Looking for friends 45- and older

Hello my name is Conni and would like to lose around 25lbs, every year since 45 I have gained weight, I now know I have to completely change my eating, can't eat like I use to and expect the weight to stay the same so here it goes, my new old self lol. So if you too are having this issue I would love to share this journey with you. I am also looking for new recipes that taste good and are low in calories.