Wanting friends for support :)

Hi I'm Kiana and I'm 19 and my weight gain was a slow one over the years. It started when my mother was in a horrible marriage and he was incredibly mean to me and my brother and made us all feel like dirt. I gained weight during my last two years of high school and my mum moved away when I started year 12 so I moved in with my boyfriend early in our relationship. The stress from school, being in the state with no family, finacial issues all piled up and I now weigh 89kgs at 156cm so I'm wanting to get back to like 60kg hopefully!