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What can we control? What can we influence?

taso42_DELETED
taso42_DELETED Posts: 3,394 Member
edited September 2024 in Motivation and Support
We can't change or control the past. We can't predict or control the future. But we can influence the future by our actions in the present. Whatever your goals are, whether they are to lose fat, build muscle, or some combination of both, you will get there as long as you do the right thing *most* of the time. There's no time like the present to do the right thing. We're all human and we're all liable to make mistakes or slip up once in a while. Acknowledge any mistakes and move on. Don't try to compensate for them by doing something extreme; this will only lead to a cycle of going back and forth between extremes. Keep a steady pace and keep your eye on the future goal.

We can influence what happens in the the long term and medium term this way. We can't necessarily make a noticeable impact on tomorrow. You might step on that scale tomorrow and see that it went up when you wanted it to go down. That's because fluctuations happen daily. This is a normal fact of life. But did you do all the right things yesterday? Will you do all the right things today? If so, then over time, that scale will move in the right direction.

Keep your eyes on the future goal, and be mindful of what you do in the present. It gets easier every day, to become the ultimate you.

Replies

  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    well said
  • djthom
    djthom Posts: 651 Member
    Very well said, thank you for posting this. It really goes with my mind set today, since I had such a bad day yesterday. My gut reaction was to compensate by eating extremely light today, but I relize it's better to just eat healthy and let it sort itself out.
  • mishelnkiki
    mishelnkiki Posts: 775 Member
    WELL SAID TASO!
  • bzmom
    bzmom Posts: 1,332 Member
    AMEN!
  • wewon
    wewon Posts: 838 Member
    Good post.
  • tellybelle
    tellybelle Posts: 144
    Thanks so much! Great post!!
  • runningneo122
    runningneo122 Posts: 6,962 Member
    HEAR HERE !!
  • mommymovingmountains
    mommymovingmountains Posts: 192 Member
    Very well said ;)
  • rachmaree
    rachmaree Posts: 782 Member
    So true taso, well said.
  • PirateJenny
    PirateJenny Posts: 233
    Thanks, Taso. That is just what I needed today.
  • 512cheangela
    512cheangela Posts: 133
    So, I"m supposed to eat my exercise calories, right?


    Tee hee

    Kiddin'
  • UpToAnyCool
    UpToAnyCool Posts: 1,673
    There's no time like the present to do the right thing...

    It gets easier every day, to become the ultimate you.

    Thanks for the encouraging reminder, Taso.
    As a chronic procrastinator, it's easy to get stuck in the trap of, 'Back on the wagon...TOMORROW'!!!

    Regarding the 'ultimate' me - I would settle for an even 'just less flabbeh' me!!! :laugh: :wink:
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