Starting out ideas-Short term goals

Obsidyan
Obsidyan Posts: 11 Member
I am starting on a lifestyle weight loss change in my life. I have a significant amount of weight to lose (200+lbs) which seems very very very very (yes that's a LOT of very's) daunting to me. I am thinking of creating short term goals for myself because looking at the long picture makes me want to curl into a ball hide my head and not come out.

My question to all you out there is this: Have any of you guys created short term goals, what were they, which ones worked better than others?

Thanks in advance for your help! :smiley:

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  • 257_Lag
    257_Lag Posts: 1,249 Member
    Absolutely!

    #1 Lose SOMETHING
    #2 Lose 10 pounds
    #3 Get to XXX pounds
    etc

    I never would have made it without tiny goals along the way.

    Best of luck you you and congratulations for getting started!
  • susanmc31
    susanmc31 Posts: 287 Member
    I've made different goals - some are weight goals (usually at 10 pound increments) and other are fitness goals. I find both goals work well for me but sometimes the fitness goals are a little more attainable.

    My fitness goals always have to do with lifting more than I did the previous time or running longer then I did before.

    Congratulations on starting on here, wishing you all the success in the world!
  • Jennloella
    Jennloella Posts: 2,286 Member
    my goals never went around weight or pounds lost. Maybe focus on getting around the track (or a mile on a treadmill) faster each time. Lifting more each time....etc what ever exercises you're doing, look at improving that every time....the results will follow. I also used to take recipes I loved and experiment with making them healthier for my husband. it was a challenge, and we still eat what we love because of it.
  • agbmom556
    agbmom556 Posts: 694 Member
    Yes, short term goals work for me. I accepted the truth that in order to complete a long term goal, I have to break it up to small steps. Otherwise, I feel overwhelmed. (I have another 40-50 pds to loose)

    #1 bought me a fitbit, 10,000 steps 5 days a week.
    #2 bodypump class 2 days a week
    #3 Planned to complete another 5K this winter. It is called running under the lights. The park in our area has a huge light display for the holidays and the run begins as soon as the sun goes down. I am looking forward to it :o)

    Congratulations on getting started. I sent you a friend request.
  • Obsidyan
    Obsidyan Posts: 11 Member
    Thanks everyone! :) I'm thinking of making my short term goals and mixing them up. My first goal will be to lose 10 lbs (I've lost 7 already but I don't count them because I had to have surgery a few weeks ago and more than likely the weight loss was from not eating while recovering). I'd like to give myself rewards for reaching my goal. Does anyone else do that?

    Agbmom-I didn't get the request. maybe there is a delay?
  • Obsidyan
    Obsidyan Posts: 11 Member
    Agbmom- HAH.. right when i hit post it came through. :)
  • agbmom556
    agbmom556 Posts: 694 Member
    :)
  • IILikeToMoveItMoveIt
    IILikeToMoveItMoveIt Posts: 1,172 Member
    edited October 2015
    I've set nested short, medium and long term goals with rewards. Rewards are small and large depending on the achievement. I broke up my losses into three major parts. (SW 276)
    These are big rewards;
    First, overall weight loss goal. Laser hair removal. I hate shaving my legs! 179bs
    Second, onderland. Fly a plane. 199lbs I have to be under 200 to do this one.
    Third, halfway. 100 dollar or less piece of equipment. 228 lbs

    Then, my medium ones.
    Get back to pre-pregnancy weight. Kettleball 231lbs
    Get back to where I was before I fell of the wagon. Pearls 221 lbs
    Then the small goals are every 5 lbs and I get an inexpensive item I REALLY want. Under 20 bucks.
    They have ranged from equipment on sale, to jewelry or cute underwear...

    I exercise for fitness, not for weight loss. I do CICO, but I still set work out goals. This includes days where my goal is to do 1 wall push up. I can do that and while I end up doing more, even if I didn't, it'd still be more than I would have done.
    I started pushing goals for 30 secs at a time after a minute on my elliptical when I got it. Now I can do 40 mins. where once I could barley do 3 mins.
    I do an initial 5 minutes on my bike and set little goals while I'm on it. Like get my HR up to 140 and keep it there for 30 secs. Or don't let my HR get lower than 111 bpm.
    I do weights by sets and set goals to how many reps and sets I can get in. I do stuff like how many heel raises can I get in during the minute I'm at my microwave etc...

    Food goals. Aside from daily allotted calories, my goals have been find nutritional AND the lowest calorie foods that are super cheap and delicious.
    Other goals; Intermittent fasting for a week or low carb for a week. One week at the low end of my calorie range while the next week at nothing above maintenance...

    You can mix all of these to work for you! Create your own and experiment with what works for you. Because it IS a journey and part of that journey is tweaking what will and won't work for you...

    It's not enough to be motivated because you won't always be. BUT if you have determination and perseverance, forgive yourself when you fail sometimes, (we all do)and generally stick to your ideals, it'll pay off and you'll be so proud of yourself.
    I've been doing this over a year and while I'm a little over halfway there, I'm already super proud of myself for what I have accomplished and it's bright horizons no matter what. (Even when I'm stalled.)
    And when this part of my journey is completed, I will start the next one. Recomp etc when it's time for that. Maintenance , taking what I've learned and applying it for the rest of my life, will be my ultimate goal.
    We can do it!!

    edited to add- I'm currently at 219lbs with a 56 lb loss...
  • Obsidyan
    Obsidyan Posts: 11 Member
    Thanks! Those are GREAT! :)
  • IILikeToMoveItMoveIt
    IILikeToMoveItMoveIt Posts: 1,172 Member
    :)
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    I started slow with weighing and logging for a week. It gave me a baseline and let me see what I needed to change. Then, I started with swapping out soda when I eat out for unsweet tea with Equal. That would knock 200-300 calories A DAY with just one simple change, and doing that for a couple of weeks gave me a bit of confidence to keep going.

    It's actually a good idea to celebrate small goals as well as big ones. Maybe start with making sure you get into the habit of logging every day. I had to bribe myself to do so, but it worked and now it feels weird NOT to log! XD Find small milestone goals in your big one. Maybe celebrate every 10 pounds lost, since that's a good point to recalculate your calorie goals anyways. Celebrating those small successes helps you keep going on the way to the big one.
  • cocates
    cocates Posts: 360 Member
    I think it's personal preference for setting goals. For me, it's easier to break my weight loss in 10lbs pieces.

    Rewards are fun, but ultimately, the biggest regard is the feeling of losing weight/being healthier. The rewards should match in weight loss. For example, your first 10lb loss, a nice pair of yoga pants. Your first 25-50lb weight loss, a spa massage, etc, but not a new car for your first 10lb loss. :lol:
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
    I basically have a new goal for every 10 pounds, plus fitness goals plus assorted goals, like a BMI under 40/35/etc. There's never a time when my next goals are more than about a month away.
  • Obsidyan
    Obsidyan Posts: 11 Member
    cocates wrote: »
    I think it's personal preference for setting goals. For me, it's easier to break my weight loss in 10lbs pieces.

    Rewards are fun, but ultimately, the biggest regard is the feeling of losing weight/being healthier. The rewards should match in weight loss. For example, your first 10lb loss, a nice pair of yoga pants. Your first 25-50lb weight loss, a spa massage, etc, but not a new car for your first 10lb loss. :lol:

    OHHH.. i love the idea of a new car!!! but alas, too broke for that. I was thinking of some makeup, nail polish, etc. for 10 lb goals.. :) Stuff I'd like and can afford but never bother to get because i don't feel good about myself. :)
  • cocates
    cocates Posts: 360 Member
    [quote="OHHH.. i love the idea of a new car!!! but alas, too broke for that. I was thinking of some makeup, nail polish, etc. for 10 lb goals.. :) Stuff I'd like and can afford but never bother to get because i don't feel good about myself. :) [/quote]

    ^^Those are great ideas!

  • H34v3nlySinsx3
    H34v3nlySinsx3 Posts: 65 Member
    My short term goals were not set on just weight but around the lifestyle changes I needed to make as well.

    I started with daily small goals from stretching everyday to the 30 day challenges such of the Plank Challenge.

    I started with small eating goals like to simply cut soda out of my diet to now completely revamping my entire way of eating.

    I started with weight goals focusing on how much I wanted to weigh, not how much I wanted to lose. This way when I seen the scale it was more mentally satisfying to see under 200 rather than seeing I lose 10 pounds

    Hope this works! Let me know if you have any questions. And good luck!
  • tayloralanj
    tayloralanj Posts: 137 Member
    All good ideas/points.

    I think the one thing you have to be through it all is flexible and don't let the "bad" days get you down, because it's going to happen. Much like my 401k that will have no $$$ left in it by the time I need it,,,,,,just keep investing and although there will be ups and downs, in the end, it'll be up, in this case, it will be down (the lbs).
  • natyack
    natyack Posts: 56 Member
    I've started using SUPER short term goals. Like, each meal is a goal. When I buy lunch, I ask myself "can you handle making a healthy choice RIGHT now?", same with dinner. And I tackle workouts the same way. "Can I workout today? Don't worry about tomorrow or the next day, but can I workout today?". It just makes the decision less weighted.
  • IILikeToMoveItMoveIt
    IILikeToMoveItMoveIt Posts: 1,172 Member
    natyack wrote: »
    I've started using SUPER short term goals. Like, each meal is a goal. When I buy lunch, I ask myself "can you handle making a healthy choice RIGHT now?", same with dinner. And I tackle workouts the same way. "Can I workout today? Don't worry about tomorrow or the next day, but can I workout today?". It just makes the decision less weighted.

    That's a great one too!
  • nancybuss
    nancybuss Posts: 1,461 Member
    GREAT responses already. YES to short term YES to mixing them up and YES to Non-Food rewards
    I read your profile and so sorry people have lead you in some bad directions. Here's to your Lifestyle change and a NEW LIFE!