What do your husbands/wifes say?

I am doing this with my fiance. I try to help him and comment on his noticeable differences, He hasnt said anything about me yet. We just talk about food and calories and what to eat and then i cook it. For support i go to this forum. He works out 3 times a week for 20 minutes on the bowflex and getting results and i workout everyday doing everything.

My husband doesn't really notice, either... like a lot of you said, it IS hard for someone who sees you every day to notice the subtle differences! But he is incredibly supportive anyways. He lets me indulge when I need to (HRM, sports bra), he listens to me go on and on about things, and he lets me cook whatever I want and doesn't complain. He is constantly telling me how proud he is of me. But not in the sense that he loves me more now or is more attracted to me, just that he is proud that I am doing what I want to do and that I am taking care of myself.

He can tell, however, when I put together the "before-and-after" pictures. Every time I make a new one, his reaction is always the same- "holy *kitten*!" ... LOL... I love it!! :laugh:

DH is super supportive. He was always kind with his comments when I was heavier and sweet about my body even when I was pregnant. He will make note of little changes that I might not pay attention to (i.e. your calves look awesome!) and he thinks to comment about my motivation which is super sweet. :happy:

My hubby has only seen pictures of me via the internet. He is deployed but ummmm the things he says that will transpire when he gets me alone...ummmmm help! LOL

My husband has always found me attractive no matter my weight but he is enjoying my recent slimming. I've still got a long way to go but already he's quite appreciative of how I'm looking. He actually noticed the changes before I really saw anything. Of course I'm probably my own worst critic. I've lost 23 so far and two pants sizes but I still look in the mirror and don't see much difference. I'm waiting for my brain to catch up with my body.

My husband LOVES the new/old me! I was this size, well actually smaller when we met, so after 2 kids, I am finally back to my starting weight! Well, almost Just about 5 more lbs to go, but my confidence is back and that was ONE of the things that attracted him to me in the first place

My wife always jokes that I am turning into a "Skinny Mickey". I am a big Disney fan so I thinks it's funny. But honestly I am trying to get back down to the weight I was when we were first dating. I have already lost the sympathy weight I gained while she was pregnant last year. So now I am down to the final 17 to get back to the lightest I've been since we we've been together and then a few more pounds to reach my goal. Skinny is not my goal, but being fit is. And she seems to appreciate the dances I do in my boxers for her to show off my runners legs. :laugh:

Unfortunetly My husband does not support me in this...I believe he is part of the reason I'm so fat, (. Although I know ultimately it's my choices that got me here) but still........my children are very supportive as well as my mother and at the end of the day it's my choice, And I CHOOSE NOT TO BE FAT ANYMORE AND JUST TO TRY TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES.

My husband is the one who got me started back on focusing on my weight. He recently started riding a rode bike and has lost an amazing amount of weight and so he supports me with this endeavor. I haven't been on here for a very long time yet but he has said that he has noticed that there is less there on my sides (my muffin top) and I had to laugh at the way he said it