My fiance and I broke up this week

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  • janisvin
    janisvin Posts: 72 Member
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    You did good, sister! Keep communicating! You sound like a wise person already. Take care of you and love will come again!
  • Camomilejane
    Camomilejane Posts: 55 Member
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    I do wish you all the very best for the future. You will come through this a stronger person.
  • funchords
    funchords Posts: 413 Member
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    Even though you're right about your points, you sound like you have seller's remorse. You also sound very nice. It's okay. Just feel and vent. It's fine.

    When my marriage of 16 years broke, I went to Staples and bought a 3-ring binder with pockets and some notebook paper like we used in school. Page 1 was my to-do list -- things I had to do to go from "We" to "Me.". Pages 2-whatever was just random thoughts, primal screams, doodles, whatever I felt like writing. The whole notebook provided a compartment for all these thoughts. The To-Do list was invaluable and six-months later, I still had the book but I rarely needed to open it for anything. It was over, and I made it through quite well.

    Good luck.

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