Fat fitness instructors

fteale
fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
edited September 27 in Fitness and Exercise
What do you think? Would you be ok with having a fitness instructor who was significantly overweight? What about PE teachers in schools? Should they be demonstrating what they teach, or is it a case of do what I say, not what I do? What about a personal trainer? Or do you want your fitness instructor to have a body you aspire to?
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  • swenard
    swenard Posts: 101
    I don't see why it matters. I look to the instructor for instructions, no more. I'm not there for inspiration or to compare myself to them.

    Same goes for trainers and PE.
  • laddyboy
    laddyboy Posts: 1,565 Member
    Well, you can look at both sides. Leading by example is huge. Are you telling me to eat clean and exercise but you're fat...really.

    Or you can look at it for what's in their head...the knowledge they have.

    Personally, I work at a school and get asked sometimes if I'm the P.E. Teacher or a Coach. I take it as a compliment.
  • SlowlyLosingLolita
    SlowlyLosingLolita Posts: 93 Member
    I think if they are able to do the stuff themselves, then it's just fine. A lot of large people are pretty active.
    If you can't do what you're teaching,though then I see it as a bit of a set back for those learning.
    In middle school, we had a very large softball coach and she would just kinda yell how to do things at us from sitting on the sidelines-not actually show us. We always ended up just standing around or winging it and hoping for the best.
  • hartsmart
    hartsmart Posts: 141 Member
    to be an instructor you have to be able to do the work, so i wouldn't care what they looked like, as long as they were doing their job. when i was in high school, one of the male PE teachers was a large man, but he rode his bike to work and also coached the football team...
    i say as long as they're not out there instructing a class on health while eating a cheeseburger and dangling a smoke from their lips, then who am i to judge their appearance?
  • WolffEarl
    WolffEarl Posts: 379 Member
    There is a tonne of awesome information available on proper nutrition, good exercising, etc. and a fitness instructor can certainly have all those in her/his mind/repertoire and be able to pass those on, even if she/he is not following the advice:) I can imagine that it is more inspiring to have an instructor whose body is something we want to emulate but I do not think that is necessary.
    After all, most of us are our own fitness instructors (I certainly cannot afford a personal trainer) and nutritionists. I try to set goals for myself and might even find it hard to have a 25 year superfit instructor with superior genetic abilities to "compare" with on my more creaky, almost 50 year old body.
    On the other side, I can still out run, outlast, outplay, and out push up, etc. all my students (mind you they are only Gr. 8 lads and ladies) and try to be a good role model that way. Life is good.
  • beccarockslife
    beccarockslife Posts: 816 Member
    You can be fat and fit. I can run further and faster than most of my thin friends.
  • Suedre
    Suedre Posts: 435 Member
    One of the instructors at my gym leads classes she can't physically do. Yes, it annoys the crap out of me when she has us jump over the step 3,000 times while she's standing there catching her breath. There is another one who is larger than I and could aerobic me right under the table. She's a great teacher and very motivating. I don't care what they look like or what size they are, but I do expect them to be able to practice what they preach.
  • Selphie8
    Selphie8 Posts: 10 Member
    I was going to say, it's like having a male gynacologist. And then I realised that, no, it isn't, because gender isn't something that changes with experience. Theoretically, weight and fitness should, the more exercise you do.

    That said, I study martial arts. My regular instructor is very fit, but the head instructor, who owns the gym, and teaches the other instructors, has a beer belly. So I guess I'd be wary, and doubtful of their abilities at first, but if they were shown to be good at what they did, then that's fine.
  • corieueber
    corieueber Posts: 72 Member
    Personally I'd rather have a fitness instructor that looks like they practice what they preach - that's what l love about the instructors at my gym they are all living what they teach in their classes, one of them had a baby 8 months ago and put on a lot of weight when pregnant and she is a fantastic role model watching her as a working mother working hard to lose her baby weight and get back to pre-baby fitness
  • curleesam
    curleesam Posts: 462 Member
    I was saying this to someone on here yday. Was it you? lol

    The zumba instructor is rather curvy at my gym. I was thinking of taking the class until I saw her taking regular personal training sessions!!

    Personally I want to be taught by someone who is proof of what they are teaching works.

    Sorry if that makes me un-PC
  • debbiequack
    debbiequack Posts: 275 Member
    I am with the person who said they look for the instruction.

    I have had some bad experience with trainers-- they know how to instruct about using weight machines, nutrition, etc, but little about the psychology of change. Almost every one I've ever used has had the "no pain, no gain" attitude and pushed me until I was in such pain that I quit. I've gotten a lot farther on my own (I'm a Psychologist) by going slowly and sticking with it.

    Long and short-- I don't think their body has a lot to do with anything-- it's the knowledge and attitude that make the trainer.

    Best,

    Debbie
  • booberj
    booberj Posts: 69
    I'm all about leading by example... that doesn't mean that an instructor has to be thin to be a good leader though... just able to do what they ask you to do
  • bmontgomery87
    bmontgomery87 Posts: 1,260 Member
    I'm kind of in the middle on the situation.
    Yes you're going to the person for information, and they can be knowledgable and still be overweight, or small.
    But at the same time, I feel like I'd take a fit person more seriously. It would be more obvious that they practice what they preach, and that their techniques worked for them.

    My drivers ed instructor knew how to drive.
    And I'm not gonna take tennis lessons from someone who can't play tennis.
    So I'm not hiring a personal trainer unless they're fit.
  • beccarockslife
    beccarockslife Posts: 816 Member
    I was saying this to someone on here yday. Was it you? lol

    The zumba instructor is rather curvy at my gym. I was thinking of taking the class until I saw her taking regular personal training sessions!!

    Personally I want to be taught by someone who is proof of what they are teaching works.

    Sorry if that makes me un-PC

    What if they are still on their journey though? They could have lost 100lbs to get to where they are which would prove it works.
  • lipglossjunky73
    lipglossjunky73 Posts: 497 Member
    I posted About this in another forum....It doesn't sit well with me. Sorry. I know it's not nice. But the fitness industry is based on being healthy And fit..... And when someone has an excess of body fat, it doesn't communicate a healthy lifestyle.

    I am not talking curvy, or a large frame, or big but with good muscle tone and firm physique, but jiggling around is a no no in my book. I have taken classes with fat instructors, and they were good, but it made me feel uneasy.....
  • MinnieInMaine
    MinnieInMaine Posts: 6,400 Member
    To me, it kind of depends on what I'm in it for.

    For something like an aerobics class where you're burning calories but also (hopefully) having some fun, I wouldn't mind someone who's a bit curvy/chunky (not quite the same as what I'd consider "fat"). In fact, when I went to a fitness conference las fall, the Zumba instructor was a bit curvy and it made me think, if she can handle these moves, I sure should be able to!
    Also, as has been mentioned, I would expect that person to keep going through the whole class, regardless of their body type. Instructors that don't keep moving the whole time seriously bug me - the only exception being if they were moving through the class guiding folks to proper form.

    On the other hand, if I was in the market for a personal trainer who is going to give me nutrition and fitness coaching/advice, I'd want someone really fit who obviously practices what they preach.
  • lipglossjunky73
    lipglossjunky73 Posts: 497 Member
    I was saying this to someone on here yday. Was it you? lol

    The zumba instructor is rather curvy at my gym. I was thinking of taking the class until I saw her taking regular personal training sessions!!

    Personally I want to be taught by someone who is proof of what they are teaching works.

    Sorry if that makes me un-PC

    I don't Get this..... Zumba is a good workout, but it doesn't help someone hit all of their fitness goals. I think is amazing she does other things! Also, when you teach the same class repeatedly, your body needs to be challenged by doing othe things. It has nothing to do with Zumba not being enjoyable to you.

    All athletes use personal trAiners. It doesn't mean whAt they Are doi isn't getting them fit. Of course it is! But personal trAiners help people meet ALL of their fitness goals. Having a well rounded fitness regime is the best thing we can do for ourselves!
  • ajbeans
    ajbeans Posts: 2,857 Member
    Depends on how "fat" they are. I mean, if we're talking majorly obese and they can't show you how to do the moves properly, then no, I wouldn't see them. But if they're able to do it and be a good instructor, then I don't see why it matters. There are a lot of factors that go into weight loss and gain, and for some people it's not as simple as eating right and exercising. Maybe they have a thyroid problem or something. Or maybe they've already lost a lot of weight doing what they're doing (Zumba or whatever), and that's why they've chosen to be an instructor, because they ARE seeing the results. You don't know what a person looked like 6 months ago.

    And speaking of gym teachers, you don't really get to choose who your gym teacher is... but I had an overweight gym teacher. I didn't care much about her size at the time. I only cared that she was a horrible, horrible lady who regularly made me feel like crap because I couldn't do a pull-up, or run a mile without stopping to use my asthma inhaler. For gym teachers, it's less about the appearance and more about the attitude. Meanness has no place in a grade-school gym class. If you make exercise torture, then kids have no incentive to continue to exercise as they get older. I'm not blaming her for my laziness, but I do wish she'd made it more fun.
  • fuzzymel
    fuzzymel Posts: 400 Member
    Weight doesn't bother me but I would want them to be fit and able to keep up with what they are teaching.
  • rybo
    rybo Posts: 5,424 Member
    I would think solely from a "mental" perspective, the trainer/instructor should look the part in order for thier message to more easily be conveyed.

    However they wouldn't have to look like they stepped off a fitness mag either. There is a big difference between someone who is "Fat" & someone who is just a big guy. I've played sports with a lot of "fat" guys who were incredibly agile & quick, and one could even dunk a basketball.
  • ButterflyKristen
    ButterflyKristen Posts: 109 Member
    I am a Certified Group Fitness Instructor. Getting certified does not take much and once you are certified, there is always more to learn. That said, I have been engaging in physical fitness since I was 22 years old, when I quit smoking. I play ultimate frisbee (not frisbee golf, please!), P90X strength training - always using weights heavier than the ones the women in the DVD use, run races, swim, ride bikes, I've been doing plyometrics for years and P90X is a good workout, but I can do all the moves without resting, and I do spinning classes, I used to instruct "Stroller Strides - Fitness for Moms, Fun for Babies" and I just signed up for my first Sprint Triathlon (though I've done one before unregistered). My resting heart rate is 50 to 52 BPM, I have low blood pressure and my LDL and HDL levels are in the very healthy range. I am 40 years old.

    By all accounts I am very fit, much more fit than many of the skinny women I know. However, I am 20 to 30 pounds overweight. All the excess fat is above my knees and below my waist. I have nasty cellulite on my butt and thighs, but every other part of my body looks pretty good. It sucks to be this fit and not be able to wear a bikini w/o embarrassment. I know why I am overweight. My husband and I am are "foodies" as are our friends. We have fabulous dinner parties with awesome food and mind-blowing wine.... and I overdo it. That's it.

    Since I've been on MFP, I have really gotten a better perspective on the little changes I can make to change my physique. Anyway, I am a good instructor even though I do not look the part as much as I would like. with that said, I would not have a problem with an instructor who was a bit substantial, but could do the moves they are leading you to do AND they can explain how to do the moves and motivate you to push yourself. I have had plenty of fit looking instructors who SUCK and instructing and motivating. Also, instructors who aren't model perfect can be less intimidating to the beginning student.
  • ShaeDetermined
    ShaeDetermined Posts: 1,525 Member
    call me shallow, but i think a fitness instructor has to be fit, more fit than me.
    i want to spend the entire class trying to get my form as perfect as his, and get in as many reps as he does...etc
    i want to be able to tell myself - if i keep pushing myself i can look like and feel like THAT.

    that's just me!
  • Mustang_Susie
    Mustang_Susie Posts: 7,045 Member
    One of the instructors at my gym leads classes she can't physically do. Yes, it annoys the crap out of me when she has us jump over the step 3,000 times while she's standing there catching her breath. There is another one who is larger than I and could aerobic me right under the table. She's a great teacher and very motivating. I don't care what they look like or what size they are, but I do expect them to be able to practice what they preach.

    Yep.

    But mostly I want an instructor who knows what they are doing and is a great leader/teacher.
    It is difficult to get in a good work out when your instructor is bumbling all over the place not knowing what they are doing.
    So I guess if they are a little overweight but are great instructors, I'll take it.

    I'm paying to be be instructed and taught.
    Just like people are paying me to be a good RN.
    We both need to do our jobs and do them well.
  • mrogers52
    mrogers52 Posts: 378 Member
    I have had large instructors who were excellent and thin instructors who couldn't teach their way out of a paper bag with a GPS! That being said, I don't care what you look like, you need to be able to teach well.
    I started Zumba recently and have had my but kicked every time. I also do Kickboxing classes.
  • girlinahat
    girlinahat Posts: 2,956 Member
    If you've ever seen how flexible sumo wrestlers are, you'd appreciate that sometimes, it isn't about the shape of a person, it's their abilities.

    For me, I'd want them to be able to do more than I could achieve, and inspire me. But what if you saw your fit, toned, full of energy instructor round the back of the fitness centre smoking a cigarette and chomping on a macdonalds? Would that change your mind?
  • meidson
    meidson Posts: 28 Member
    In my opinion, it is not how a person looks that matters, but how well they can lead a work-out session. Some people can be fit and not look like you would expect because of genetics, age, body-type, etc. There is one trainer at the gym that I go to who looks fantastic (probably because of genetics), but to be honest does not appear to have a lot of muscle and seems to get out of breath easily when leading a group exercise class. There is another trainer at the gym who looks a little over-weight (probably because of genetics), but appears to have muscles and a lot more endurance when leading a group exercise class. :smile:
  • DeathIsMyGift
    DeathIsMyGift Posts: 434 Member
    I'm going to have to go with the unpopular answer here. I am very much about "practice what you preach" so I would not want an unfit trainer. Some people would say that "fat" doesn't equal "unfit" but get real. I may be a little biased because my girlfriend is training me and she does practice what she preaches. Every morning she is up at 4:45 lifting weights. She's very inspirational and helpful. I just wouldn't want to take instructions or directions from someone who hasn't done the work themselves. Again, that's just me. Everyone is different and thank God for that because if we were all robots this world would be super frackin' boring dot com.
  • ButterflyKristen
    ButterflyKristen Posts: 109 Member
    Fitness instructors teach a class or lead an exercise program. They don't "preach". However, if they do "preach" then of course you should practice what you preach, but if I am leading a plyometrics or sports conditioning class and by butt is big, that does not mean that I do not practice that which I am doing and I am not telling people during class how to eat!
  • lipglossjunky73
    lipglossjunky73 Posts: 497 Member
    I need go add this. Being fit doesn't make you a good instructor. But, to me, in order to be considered a good fitness instructor (I am a fitness instructor, btw), you must:

    Embody health And wellness. That doesn't trAnslate into rock hard Abs or 10% fat. It meAns you are fit, able to move, demonstrate proper form, and not have your class be your only workout.

    Be a good instructor. Thats where the motivation and teaching comes from.

    As someone who has been into fitness since a yung child, I love how the industry has changed. It was all about the instructor up on the stage, with this perfect body. There was no interaction with the participants.

    Now, instructors have real bodies, but they should still be realistic examples od what we can achieve with a similar lifestyle. Instructors come off the stage, walk around, interact, lead, and inspire. I love that. But all in all, the message should be, "I have embraced a healthy lifestyle, and you should do. Look at how great it looks and feels to do it! "
  • lipglossjunky73
    lipglossjunky73 Posts: 497 Member
    Btw, I'm on my iPad, hence all the typos!
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