why do i alway feel like a bad person

fat_destroyer1
fat_destroyer1 Posts: 40 Member
edited November 19 in Chit-Chat
like i try my best too be nice and help people but after say talking too some one the first thing that comes into my head is i was a d**k too that person even if i did not mean too , like my friends say im nice but i just feel im always just a p*i*k too people or am i just a bad person ? .. i know its properly not the best site to post this on but just trying to get peoples thoughts on the Mather .. i truly thank you for taking the time to read this

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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    I'm not sure how to answer this.

    What are examples of things that you say that make you feel like you were a bad person? Are they legitimately bad or inappropriate things to say, or do you just have a poor self esteem.

    If they're inappropriate, then maybe you should start checking yourself before you say them.
    If it's a self esteem issue, then now is the time to talk to someone to help you address the way you feel about yourself.

    You're young. Sometimes that in itself lends to douchey behavior. hehe. But if it's a big problem, then ask for help.
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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    Eat less calories than you burn?

    CICO... the solution to all your problems!
  • fat_destroyer1
    fat_destroyer1 Posts: 40 Member
    i think its a self esteem issue because i dont say bad things to them like i would never insult them i duno
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    Self esteem issues are the worst. They're a self imposed jail that keep you from seeing your true potential.

    I struggled for a very long time and still do at times. For me, some of my issues were fixed by taking control of those things I could control. Eg weight. Some were fixed by seeking help from people I trusted.

    Some were resolved through self reflection, and writing.

    Some through counselling.

    It's worth the work, because life is a much better place when you finally see yourself for who you are.
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