Burnt out from working out

First off, I want to say I was an athlete my entire life. From the age of 4 I started playing sports, mainly baseball. I even played some college ball (not much due to losing my father the first semester from a heart attack....also I couldn't bring myself to take steroids, and that was a serious issue when I was in school), but to say the least, I know everything there is to know about weight lifting, cardio training, stretching and a proper diet. It's been 7 years since quiting baseball and working out. I gained almost 80lbs in that time, all fat (drinking in college was the real issue). I don't drink any more, hardly eat bad food at all and since last year I lost about 67lbs and I am trying to get back into an athletic*** shape. But after 18 years of working out until my body was pushed to its limits, I can't seem to find the motivation or Want*, to work out (Want*=Drive, but I call it that because I feel wanting and being driven to do something are two different things, In my opinion). My knees and lower back are shot to heck, and my right shoulder feels like a cheese grader got to it. When I lost the 67lbs, I did the calorie counting/diet and cardio but never stepped back into weight lifting or taking my body to the next level because I kept finding it more and more difficult to put my body through such pain. I can reassure you I know the difference between sore and actual pain.

My body hurts with pain while working out, but I do get the sore afterwards and miss the soreness of a good workout. So my problem isn't that I can't push myself beyond limits unthinkable or get myself up at the butt-crack-of-dawn to work out, it is that I find myself asking why I would want to cause more pain to my body. And no my form was never bad while working out, I had maybe one injury my entire life, I just worked out or had a game going on EVERY day of my life growing up, and there IS such thing as wear and tear on the human body.

So my questions are; Does anyone else feel or have felt this way? and Do you have any suggestions for me so I can get my six pack back and my cocky attitude going again :) Am I always going to ask myself if it's worth working out again vs. just eating right and staying away from fast foods and beer? Because from three different doctors I'm supposedly as heathly as one should be for not being a gym rat or lifting weights...

I've tried changing things up too, not doing the same old routine, and even tried some boxing, swimming, and trying other sports... also I'm not depressed or sad in anyway, I have a great life and a great wife with a beautiful home and awesome family that keeps me going!
Thank you for any suggestions or comments!

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  • TheNewAdventuresofDanni
    TheNewAdventuresofDanni Posts: 106 Member
    YES!I played soccer all threw school. After successfully losing 60 pounds myself, I moved to a new state and started a new job. I use to hit the gym between 1-4 hours a day, the average being 2 hours. I feel completely exhausted after working 8-10 hours and then driving 2 hours home. If I do workout, I cannot even compare to the effort I used to put in.
  • bigcurt18
    bigcurt18 Posts: 5 Member
    It's like there's nothing left in the body to give! The Tank is completely empty but the desire to be were I was is still in the mind and won't leave!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,915 Member
    You're older. You CAN'T workout like you did when you were younger. A common attempt by most people trying to be athletic again.
    So start with the basics. Sounds like you're underachieving? It's not underachieving if you can't complete a workout consistently. And consistency is what it takes to get back into decent shape.

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  • bigcurt18
    bigcurt18 Posts: 5 Member
    I do agree with you that I am older... unfortunately I'm not that old... and I ran my fastest mile ever at age 26 than I ever did when I was a kid or teen.
    My problem is more or less my body being torn to shreds...I have no cartilage between my knee caps and lower back, and I was diagnosed with either juvenile arthritis or full blown arthritis at an early age or some strange disc issues with my back. These are all injurys that accrued after I quit playing and working out....(and doctors couldn't officially say juvenile arthritis because of this..I had always thought my back and knees were just sore growing up, so I never went to the doctor until I stopped everything and noticed my body still hurting)...

    I don't have the mind set of a quitter. But I do agree with you on your entire statement. I have yet to go balls to the walls in my workouts, so underachieving isn't something that holds me down or gets me down and makes me want to stop, Im just ready to either push myself further or just keep where I am...Yet It always comes down to my first thought in my mind for going further, "why the heck would I tare my body up more to go further and what would I do with a body of a freak now that I' am older??". I do not try to squat even 20% of what I used to or even try to bench press what I could. I would injure myself in no time. I maintain a healthy body now.
    It's really come down to my body being torn apart. I can run an eight minute mile with only one problem, my knee caps feel like they are being hit with a hammer every time they come into contact with the ground. I can lift weights and get a good sore but with only one problem, my joints ache in pain as if someone beat the hell out of me and brused my bones and Tylenol does nothing for it. I do a little workout at least 4 or 5 times a week and that's all my body seems to handle, age is definitely a factor but there's more than just being old to it. I've seen plenty of older men in the gym that look well into there 60s with abs and benching just fine, but did they play sports as intensive and demanding as I have?... when I do lower abs and lower back workouts my back pops on each rep due to no cartilage or something else...when I said im healthy, I didnt make my self very clear...my blood work, body fat, cholesterol, lungs (not a smoker and try to run 4 miles a week at the least), is all good. But my actual body is shot. I have had Texas back institute of plano doctors tell me these issues with my body. I didnt just make them up or say I hurt, just to say so.
    I feel Burnt... not like I can't work out, or that I get down and stop trying, but that my body just flat out can't go further with out injury or pain due to long term over kill working out and playing sports. Coaches use kids in select sports for their own good and dont worry about long term effects. I've done some research on many players who quit their sport after years of training and no longer can walk without a cane...that is where my questions rise about if this is where my mind and body are at. Do I push myself again to achieve these statistics that I once had (doing this I know I'm not 18 anymore) or do I stick to what I'm doing and just stay healthy...OR...

    Do you suggest getting the surgeries that these doctors have recommended for my shoulder, both knees and lower back? (To add about those surgeries, they are no cure all that is 100% guaranteed to help). Like I said, I fully agree with you, but I feel like I didn't make my self cear on what's going on.
    I wanted to know if anyone has felt this way from long term sport playing and being burnt out in the body and mind and they were able to get back to an athletic shape, not just look good either, That can be done by proper diet and solid cardio...I want to be a freak of nature again, with a long term work out goal of course. I am not someone who cant keep working out consistently and cant keep with a decent routine but someone who no longer feels like their body is no longer in any shape to work out intensively and feels that it may almost be unsafe to do so.

    When you say your experience is 30 years long, is that 30 years of high intensity training and sport playing or just fitness in general to stay fit? Have you had or still have injurys that complicate your every day work out? If so, I would like to know what you do or have done to work through the pain, cause I have no problem saying im a wussy (choice word to keep it rated G) and probably need to just suck it up. But like I said, it doesnt seem like a wise choice from the research I've done to try and become a freak again.
    O also, if you have battled through long term abuse of the body, is there a medium that you have settled with that you tell yourself? Like, "Im too old/injured to sprint a 4.7 40yrd dash, but if I run a 5.2 thats good enough", for me it was a 60 yrd dash at 6.7 seconds or lower...I dont even know if 4.7 is fast in 40yrds. Or in the weight room, "Im too old/injured to bench 350lbs ever again, so I'll just maintain 250lbs". Because If I'm going to workout and become an athlete, by God will I try to be the fastest I've ever been and strongest!

    Hope this helps clear up my first post. This is my first post I've ever done. Dont even have facebook! Don't hate me too hard
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,915 Member
    I trained quite hard all the way up to 40. After 40, I noticed my strength starting to diminish. So I adjusted by just going with the reduction but trying to keep the intensity up. At 50, I even cut back more because recovery time just took longer. So now I just train each body part once a week focusing more on 4 sets of 8 reps with good form. Weight resistance doesn't matter much anymore. It's more about the "feel".
    Last time I ran a 40, I did it in 5.3 seconds but I made sure I warmed up really well after straining my hamstring twice before when playing flag football. I don't play as much now, but I'll still a game or 2 a year.
    As for surgeries, never had one. I've been to a couple of orthos and they say I'm in really good shape. No knee or shoulder problems, cartilage and joints are great.
    If you're that concerned, go to an ortho and get a full assessment that way you're given options. Then you can decide what you need to do from there. I'll be the first to tell you that many of my older clients who neglected injured joints and body parts had a much harder time recovering at an older age after surgery. So don't wait too long if surgery is the option you take.

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  • bigcurt18
    bigcurt18 Posts: 5 Member
    10-4, Thank you for the suggestions. I think not going to an ortho might be whats holding me back. Being afraid to have my body break down on me and not being able to walk or bend over and get back up scares me at the age im at (its far too young to feel this way). I already get stuck in positions and cant sit in a desk chairs without feeling terribly uncomfortable. Ortho it is! Thanks again!