Cheat meals or cheat days

MiSo_SeXy
MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
edited November 2024 in Health and Weight Loss
How many extra calories do you consume on these days? And do you exercise on these days? I'm meeting up with friends tonight and so I'm using tonight as my cheat meal but I'm so nervous about how much i can go over in my cal intake... Any advice?

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  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
    edited October 2015
    MiSo_SeXy wrote: »
    How many extra calories do you consume on these days? And do you exercise on these days? I'm meeting up with friends tonight and so I'm using tonight as my cheat meal but I'm so nervous about how much i can go over in my cal intake... Any advice?

    Change your goal to maintenance calories. You'll be fine. Have fun. Plan better next time. I eat light all week long so I can go out on the weekend
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    Ive been doing cheat meals once a week but ive always stayed under 2000 cals for the day... So i haven't really had huge set backs.. But now im scared to go over that intake...
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    I'll try that! Thanks liz!
  • atypicalsmith
    atypicalsmith Posts: 2,742 Member
    Just log it and get over it.
  • Liftng4Lis
    Liftng4Lis Posts: 15,151 Member
    Go, have fun, log it and move on. It's one day.
  • mandarkio
    mandarkio Posts: 62 Member
    As long as you don't go over maintenance you won't gain, today's figure just won't count towards the week's deficit. to gain 1lb in weight you would need to eat 3,500 calories over your maintenance amount, so it's kind of hard to gain from one cheat meal. log and move on :) have fun tonight and really, don't fret!
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    I no longer believe in "cheat" anything...meals, days....I spent years worrying about weight, numbers, my body...Now, finally.....I just live life; I eat thoughtfully and enjoy all I eat...I love my peeps well, and often....As for my calorie goals? If I happen to go over by a few calories every now and then, oh well, it's not the end of the world. Life is all about being happy, being healthy, and being the best ME I can be.....xo
  • ahoy_m8
    ahoy_m8 Posts: 3,053 Member
    The splurge days are the most helpful to log (or rather, failing to log them distorts your data the most). Enjoy yourself, and to the best of your ability, log every bit.
  • lauraleefaith
    lauraleefaith Posts: 578 Member
    Definitely cheat meals. It would take me awhile to come back from a cheat day which I'm not entirely opposed to.
  • hotasfire36
    hotasfire36 Posts: 235 Member
    queenliz99 wrote: »
    MiSo_SeXy wrote: »
    How many extra calories do you consume on these days? And do you exercise on these days? I'm meeting up with friends tonight and so I'm using tonight as my cheat meal but I'm so nervous about how much i can go over in my cal intake... Any advice?

    Change your goal to maintenance calories. You'll be fine. Have fun. Plan better next time. I eat light all week long so I can go out on the weekend

    This
  • hotasfire36
    hotasfire36 Posts: 235 Member
    I use to cheat a whole day, but decided to eat at maintenance on Saturdays. I still log on that day.
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    Ok. I'm going to Keep my intake at maintenance numbers and log my cheats and enjoy myself:) thanks everyone!
  • KrisiAnnH
    KrisiAnnH Posts: 352 Member
    I dont use the word 'cheat' because I feel it's too negative, I think of them as 'treat' meals, sounds much better! If you're semi-regularly having 'cheat' meals maybe think about working to a weekly calorie goal not daily. I try to stick to a weekly calorie goal with the exception of one day where I'll eat to maintenance.

    As long as you dont go nuts, one meal probably wont make any noticeable difference (apart from maybe water weight fluctuations for a day or two after). Just eat to maintenance and enjoy it!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,847 Member
    I don't have cheat meals or cheat days.

    I have had one "celebration day" once in the 7 months I've been here. :)
  • kathrynjean_
    kathrynjean_ Posts: 428 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    I don't have cheat meals or cheat days.

    I have had one "celebration day" once in the 7 months I've been here. :)

    This is perfect!!

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,847 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    I don't have cheat meals or cheat days.

    I have had one "celebration day" once in the 7 months I've been here. :)

    This is perfect!!

    :grin:

    It was my husband's and my 7th anniversary. :)



  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    Machka9 wrote: »
    Machka9 wrote: »
    I don't have cheat meals or cheat days.

    I have had one "celebration day" once in the 7 months I've been here. :)

    This is perfect!!

    :grin:

    It was my husband's and my 7th anniversary. :)



    Perfect X2!
  • PinkPixiexox
    PinkPixiexox Posts: 4,142 Member
    I have a bit of a habit of turning my cheat days into cheat months ;)

    I've had 'non tracking' days! I don't believe I particularly over-eat on these days but I do allow myself food I wouldn't normally have on my 'tracking days'.

    Don't worry about going over your calories for your night with your friends! You're a human, not a robot. Enjoy your evening, log what you consume if you can - otherwise, let it go. Tomorrow's a new day and a fresh set of calories. You aren't cheating, you're winning!
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    You guys are all so awesome! Thank you for the advice and support! Last night went well :)
  • amyepdx
    amyepdx Posts: 750 Member
    Isn't that a great feeling the next day??
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    I do neither. I fit the foods I like into my calories/macros as I can.
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,451 Member
    edited October 2015
    It should be a treat meal.
    It should be logged as best you can so that you have (as valid as possible) data.

    It should not be a free for all cheat day where you make up for lost time and "enjoy" all the things you "deprive" yourself off.

    Totally different mindset.

    You WILL "gain" a disproportionate amount of weight the next day.
    It is NOT fat.
    Not unless you eat 3500 Cal x however many lbs your scale moves ABOVE your maintenance.

    Usually the weight change is because of excess sodium and associated water retention.

    Water weight changes being an order of magnitude larger than fat weight changes is the reason why I so strongly advise people to start using Trendline Weight tracking applications NOW.

    Libra for Android.

    Happy Scale for iphone.
    :
    www.weightgrapher.com for manual logging (can also import fitbit data, and can superimpose your previous n-day period, useful to cut-through monthly hormonal weight gains) and

    www.trendweight.com automatically connected to free fitbit account for daily weight entry.

    Log it and forget it. At most it will derail your weight loss a little bit.

    if you "regularly" do this... adjust your other days by -100 to give yourself a bit of extra room on that one day. Don't go nuts the day before and the day after setting yourself up for rebounds and perturbations of your regular routine!

    If you regularly feel the need to go double or triple your daily calories... you may want to re-examine the level of your daily calories and whether the level of deficit you've chosen is sustainable and proper.

    Proper deficits, in my opinion would be 10% to 20% of TDEE (25% of TDEE while still obese) as long as net food intake remains above BMR.... at around this level I believe you maximize weight loss while minimizing un-desirable side effects. Your mileage and beliefs may vary ;-)
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    Oof... That scale is super pricey...
  • biodigit
    biodigit Posts: 145 Member
    Make it a cheat meal rather than a cheat DAY. over eating throughout the day can negate the entire week's deficit. If you must, then just have a cheat meal without having to worry about the calories! :)
  • MiSo_SeXy
    MiSo_SeXy Posts: 210 Member
    Yeah i think it's way easier focusing
    On a meal than a day... I was a wreck after i ate last night but then i logged and i didn't feel as crazy when i saw the numbers lol...
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