Girls: how should a guy approach you in the gym? Guys: how should a girl approach you??

mitchelsimps
mitchelsimps Posts: 151 Member
edited November 22 in Chit-Chat
Very interested in this!

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  • mitchelsimps
    mitchelsimps Posts: 151 Member
    Anyone??
  • Lifeonmars2015
    Lifeonmars2015 Posts: 667 Member
    look dont leech, l'm there to get my sweat on :#
  • kkarcher94511
    kkarcher94511 Posts: 196 Member
    same, its just not the place. im in the gym headphones blaring and trying contain my pre-workout buz to lift some weights, get my workout done and get out the door.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    As long as it is between sets, I don't care if people walk up and introduce themselves. My old gym was very social so I always enjoyed being there.
  • cristical
    cristical Posts: 126 Member
    I'm married, but I don't mind offering advice for some. I'm shy at first and blush easily, so being directly hit on is embarrassing. I would have responded well to someone asking to work out with me or wanting to exchange tips or weightloss stories. Make her laugh.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    edited July 2015
    You don't. I should add that there are regulars that say hey and all that, but I prefer to just workout and get done.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    edited July 2015
    If I am between sets, I don't mind talking. I may tell someone good set at times, even if I am not waiting on the machine. I treat people as I would like to be treated, whether at the gym or anywhere else. If I see someone is busy, in zone, got the earbuds going, I am not going to interrupt them by trying to talk to them.

    Unfortunately, a lot of ladies get tense and start thinking you want to try and pick them up, just because you pay them an honest compliment or word of encouragement. That general tenor happens outside of the gym as well.
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