road accident. The shine was quickly lost and the relationship crashed and burned. Fortunately I was young and foolish then, and personality quickly went up the agenda and money was abandoned!!
  • AbnormalSymmetry
    AbnormalSymmetry Posts: 70 Member
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    Only if they are like, 90yrs old
  • kickassbarbie
    kickassbarbie Posts: 286 Member
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    Love!
    I've done the trophy gf/golddigger route and as above says the shine wears off pretty fast I lasted about 3 years and it ended in a horrific mess. Would not recommend! So for me now it would have to be love 100%!!!

    *Saying that I've dated considerably poorer and that doesn't work at all, seems to be a male ego thing.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    Considering I am usually the one that makes the money I would rather search for love and hope to find an equal partner
  • wolf39us
    wolf39us Posts: 163 Member
    edited May 2015
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    I would hope love. There are other factors though. Stability is pretty important. If your money is low, your stress is high and that doesn't help things at all!
  • _Captivated_
    _Captivated_ Posts: 5,669 Member
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    Money. Definitely money.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,206 Member
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    yes, all women are gold diggers

    His baby mamma car and crib is bigger than his
    You will see him on TV any given Sunday
    Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai
    She was supposed to buy your shorty TYCO with your money
    She went to the doctor got lipo with your money

  • CasandraNS
    CasandraNS Posts: 1,960 Member
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    Love
  • chelsy0587
    chelsy0587 Posts: 441 Member
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    yes, all women are gold diggers
    Considering I am usually the one that makes the money I would rather search for love and hope to find an equal partner

    hmmmm

    Yeah... I'm going with an equal partner that enjoys spoiling me just like I enjoy spoiling him...
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    Day ai'n messin' wit no broke, broke...
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,470 Member
    edited May 2015
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    Money. Always.
  • IFBBRich
    IFBBRich Posts: 99 Member
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    Both but love is most important.
  • MrsCaitlinBeltran
    MrsCaitlinBeltran Posts: 241 Member
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    I can't speak for everyone, but love for me
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,592 Member
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    aliens