Why do you fear plus size clothing stores?

I just find it hard to find clothes that fit! i have a large bust so my waist size has to be huge and then I look like I am wearing a tent. there is no shape to plus size clothes and I have yet to find a brand that does allow for the curves.

As a man who used to have to buy in the plus-size store, I just hated that they were ridiculously expensive. Some of the pants and shirts had a $20 mark up on them, and they were much cheaper at "normal" sizes in a regular store.

The prices for one. Everything I bought at the plus size shops was about double (which does make sense since it is a lot more fabric). That and there was such a limited quantity of things in my size. All I could wear were "Big Dog" t-shirts or t-shirts of classic rock bands, or a f***ing pocket polo.

I buy what fits my shape...I have an hourglass so certain things look better on me. I don't wear tight clothes, but I don't wear baggy clothes. I think people should embrace what body that they have (even if it is going to change.)

The bad thing about plus-size clothing stores is pretty much always the price, to me. But, it's worth it for good quality!

I have to say, I completely agree that wearing a larger size that fits you better does make a HUGE, positive difference.

That said, I personally find that the selection of clothing and even colours/patterns available to me in plus sized stores are not nearly as good as "regular" stores. The prices also suck.

I also have the problem of wavering around size 14-16, which is AWFUL because its never very available in either regular or plus-sized stores.

To the girl with the big bust, I feel your pain. I went to 7 different clothing stores this past weekend to find a simple dress. Anything that would fit my bust made me look like I was wearing a moo-moo. But the idea of the belt to cinch sounds like a really great idea

About this topic. I've seen ads for plus sized clothing stores and think "wow that's nicer than a lot of stuff I've seen in other stores." I believe I'm thinking of Torid? They had really cute clothes. I didn't really look into the prices, but I have seen in some department stores that the plus sized section seems to have more expensive clothing than the petite section. So it may be an issue of price maybe? I think some people have a mental thing about the size in their clothes too.
I know for a long time if I could get away with wearing a size small shirt I would make myself fit into it somehow. Now I realize that it's stupid to do that because I look better in the Medium or Large or whatever, and it's not like anybody else is going to look at the tag on my shirt or pants and say "oh my you wear a size...!" Guess it's the whole thing of... "I think I can fit into the medium?" Like I want to tell myself right now that I can fit into a size 7 again... but they dont' go past the top of my thighs. Maybe one day....

For me, it's several factors.

1) The price. Yes, it costs more to make a shirt bigger. However, as I also am rather adept at using my sewing machine, I know that the difference between a shirt in size XS versus one in 3XL is about $2-$5 in fabric. Like, it's *ridiculously* little. So I go into the stores and just CRINGE, knowing I'm going to be paying out the backside for clothes that fit... and probably paying $50 for the "convenience" of having clothes that cover my body.

2) The cut. Very nearly everything I've ever seen in plus sizes is designed to be an effing tent. There is nothing else for it. It's like the companies all have collectively decided that there is nothing worse than a fat woman looking good. She must ALWAYS be clothed in tents or robes, and never anything form fitting (not second skin, mind, but cut to curves!) or flattering.

3) The PATTERNS. Oh, GOD, the PATTERNS. Everything is always in some kind of African Safari print. I think it's all the same zoological fabric store. Everything is done up in antelopes, zebra stripes, has big ol' lions everywhere... It's AWFUL. It takes dedicated effort to find something in must a pinstripe, or just plain.

For Men, as my DH is 6'4" 350+

Point 1 remains the same.

Point 2 is a little better, as men tend to wear pretty much the same stuff, and my DH is easy to please.

Point 3 is a non-issue. For some reason, overweight men are not subjected to the Safari Treatment.

However, men get point 4: There is NOTHING in the way of selection. You get to choose from four t-shirts in six colors each, two screen prints, or dress shirts. Pants are about as bad. You get "jeans" or "khakis." The khaki option comes in khaki (duh) or black. Good luck finding socks, and shoes under $150 are a rare treat - even for plain ol' sneakers.

It's not only 'plus-sized' clients who don't know what size they wear! Years ago I worked in retail and it was very difficult to get some women into the size that actually fit them, even though it looked much better!

And ladies, get used to the idea of tailoring. Nearly all women can benefit from tailoring their clothes. You can make a $500 garment look hideous and cheap by failing to tailor it, and a $50 grarment look far more expensive by investing $15 of tailoring. Definitely worth it!

Ive ALWAYS been a big girl. Plus size clothing was all i could fit into so thats what I made myself look good. YES, lots of PS store carry the boring clothes... no style no sense of 'umph' for us bigger women-BUT i learned to accesories. Id wear belts to show my curves, scarves, ect... no need to cover urself up into a bag... show who you are

I was a sz. 26 standing @ 5'0. Im currently a Sz.16. Goal is to be a sz .10.

I have been shopping at plus size stores for most of my adult life. The selection and styles have gotten considerably better in the past few years. I also like the trend of having clothes cut differently depending on your shape because I am curvy with a small waist and getting pants that fit my hips used to be huge in my waste, so I am happy that is changing. Things are more expensive. I have always felt like I deserve nice clothes that look nice and flatter me no matter what my size. Of course I would prefer not to shop in a plus size store and hopefully it will happen soon, but in the mean time I intend to look good.

As a man who used to have to buy in the plus-size store, I just hated that they were ridiculously expensive. Some of the pants and shirts had a $20 mark up on them, and they were much cheaper at "normal" sizes in a regular store.

EXACTLY THIS!!! I used to have to pay 100+ dollars for fashionable jeans, now I can go to the regular stores and pay way less.....I got several awesome jeans recently for under 10$ each.

I also think they are shapeless and not meant to flatter. They assume every big person has a huge waist so shirts I find are always so baggy and the pants had like a huge rise that I could never fill (since I had a smaller stomach in comparison to the rest of me)

I was often tempted to design my own line of plus size clothing for people shaped like me. Now that I am in regular clothing although I have the same shape (hourglass) I find the clothes to be tailored to fit way nicer.

I remember shopping at a plus size store and there was 1 shirt (same design but in about 15 different patters) and stretchy pants in every color imaginable. There was even a pair of pants that were black and white in the pattern of cow hide. I was like....who in the world designed this stuff??!!!! because my choices were to a.) look like I was a pregnant teenager or b) look like I'm the back half of a 2 person horse/cow costume.

I do know fashion has changed and there are more options for plus size people but I do still think the designers skip right over plus size tweens (regular clothes are too small, the ones that fit are made for adults) hmmm