advice for fat loss/building muscle

cnbbnc
cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
edited November 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
I have 20lbs to lose. I have been eating well and sticking to around 1350cals. Diet has been very high protein (at least 100g daily), moderate fats/carbs. High in veggies with minimal fruit since I was told it's so bad for you.

I'm doing 30mins cardio and lifting weights for another 30mins 5x/wk. I really would like to try to build some muscle, hence higher protein (what I was also told).

Anyway, after a month I'm seeing no results at all. Very discouraged! My scale will not budge at all. Any thoughts on modifying my diet/cals, or my workout? I don't know what I'm doing wrong. :/
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  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    edited September 2015
    You were told fruit is bad for you? Sigh...
    You're not going to build muscle in a caloric deficit. Generally, muscle building requires a caloric surplus as well as adequate protein - it's not going to happen because you're female (less testosterone) and well, you're in a caloric deficit.

    However, you should be lifting heavy weights to preserve muscle mass. These are some good beginner programs;
    • New Rules of Lifting For Women
    • Strong Curves
    • ICF 5x5
    • StrongLifts 5x5

    You need to fuel your body properly as you're lifting too;
    • 0.6-0.8g of protein per lb of body mass
    • 0.4-0.45g of fat per lb of body mass
    • fill rest of calories with carbs

    If you're not experiencing any weight loss, you might be logging inaccurately. Could you open your diary so we can see your logging?
  • pondee629
    pondee629 Posts: 2,469 Member
    No results at all? Are you sure? The scale is not the be all and end all in this endeavor. With diet and exercise we sometimes gain muscle mass, toning and lose in certain measurements while not losing weight. Is you waist thinner, your clothes more lose, do you feel stronger? Positive results not scale related. Re-check for NonScale Victories and report back.
  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    pondee629 wrote: »
    No results at all? Are you sure? The scale is not the be all and end all in this endeavor. With diet and exercise we sometimes gain muscle mass, toning and lose in certain measurements while not losing weight. Is you waist thinner, your clothes more lose, do you feel stronger? Positive results not scale related. Re-check for NonScale Victories and report back.

    I can guarantee she is not gaining muscle while in a deficit.

    No way is she trading off fat loss with muscle mass. i.e. losing 1lb of fat and gaining 1lb of muscle which could cause no scale change.

    Your post contradicts itself.
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    Responding to both of you at the same time. I do feel a bit stronger endurance/strength wise. As far as clothes, I really don't notice anything and my measurements are still the same.

    I don't know if this means I need to be eating more cals to build muscle? I thought if I cut calories but increased my protein that was ok.... That being said, I'm certainly not doing Schwarzenegger weight lifting, but I do notice a slight difference in my arms/quads. It's small, but it's there.
  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Responding to both of you at the same time. I do feel a bit stronger endurance/strength wise. As far as clothes, I really don't notice anything and my measurements are still the same.

    I don't know if this means I need to be eating more cals to build muscle? I thought if I cut calories but increased my protein that was ok.... That being said, I'm certainly not doing Schwarzenegger weight lifting, but I do notice a slight difference in my arms/quads. It's small, but it's there.

    You have to be eating in a caloric surplus to gain muscle, you will also gain fat.

    You have to be eating in a caloric deficit to lose weight, this will include fat and could include muscle.
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    I opened my diary, but I only have yesterday accounted for since I just moved to this app.
  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I opened my diary, but I only have yesterday accounted for since I just moved to this app.

    So you weren't logging with a food scale previously, up until yesterday?
  • juggernaut1974
    juggernaut1974 Posts: 6,212 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Responding to both of you at the same time. I do feel a bit stronger endurance/strength wise. As far as clothes, I really don't notice anything and my measurements are still the same.

    I don't know if this means I need to be eating more cals to build muscle? I thought if I cut calories but increased my protein that was ok.... That being said, I'm certainly not doing Schwarzenegger weight lifting, but I do notice a slight difference in my arms/quads. It's small, but it's there.

    As Isaack said, to build muscle (as in actual muscle mass), you need to be eating maintenance calories at the very least...any sort of deficit and you will not build muscle mass (you need to provide your body something to build with.)

    You can gain strength - that is different from actual muscle mass. Think of it as training your existing muscles to work better/more efficiently.

    When you're at a deficit, you often lose layers of fat which were covering existing muscle mass, often giving the appearance of gaining muscle. But you're not actually building new mass, just uncovering what was already there.

  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    Ok. I get that.

    So basically I have to decide if building muscle or weight loss is my goal. I really don't care what my weight is actually. I just want to have a slight definition/build, minus the fat that's blanketing it. ;)
  • pondee629
    pondee629 Posts: 2,469 Member
    Do you understand the term "guarantee"?

    There are many posts regarding NonScale Victories while not experiencing weight loss. They are all also contradictory?

    If you would like to share information, other than your own unsubstanciated statements, please feel free. We'd all like to learn.
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I opened my diary, but I only have yesterday accounted for since I just moved to this app.

    So you weren't logging with a food scale previously, up until yesterday?

    I've been counting calories/weighing as accurately as I can. For a solid month....

  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    edited September 2015
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I opened my diary, but I only have yesterday accounted for since I just moved to this app.

    So you weren't logging with a food scale previously, up until yesterday?

    I've been counting calories/weighing as accurately as I can. For a solid month....

    I think I can see your problem. Judging diary, all I see is "cup", "x serving", generic measurements.

    These aren't accurate. You're eating more than you think you are.

    Use a food scale.
  • juggernaut1974
    juggernaut1974 Posts: 6,212 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Ok. I get that.

    So basically I have to decide if building muscle or weight loss is my goal. I really don't care what my weight is actually. I just want to have a slight definition/build, minus the fat that's blanketing it. ;)

    Pretty much.

    If you're not really considering weight loss a primary goal, you can look into re-comping (there's an extensive thread about it on the maintenance board). It involves eating very close to maintenance calories, while doing a progressive overload resistance program - like one of the many Isaack listed above. It's a VERY slow process, but can allow you - over a LONG time frame - to lose some fat and build some muscle without having to do separate bulk & cut cycles.
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    edited September 2015
    pondee629 wrote: »
    Do you understand the term "guarantee"?

    There are many posts regarding NonScale Victories while not experiencing weight loss. They are all also contradictory?

    If you would like to share information, other than your own unsubstanciated statements, please feel free. We'd all like to learn.

    Do you understand that you first comment essentially said that this woman (who is here complaining about the lack of progress) is having better results on muscle building/fat loss with the 1:1 ratio you insinuated than a professional male body builder on gear? Do you not see why that's guaranteed to not be happening?
  • IsaackGMOON
    IsaackGMOON Posts: 3,358 Member
    edited September 2015
    pondee629 wrote: »
    Do you understand the term "guarantee"?

    There are many posts regarding NonScale Victories while not experiencing weight loss. They are all also contradictory?

    If you would like to share information, other than your own unsubstanciated statements, please feel free. We'd all like to learn.

    If you read what I said;
    pondee629 wrote: »
    No results at all? Are you sure? The scale is not the be all and end all in this endeavor. With diet and exercise we sometimes gain muscle mass, toning and lose in certain measurements while not losing weight. Is you waist thinner, your clothes more lose, do you feel stronger? Positive results not scale related. Re-check for NonScale Victories and report back.

    I can guarantee she is not gaining muscle while in a deficit.

    No way is she trading off fat loss with muscle mass. i.e. losing 1lb of fat and gaining 1lb of muscle which could cause no scale change.

    I'm only referring to the OP.

    Sure, you can gain muscle in a deficit.

    Is it hard? Yes, pretty hard.

    A 1:1 ratio of fat loss and muscle growth?

    >mfp logicz
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member

    [/quote]

    I think I can see your problem. Judging diary, all I see is "cup", "x serving", generic measurements.

    These aren't accurate. You're eating more than you think you are.

    Use a food scale.
    [/quote]

    I have a scale. But if a bag of frozen veg says 2/3cup, I measure it that way. Still, I'll be more conscious of portions. Thanks.

  • saucesofit
    saucesofit Posts: 16 Member
    From a female prospective, I found that I finally was happiest after I took the time to actually work at gaining muscle (and the fat that came with it) without worrying about the "look" for awhile. That fact is that women have a hard time gaining muscle and when you get down to it you're going to have to be in surplus to really make gains in that area.

    Mentally this can be challenging because 1) we are conditioned to want to be thinner and 2) there is a preconceived notion among women that muscle means bulk. Heck, I thought that too. But I will be the first to tell you that really heavy, focused lifting finally started to give me that "toned" shape I saw on fitness magazine covers. It's something that I probably never could have accomplished with light weights like all those magazines suggest.

    If you want to change the shape of your body you have to put in time. For me that meant gaining weight, lifting heavy and later focusing on losing fat. I took one goal at a time, gain muscle first - cut fat second, and in the end was much happier.
  • WBB55
    WBB55 Posts: 4,131 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I have a scale. But if a bag of frozen veg says 2/3cup, I measure it that way. Still, I'll be more conscious of portions. Thanks.
    That same bag will give that same measurement in parentheses after it in the weight in grams. Use that instead of the cup measure. Especially for things like fats, nuts, butters, salad dressings. But preferably for EVERYTHING :)
  • PinkPixiexox
    PinkPixiexox Posts: 4,142 Member
    Fruit isn't bad for you! :)
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    Fruit isn't bad for you! :)

    Isn't that crazy? This is why I've left that other weight loss app in favor of mfp. Fess up to eating a couple fruits and you risk being berated for sugar consumption as if you just ate an entire cake. I bought into it for a couple weeks, but....no.

    I just bought a bag of apples. ;)

  • debtay123
    debtay123 Posts: 1,327 Member
    Good for you- weight loss is calories in/ calories out- eat at a deficit- and weight loss will come- mine has been slow- but still i am finally losing
  • PinkPixiexox
    PinkPixiexox Posts: 4,142 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Fruit isn't bad for you! :)

    Isn't that crazy? This is why I've left that other weight loss app in favor of mfp. Fess up to eating a couple fruits and you risk being berated for sugar consumption as if you just ate an entire cake. I bought into it for a couple weeks, but....no.

    I just bought a bag of apples. ;)

    Good for you! :)
    :D! Healthy habits are the way forward!
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,055 Member
    WBB55 wrote: »
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I have a scale. But if a bag of frozen veg says 2/3cup, I measure it that way. Still, I'll be more conscious of portions. Thanks.
    That same bag will give that same measurement in parentheses after it in the weight in grams. Use that instead of the cup measure. Especially for things like fats, nuts, butters, salad dressings. But preferably for EVERYTHING :)

    Cosigned. You will be surprised. Some foods you will get more, some less.

  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,055 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Fruit isn't bad for you! :)

    Isn't that crazy? This is why I've left that other weight loss app in favor of mfp. Fess up to eating a couple fruits and you risk being berated for sugar consumption as if you just ate an entire cake. I bought into it for a couple weeks, but....no.

    I just bought a bag of apples. ;)

    What was the other app?

  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    WBB55 wrote: »
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I have a scale. But if a bag of frozen veg says 2/3cup, I measure it that way. Still, I'll be more conscious of portions. Thanks.
    That same bag will give that same measurement in parentheses after it in the weight in grams. Use that instead of the cup measure. Especially for things like fats, nuts, butters, salad dressings. But preferably for EVERYTHING :)

    cosigned. X 2
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    WBB55 wrote: »
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I have a scale. But if a bag of frozen veg says 2/3cup, I measure it that way. Still, I'll be more conscious of portions. Thanks.
    That same bag will give that same measurement in parentheses after it in the weight in grams. Use that instead of the cup measure. Especially for things like fats, nuts, butters, salad dressings. But preferably for EVERYTHING :)

    This, becaue the measurment on the bag is usally MORE than the grams in the parens beside it. At least, that has been my experience. Calories add up over time.
  • cnbbnc
    cnbbnc Posts: 1,267 Member
    [/quote]

    What was the other app?

    [/quote]

    Surprisingly.....myplate.

  • sherbear702
    sherbear702 Posts: 650 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    I have 20lbs to lose. I have been eating well and sticking to around 1350cals. Diet has been very high protein (at least 100g daily), moderate fats/carbs. High in veggies with minimal fruit since I was told it's so bad for you.

    I'm doing 30mins cardio and lifting weights for another 30mins 5x/wk. I really would like to try to build some muscle, hence higher protein (what I was also told).

    Anyway, after a month I'm seeing no results at all. Very discouraged! My scale will not budge at all. Any thoughts on modifying my diet/cals, or my workout? I don't know what I'm doing wrong. :/

    Wait, what? Whoever said fruits are bad for you needs to pull their head out of their @$$. That's just plain old wrong.
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,084 Member
    cnbbnc wrote: »
    Ok. I get that.

    So basically I have to decide if building muscle or weight loss is my goal. I really don't care what my weight is actually. I just want to have a slight definition/build, minus the fat that's blanketing it. ;)
    Get your body fat down and you'll achieve both.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    edited September 2015
    A couple of observations/suggestions:

    If you only have 20 lbs of weight/fat to lose, you're pretty close to your goal. It may take several months to see much change in measurements if you're already been exercising in a similar routine or on the scale (due to water retention). Many people have a very hard time losing that last 10-20 lbs and it's often very slowing going, especially for women. So you may have to put in a good 3-4 months to see much changes in measurements/scale weight for where you are.

    Calorie cycling -- this is a strategy that some use to take off fat while trying to maintain as much LBM as possible in a deficit. Leangains is a good example. The gist is that you need to be hitting your protein goals every day (min of 1 g per lb LBM or some will just say 0.8 g per total weight to be conservative) and then you eat a higher percentage of carbs on lifting days and a much lower percentage on non-lifting days. Generally, you're lifting 3-4 days per week. The idea behind this is that you benefit from the high carbs on lifting days for the insuligenic response you get which aid in recovery/muscle building. And on non-lifting days, you eat low carbs so as to reduce the amount of fat you gain.

    The amount of overall calories varies on your goals. Fat loss is primary than you have a weekly deficit but try to create that deficit on your non-lifting days and eat maintenance on lifting. If you're recomping, slight surplus on lifting days and corresponding deficit on non-lifting days so your overall weekly deficit is nill. If you're gaining muscle, then eating more of a surplus on lifting days and maintenance on non-lifting days.

    Intermittent Fasting -- some have also found this helpful. There are different types of IF. Some will do a 16/8 or 14/10 daily cycle where you only get your calories in for 8-10 hours a day (for many, this means they just skip breakfast). Some will do something with longer fast cycles like 5:2 where you're fasting 2 days per week and eat the other 5. 5:2 in particular has been shown to help with insulin resistance, so if that's an issue for you, it may be particularly appealing. I personally found no difference with the daily cycles, but did with 5:2 -- even when the weekly caloric deficits were nearly identical. Others find great results with the daily cycles. So, it really varies on the individual.

    These two methods are not guaranteed to work for you, but they do work for many. And many incorporate one or the other into a calorie cycling regime as well (just make sure you're not doing a full fast day when you lift -- bad idea).
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