I am eating too little...

You can eat more and lose weight but you have to move more.

natand2boys wrote: »

I can't seem to get my calories up high enough now that I am committed to losing the weight. I think it is out of fear that I won't succeed. I have been 300-500 calories under my goal (less than 1000 calories a couple days). Anyone know how to kick the anxiety and just get healthy? I have never dieted before, this is the first struggle I am having with my weight... that could be why I am such a wreck.

The calories you set with MFP is a goal, not a limit. You should seek to hit the calorie goal, not go way above or below it. Eating too few calories can lead you to get burnt out, can negatively affect recovery, can lead to binges, and a whole host of other problems. You may think you are doing yourself a favor by constantly being way under your goal but you aren't. If your goal is set appropriately then hitting it should result in weight loss at an appropriate rate.

I don't really think of it as a diet. I think of it as just the way I eat everyday. I'm at maintenance now, and I have just completely changed my eating habits to where this is now normal for me.

Anyway, I struggled with the same thing at first - I would have days where I was too scared to eat my minimum. But it is exactly that - a minimum. I went for more of a range, so I would try to do between 1200-1400 calories a day. That helped a lot, and I still lost weight.

If I was still under 1200 after dinner, I would eat ice cream (my total weakness!) or a slice of bread with peanut butter (my second weakness). It got my calories up, and it's just a nice, rewarding end to a day.

If you're eating that little, you're not getting the nutrition your body needs. Silly really, with only that little to lose. Since it's causing you anxiety, I would speak to a professional.

natand2boys wrote: »

I can't seem to get my calories up high enough now that I am committed to losing the weight. I think it is out of fear that I won't succeed. I have been 300-500 calories under my goal (less than 1000 calories a couple days). Anyone know how to kick the anxiety and just get healthy? I have never dieted before, this is the first struggle I am having with my weight... that could be why I am such a wreck.

You recognize this though - and that's a very good thing.

When I started cutting back my calories, I overdid it too. All the other methods of weight loss I'd tried were so complicated and not sustainable for me. Temptations were everywhere... And then along came this philosophy that I could still eat what I wanted and be full, I just had to eat less than what I had been.

It was so easy, I felt like I was doing something wrong, so I purposefully made it harder on myself.

I'm not sure if that personal anecdote is relavant to you at all, but it's just an idea.

What helped for me (not saying I can physically eat my calories every day, but at least it's not a psychological issue anymore) was finding out my maintenance (somewhere between 1950 and 2050, depending on the calculator) and my Basal Metabolic Rate (somewhere between 1250 and 1350). So now I tell myself that if I drop below 1250 (but I try for 1300 at the minimum), I will be hurting myself. I need to eat between 1300 and 1900 every single day in order to make my body happy. And if I stay below 1900, I will loose weight, too. Now, I have never even hit 1500, but it's the thought that counts, and although I have to stay up a little late sometimes so I can force another 100 calories down, I make my bare minimum as much as possible and I feel good knowing that I helped my body grow stronger, healthier and/or better overall Be kind to your body, please. At the end of the day, that is what this whole journey is about, after all.

I am at 1000 calories before exercise a day. Its great for me. Unless you feel hungry, weak or ill then you are probably eating ok. Now the stress and anxiety is not good or normal and I would suggest speaking to your doctor about it asap