Looking for help and friends.

My names Amanda and I'm 22.
I'm 11.4lbs and I'm looking to get to 10 stone. I want to lose minimun of 1lb a week. My fat seems to go mainly to my stomach and I have love handles that I hate and want to get rid of.
I struggle when it comes to keeping a strict healthy eating diet. I have a gym membership and I have just bought DVD's to help lose weight.
I need friends who will help keep me motivated and maybe help with food ideas and exercises I can do to keep it interesting.
I've always been Insecure about my weight and I don't want to be, so I would really like to change so I feel better about myself and maybe I could help other people too.

Thanks