Please help before I give up

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  • tallvesl99
    tallvesl99 Posts: 231 Member
    you're doing well...but if you are burning more than you are eating you will lose weight...GET A SCALE. it will keep on track...I promise it won't bite and it will help you keep your promise to yourself...just consider it a tool, not a judge of who you are.. all the best to you!
  • ColinsMommaOC
    ColinsMommaOC Posts: 296 Member
    Perhaps, if you do not want to know what the scale says, you can go to a friend/family member and ask them to look for you and put the number into any one of hundreds of online calculators to figure out how much you should really be eating. Or, you could go to a Dietitian/Certified Nutritionist and ask them for help.
  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    No need to know your current weight if you are certain you are obese, do the TDEE method. It works as well or better than any of the online calculators.
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    edited November 2015
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Wha????? Or should I say..wtf? Do you have back up to support 7000 calories is a pound while at a loss?
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Wha????? Or should I say..wtf? Do you have back up to support 7000 calories is a pound while at a loss?

    Yes, I do.

    1. Martin, C.K., et al., Effect of calorie restriction on resting metabolic rate and spontaneous physical activity. Obesity (Silver Spring), 2007. 15(12): p. 2964-73.

    2. Thomas, D.M., et al., Why do individuals not lose more weight from an exercise intervention at a defined dose? An energy balance analysis. Obes Rev, 2012.

    3. Dr Kevin D Hall, et al, of the effect of energy imbalance on bodyweight, Aug 2011


    (And, I also have the reference for the old 1950's study suggesting 3,500/lb.)
  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Funny that, the 3500 calorie per 1lb rule has worked for me so far.
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Funny that, the 3500 calorie per 1lb rule has worked for me so far.

    Right. but, that will change with time. The slope is not a straight line, it's a curve.

  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Funny that, the 3500 calorie per 1lb rule has worked for me so far.

    Right. but, that will change with time. The slope is not a straight line, it's a curve.

    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic
    ScreeField wrote: »
    ScreeField wrote: »
    It's time to chuck the 3,500 per pound rule. It doesn't work and only serves to create unrealistic expectations.

    The 3,500 value is based on science from the 1950's when a researcher calculated the amount of energy gained by burning a pound of fat.* Not really an accurate representation of the real world. New research supports roughly 7,000 deficit per pound of weight loss (on an actual living, breathing human), but this amount is not static, it changes.

    *this is how calories from food are derived: very simply you put the food in what's basically an insulated oven, light it on fire, and calculate how "hot" it gets (i.e. how much energy it releases). Calories are a unit of measure (of energy).

    If you are losing weight, good job. You are doing it right.

    Funny that, the 3500 calorie per 1lb rule has worked for me so far.

    Right. but, that will change with time. The slope is not a straight line, it's a curve.

    Curve. Never. Not according to my chart or many of the others I have seen.
  • bmayes2014
    bmayes2014 Posts: 232 Member
    edited November 2015
    Can I just encourage you and say that you are actually doing really well! I would LOVE to lose 18lbs in 3 months!! I would like to suggest you have a friend, professional (dietitian or trainer) or loved one (someone you trust that will not judge you) read the scale if you feel that you are not emotionally ready. They can assist you in calculating your TDEE and caloric deficit goal. I also suggest a food scale and a heart rate monitor (Garmin, Polar, etc.) to calculate your burn. These are just suggestions and tools to assist.

    BE ENCOURAGED AND DON'T GIVE UP!! There is lots of support here. You are doing really well!
  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.

    Ok A link with a calculator that doesn't work properly. That shows a inset circle with a trend. Not all trends are this way. Is that what your trying prove? Where is the link that shows 7,000 calories is a pound at a loss. Im curious.
  • CoffeeNCardio
    CoffeeNCardio Posts: 1,847 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.

    It told me with an 800 cal deficit I would get to goal in 12 months. But I've lost 18 lbs in 2.25 months on here, exactly two pounds a week, as predicted, and that puts my goal on 3rd April 2016... so 7 months...
  • CoffeeNCardio
    CoffeeNCardio Posts: 1,847 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.

    It told me with an 800 cal deficit I would get to goal in 12 months. But I've lost 18 lbs in 2.25 months on here, exactly two pounds a week, as predicted, and that puts my goal on 3rd April 2016... so 7 months...

    "Current intake is 2396 calories."

    it also says this, but I don't understand why. I'm netting 1200 cal/day, and my TDEE is like 1880 something....
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.

    Sorry it confuses you, but I can't tell you when/if your rate of loss will change because there are too many variables. That's part of the message. If I were to burn 1 lb of human fat in a vacuum, it would produce 3,500 calories of energy. However, none of us live in a vacuum--well, at least I don't and don't know anyone who does. Here's an explanation that may help from the FAQ page:

    Q: The current calorie intake at the bottom of the calculator seems a lot higher than what I think it should be. Why?

    A: The current intake formula was fit to data from a large group of individuals that varied in age, gender, height, and weight. However, despite the quality of the database, the formula still only explains about 60% of the variation in intake between individuals. What this means is that remaining 40% of the variation in calorie intake between individuals is due to factors other than age, height, gender, and weight. For example, variation may be due to how much routine physical activity you conduct on a daily basis or fluctuations in your weight that deviate from weight stability. With a physical examination and more direct clinical measurements, we could provide improved estimates than the one provided here with only knowledge of your age, height, weight, and gender.


    After reading the study, I came to my own hypothesis that diet alone is more likely to match the 3,500/day rule. But, once you factor in exercise, might as well throw the math out the window due to changes in FFM, FM, and metabolism. And, the closer you are to a goal weight, the less you'll lose under the same caloric deficit, but again, this is just my assumption based on reading the study. The best thing to do is read it and make your own judgement.
  • VintageFeline
    VintageFeline Posts: 6,771 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »

    I may be stupid but I can't get the calculator to do anything, I don't know what that last value is supposed to be.

    Aside from that, you could just explain to me why my rate of loss hasn't changed and when it will change, as I asked, given you're the one insisting this as fact.

    Sorry it confuses you, but I can't tell you when/if your rate of loss will change because there are too many variables. That's part of the message. If I were to burn 1 lb of human fat in a vacuum, it would produce 3,500 calories of energy. However, none of us live in a vacuum--well, at least I don't and don't know anyone who does. Here's an explanation that may help from the FAQ page:

    Q: The current calorie intake at the bottom of the calculator seems a lot higher than what I think it should be. Why?

    A: The current intake formula was fit to data from a large group of individuals that varied in age, gender, height, and weight. However, despite the quality of the database, the formula still only explains about 60% of the variation in intake between individuals. What this means is that remaining 40% of the variation in calorie intake between individuals is due to factors other than age, height, gender, and weight. For example, variation may be due to how much routine physical activity you conduct on a daily basis or fluctuations in your weight that deviate from weight stability. With a physical examination and more direct clinical measurements, we could provide improved estimates than the one provided here with only knowledge of your age, height, weight, and gender.


    After reading the study, I came to my own hypothesis that diet alone is more likely to match the 3,500/day rule. But, once you factor in exercise, might as well throw the math out the window due to changes in FFM, FM, and metabolism. And, the closer you are to a goal weight, the less you'll lose under the same caloric deficit, but again, this is just my assumption based on reading the study. The best thing to do is read it and make your own judgement.

    I figured it out. I used my start weight and my current deficit. It's way off, I've lost double what it thinks I would.

    I exercise. I still fit the 3500 calorie rule.

    And after this post I'm not sure what you, or the inaccurate by their own admission website calculator you linked to, are trying to say.
  • Francl27
    Francl27 Posts: 26,371 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »
    Okay, how long? Because I'm 37lbs down with that rule of thumb so far and nothing has changed, my rate of loss has been stable the entire time.

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    Totally useless calculator because you can't change the number of calories that you eat... I exercise every day and my TDEE is nowhere as high as what it tells me.

    I've seen the 'new' calculators though and they make no sense whatsoever either - it claims that if you want to lose the weight slower or faster, it won't be the same amount of calories to lose a pound, which just makes no sense... I can't imagine why you'd need to burn 3000 calories to lose one pound if you want to lose one pound in 1 week, but 3500 if you want to lose one pound in 2 weeks.

    So I'm not quite convinced...
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015

    Ok A link with a calculator that doesn't work properly. That shows a inset circle with a trend. Not all trends are this way. Is that what your trying prove? Where is the link that shows 7,000 calories is a pound at a loss. Im curious.

    I provided the source articles. See my first reply to you above. The #2 source is a very good read. I am more interested in the research than the calculator--it's interesting to see how everyone skipped the research and went straight to the calculator.

    I guess "what I'm trying to prove", or rather in my own words, my message to the OP is: not to worry, you're doing nothing wrong. Everyone loses weight at a different rate. We shouldn't beat ourselves up over mathematical formulas invented on spherical cows that live in vacuums.

    She's doing a great job, no reason to be down about it.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    edited November 2015
    ScreeField wrote: »

    Ok A link with a calculator that doesn't work properly. That shows a inset circle with a trend. Not all trends are this way. Is that what your trying prove? Where is the link that shows 7,000 calories is a pound at a loss. Im curious.

    I provided the source articles. See my first reply to you above. The 2 source is a very good read. (oh, and the calculator works great for me)

    I guess "what I'm trying to prove", or rather in my own words, my message to the OP is: not to worry, you're doing nothing wrong. Everyone loses weight at a different rate. We shouldn't beat ourselves up over mathematical formulas invented on spherical cows that live in vacuums.

    She's doing a great job, no reason to be down about it.

    You are misleading the community with wrong information. 7000 calories is not a pound at a loss..

    YOU ARE GIVING MISLEADING INFORMATION. PERIOD!

    You copied and pasted information from a biomedical website regarding thier calculator that doesnt work properly. Then made a statement about a circle on a trend. When in fact weight loss in linear not circular.

    THIS, I guess "what I'm trying to prove", or rather in my own words, my message to the OP is: not to worry, you're doing nothing wrong. Everyone loses weight at a different rate. We shouldn't beat ourselves up over mathematical formulas invented on spherical cows that live in vacuums.

    Your own statement. Noone elses, so take your own advise. ^

    For the OP.. Congrats on your loss. keep it up!




  • lpadancer
    lpadancer Posts: 20 Member
    ScreeField wrote: »

    The researchers created a calculator here:

    http://www.pbrc.edu/research-and-faculty/calculators/weight-loss-predictor/

    But, there are a lot of variables. Read the study.

    I could be wrong, but this calculator does not seem to decrease calories eaten as the BMR decreases. You're right in that you can't just take 1000 calories off your current intake, never adjust that number, and expect to lose at the same rate. Of course it slows down. You need to adjust your intake to the needs of your current body.
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015

    You are misleading the community with wrong information. 7000 calories is not a pound at a loss..

    YOU ARE GIVING MISLEADING INFORMATION. PERIOD!

    You copied and pasted information from a biomedical website regarding thier calculator that doesnt work properly. Then made a statement about a circle on a trend. When in fact weight loss in linear not circular.

    THIS, I guess "what I'm trying to prove", or rather in my own words, my message to the OP is: not to worry, you're doing nothing wrong. Everyone loses weight at a different rate. We shouldn't beat ourselves up over mathematical formulas invented on spherical cows that live in vacuums.

    Your own statement. Noone elses, so take your own advise. ^


    For the OP.. Congrats on your loss. keep it up!


    Wow, I completely apologize for upsetting you so badly.

    However, there is no misrepresentation on my part at all. I'm fascinated by the research and it fit the thread. Here's a quote from the author:

    In an interview, Dr. Hall said the longstanding assumption that cutting 3,500 calories will produce a one-pound weight loss indefinitely is inaccurate and can produce discouraging results both for dieters and for policy changes ...

    Here's the NY Times' write up of the research (also source of above quote). It's a bit easier to understand than the journal article:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/20/health/20brody.html?_r=0


    And, another from Runner's World:

    http://www.runnersworld.com/weight-loss/biggest-weight-loss-myth-revealed

    quote from Runner's World: What’s realistic? According to Hall, in the first year of a new weight-loss program, most overweight people will lose about half the weight that the 3,500-calories rule predicts. In other words, over 12 months, the new rule is 7,000 calories = one pound. (The math changes slightly over shorter and longer periods of time, with few managing to lose weight beyond 12 months.)

  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    Seems this thread has been derailed.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    edited November 2015
    ScreeField wrote: »

    You are misleading the community with wrong information. 7000 calories is not a pound at a loss..

    YOU ARE GIVING MISLEADING INFORMATION. PERIOD!

    You copied and pasted information from a biomedical website regarding thier calculator that doesnt work properly. Then made a statement about a circle on a trend. When in fact weight loss in linear not circular.

    THIS, I guess "what I'm trying to prove", or rather in my own words, my message to the OP is: not to worry, you're doing nothing wrong. Everyone loses weight at a different rate. We shouldn't beat ourselves up over mathematical formulas invented on spherical cows that live in vacuums.

    Your own statement. Noone elses, so take your own advise. ^


    For the OP.. Congrats on your loss. keep it up!


    Wow, I completely apologize for upsetting you so badly.

    However, there is no misrepresentation on my part at all. I'm fascinated by the research and it fit the thread. Here's a quote from the author:

    In an interview, Dr. Hall said the longstanding assumption that cutting 3,500 calories will produce a one-pound weight loss indefinitely is inaccurate and can produce discouraging results both for dieters and for policy changes ...

    Here's the NY Times' write up of the research (also source of above quote). It's a bit easier to understand than the journal article:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2011/09/20/health/20brody.html?_r=0


    And, another from Runner's World:

    http://www.runnersworld.com/weight-loss/biggest-weight-loss-myth-revealed

    quote from Runner's World: What’s realistic? According to Hall, in the first year of a new weight-loss program, most overweight people will lose about half the weight that the 3,500-calories rule predicts. In other words, over 12 months, the new rule is 7,000 calories = one pound. (The math changes slightly over shorter and longer periods of time, with few managing to lose weight beyond 12 months.)

    You shouldn't believe everything on the internet.
    A caloric adjustments would be taken in effect according to weight loss. Still a pound is 3500 calories. Losing or not. Weight loss is not linear not circular. It simply has nothing to do with the OP and has derailed the thread. Your link for a calculator loss is broken and inaccurate like the links your so fascinated with.
  • ScreeField
    ScreeField Posts: 180 Member
    edited November 2015
    You shouldn't believe everything on the internet.

    This my dear, is so very true. Nice quote :)

    I actually came across the original journal articles in a library. Since the articles aren't all online for free, had to find substitutes to link to (per requests for sources) which is what led me to NY Times, Runner's World, etc.

    I'm curious, what's the source of the statement that weight loss is linear?