At wits end

auttyrocks
auttyrocks Posts: 3 Member
edited November 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi everyone!

I'm a bit frustrated here.

Before recently (due to my frustration I've been eating cake and candy and ice cream), I was eating under 1500 cals a day, had an active life style, drinking 7-8 cups of water, and cutting out carbs and most sugars (I have a low blood sugar so I never eliminated them completely). I was not losing weight.

In fact I have gained 40 lbs in the past two years. I was 380 lbs. in a years time I lost 125 lbs. I was about 245-255. I was happy and loving life! In five years I have not lost a single pound but continuously gained weight. Now sad, frustrated and feeling like a failure i said F IT ALL!!! And I gained 10 lbs this one week. (Right now I'm at 294 lbs and I'm eating about 2000-2300 cals a day)

I'm sure my thyroid is out of sync with my body. I also was diagnosed with PCOS. I cannot go to the doctor, I cannot afford one. Is there anything I can do to naturally help my thyroid and pcos?! Before I give up entirely.

Thanks.

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  • SergeantSausage
    SergeantSausage Posts: 1,673 Member
    auttyrocks wrote: »

    I was eating under 1500 cals a day

    No you weren't.

  • Kalikel
    Kalikel Posts: 9,603 Member
    Nope, you need a doctor to fix a thyroid. A lot of people will sell you all kinds of things promising that they'll help, but they won't. Thyroid issues can't be solved with food or drinks or oils, dances, etc. You need a doctor.

    I lived with an undiagnosed thyroid issue for decades. It is horrible. My whole life improved when I got fixed.

    Beg, borrow or steal the money, but try to get to a doctor.
  • 1muzicalmom
    1muzicalmom Posts: 8 Member
    I have hypothyroidism, and maybe you can tell by your log if you are getting enough nutrients? I know along with my thyroid testing, I learned that a lot of people who are hypo tend to be deficient in iron, D3, and B12. So, I supplement those based on my labs--but this should be under a doctor's direction. I actually agree with Kalikel that only a good doctor can truly diagnose your issue. I am not completely back to normal, but I feel a lot better since I have been properly treated for the past year. I was eating 1200 calories a day, exercising 4-5 days intensely, was gaining weight, cold, tired, etc. It was awful. You are worth the trip. Your quality of life is important.
  • 1muzicalmom
    1muzicalmom Posts: 8 Member
    And, FYI, if someone is truly hypo, it's like their metabolism is shut down, so you CAN be gaining weight with only 1500 calories a day!---back to saying, only a doctor can properly diagnose.
  • pollypocket1021
    pollypocket1021 Posts: 533 Member
    Generic Armour thyroid is inexpensive, as meds go. There are low cost clinics. Itll probably take a long time to get it, but it can be done.

    For the PCOS, lose weight. It can be done without doctors or medication.
  • auttyrocks
    auttyrocks Posts: 3 Member
    And, FYI, if someone is truly hypo, it's like their metabolism is shut down, so you CAN be gaining weight with only 1500 calories a day!---back to saying, only a doctor can properly diagnose.

    Yes. That's what I'm fear is happening. It's literally like my body burns zero calories.

    Before I became uninsured I went to an endocrinologist who ordered labs and felt a nodule on my thyroid. My insurance was cut before I could go any further with blood work and testing.

    I had surgery two years ago. I was eating very little due to medication nausea. And not keeping anything down. I didn't gain a pound but I didn't lose anything either.
  • pollypocket1021
    pollypocket1021 Posts: 533 Member
    If the tests were ordered and drawn, you can get them at no charge. Call the lab that drew them and have the results mailed to you or go in and pick them up. Knowledge is power.
  • Anonycatgirl
    Anonycatgirl Posts: 502 Member
    Have you looked into getting insurance through the Affordable Care Act? No point in not getting healthcare when it may be an option.
  • ohmscheeks
    ohmscheeks Posts: 840 Member
    How did you lose the 125 lb in a year?
  • BWBTrish
    BWBTrish Posts: 2,817 Member
    How do you know how much you eat?

    do you weigh ALL your solid food on a food scale...so not using cups, spoons or serving sizes
    You only gain weight when you eat more than you burn

    Also with thyroid issues.
    You still can lose weight but you have to weigh all your food that's all. Don't get discouraged you can really do it :)

    I also lost almost 100 pound now, just by weighing my food, counting and logging here on mFP
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    Are you using a food scale?
  • auttyrocks
    auttyrocks Posts: 3 Member
    I can't afford the affordable health care. In my area it's too much a month with no coverage involved. I opted to take the fine because if I were to get sick it would be out of pocket cost until a 5k deductible was met.

    I can go on it but right now finances are too tight to squeeze.

    I lost the 100lbs like nothing! It melted off. I stopped eating out. Started drinking water eating yogurt and no snacking, and also no carbs like pasta/rice/potatoes etc. Suddenly it stopped working. I gave myself a few months and not a pound was lost. I started exercising more thinking I just needed to ramp it up. Nothing was lost.

    Finally, after two years of refusing sweets at BDAY parties I took a small piece of cake. I noticed the following week at weigh in I was heavier. Gradually the weight came back on. I was able to get it off only through extreme measures (IE under 800 cals a day). Frustrated I went off no carb dieting and just did my own thing. (I think my frustration was justified). That's when I gained the 40 lbs back.

    Recently, in January, I cut carbs down and meal portions down. I weighed and counted and measured everything out. (When I lost the 100+lbs I measured nothing. I ate freely as long as it was fruits and veggies and meat or rice cakes). I practiced the same routine with little to no results and the second I ate something off of my diet, I felt bloated and packed on pounds the following week. I went on vacation in May. Left at 280 lbs came back at 319lbs. Two weeks time. I was NOT eating 10k cals a day to support the weight gain. But it happened.


  • BWBTrish
    BWBTrish Posts: 2,817 Member
    when you have a big deficit you lose it easily yes...lots of people dont measure...but when you lose weight and more and more your deficit gets smaller and you need to know as accurate as possible how much you eat
    When you dont measure you dont know.

    And really you didnt gain your weight eating 800 calories a day. You ate surplus and a lot more than you think

    Start weighing your food, you will be amazed and you lost before so you can do it :)
  • fulltimelife
    fulltimelife Posts: 125 Member
    Don't say Eff it all! The fact that you are here and posing a question to us is indicative of your wanting to make changes to get healthier, and to remove some or all of what you had gained. Awesome! Get your profile set up, get MFP to help you figure out what you need calorie wise, make some friends on here for support/advice/inspiration, log your food and exercise daily, keep your diary set to "public', and continue to do what you need to do to make things happen. You can do it. You have done it!

    If you have hypothyroidism, do what you can to find a way to pay for lab tests and medication asap. It won't make the weight come off, but this is for the bigger picture of your health. The nodules must be monitored. PCOS can encourage weight gain, but it is weight loss that will help pcos. Yeh.. I know, right? Beyond that, it will be about eating as healthy as you can, keeping in control of calories, and exercising regularly.

    As someone with hypothyroidism from the time I was a kid, and have PCOS, it is certainly a bad, unforgiving combination. But it's really just a challenge that can be worked with, and some aspects of it can be overcome or at least managed. I work my tail off to take weight off. It's a challenge, but it can and will be done if you make an effort. This means moving more, eating less, and tracking everything that goes into the mouth. You have removed weight in the past, so you already know what to do? This time around, figure out what your stumbling blocks are (at home, at work, within yourself, economically, socially, etc). Learn about yourself, and consider it a life long process. One day at a time.

    I have weighed as high at 308, and am currently about 268. I have put on and taken off large amounts of weight multiple times in my life. Take a look at my profile for more information.

    2000-2300 calories may be a bit too much right now. What does MFP say? What is your goal? What do you have your pounds per week set at? What is your activity level now?

    On April 18th 2015 I had entered "sedentary" as my lifestyle with MFP with the aim of losing 2lbs per week working towards 190 pounds. At 5'10, 308 lbs, I was allotted 1670 calories for the day. I found it imperative to not eat out (rarely ever do anyway), chose nutritious foods over processed/junk food (helped tone down wicked cravings), with plenty of protein and healthy fat, and to get up and moving as much as I can. I bought a Fitbit Charge to track my steps. I figured it would encourage me to move more a little here and there if I could see it tracking all the time. It has been wonderful. In that time Ive gotten used to moving more, and making a point to exercise. My appetite has decreased, and I feel in control on many levels. Little changes can yield big results.

    Every ten pounds removed MFP asks if you want to reevaluate your calorie goal. I kept it as 'sedentary', as I still have sloth days, and some naturally very active days, and some days that I get moving but its challenge. Now I'm allotted 1460 calories, and have to be extra careful and/or make sure to be that much more active every day. I don't eat back my calories, but if I am hungry I will add as much as 50% back.

    I'm still making progress, but that is because I am accountable for it, regardless of hypothyroidism and pcos.

    I hope some of these response have helped you to define your goals, and to see a starting point in the near future, if not right now. Take care. :)

    Friend requests welcome!
  • editorgrrl
    editorgrrl Posts: 7,060 Member
    auttyrocks wrote: »
    I'm sure my thyroid is out of sync with my body. I also was diagnosed with PCOS. I cannot go to the doctor, I cannot afford one. Is there anything I can do to naturally help my thyroid and pcos?

    I have Hashimoto's (autoimmune thyroid disease), and I lost weight just like everybody else—by eating fewer calories than I burn.

    I followed the advice in the Sexypants post: https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/1080242/a-guide-to-get-you-started-on-your-path-to-sexypants/p1
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    Your hormones are not going to be optimal simply because you are overweight and they will not be "correct" until you lose the weight.

    Hypothyroidism and PCOS don't cause weight gain to this degree, it makes it more difficult and may cause slight gains due to increased cellular uptake.

    Get to a free clinic - there is one in nearly every city. Get some blood work and request a full hormone panel and check your TSH, T4, T3, and RT3.
  • WBB55
    WBB55 Posts: 4,131 Member
    We're here to give you support, and we want you to succeed. That being said, if you were my sister or someone I loved, I'd sit you down and very sincerely but sternly say to you:

    Synthetic thyroid medication is extremely cheap. If you can afford enough food to maintain 300 lbs you can afford thyroid medication. You're choosing this path. Choose a new one. Stop playing the victim. Take control of your life.
  • Bshmerlie
    Bshmerlie Posts: 1,026 Member
    There are free clinics and communitiy hospitals in every major city accross the US that will see you without payment. If the homeless can go to the doctor so can you.
  • robertf57
    robertf57 Posts: 560 Member
    edited July 2015
    There are free clinics almost everywhere. The local community health clinic here charges $10/visit if you are low income! CVS pharmacies have a nurse practitioner who can treat hypothyroidism, and in many places you can get a thyroid panel done without a doctor's order.

    I am sorry to say that saying "I can't" is just an excuse. You undoubtedly are eating more calories than you think.
  • Nuke_64
    Nuke_64 Posts: 406 Member
    auttyrocks wrote: »
    I can't afford the affordable health care. In my area it's too much a month with no coverage involved. I opted to take the fine because if I were to get sick it would be out of pocket cost until a 5k deductible was met.

    I can go on it but right now finances are too tight to squeeze.

    You are sick. CT is one of the states that expanded Medicare so if your income is really low, there's that. If not, I suggest you need to prioritize your finances.
  • wkwebby
    wkwebby Posts: 807 Member
    With PCOS, you should be cutting down on your carbs (it doesn't have to be cut out all together, just more balanced with everything else). Research lower carb foods and see if your blood sugar doesn't normalize. You are probably feeling hungry due to those nasty dips in blood sugar after eating carbs. Concentrate on your macros and calorie count. The system will work, you just have to eat right, eat less, and move more. Good luck! :smiley:
  • editorgrrl
    editorgrrl Posts: 7,060 Member
    wkwebby wrote: »
    With PCOS, you should be cutting down on your carbs (it doesn't have to be cut out all together, just more balanced with everything else).

    I use MFP's default protein & fiber goals as minimums, and ignore carbs & fats. It accomplishes the same thing (eating fewer carbs), but feels much less restrictive.
  • tomatoey
    tomatoey Posts: 5,446 Member
    edited July 2015
    robertf57 wrote: »
    There are free clinics almost everywhere. The local community health clinic here charges $10/visit if you are low income! CVS pharmacies have a nurse practitioner who can treat hypothyroidism, and in many places you can get a thyroid panel done without a doctor's order.

    I am sorry to say that saying "I can't" is just an excuse. You undoubtedly are eating more calories than you think.

    Guess what: even MDs and endocrinologists can be kind of crappy at managing complex conditions like thyroid disorders and PCOS. I would not be optimistic about what an NP can do (no offense to NPs).

    Less than ideal care is better than NO care. Except when it isn't, because it's wrong. (But yeah better to see what you can get than nothing, just stay on top of everything.)
  • MorganMoreaux
    MorganMoreaux Posts: 691 Member
    robertf57 wrote: »
    There are free clinics almost everywhere. The local community health clinic here charges $10/visit if you are low income! CVS pharmacies have a nurse practitioner who can treat hypothyroidism, and in many places you can get a thyroid panel done without a doctor's order.

    I am sorry to say that saying "I can't" is just an excuse. You undoubtedly are eating more calories than you think.

    ^^this. Well said.
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