Starting again

I just can't seem to keep up with this. But this time I've gained a lot of weight. Due to having a fiance that likes to eat fast food and me being more lazy because it's Winter here and my daughter is older and walking so I don't have to carry her around or hover over her as much as I used to.

So,today i'm trying to stay under my intake. I was given 1,770cals/day. So far..I've eaten 909 cals and it's only 3pm now. For some reason when I woke up at 7am (way earlier than I usually do) I was starving so I had a breakfast burrito that was 288cals. Then when I woke up at 11am I had an actual breakfast. That was two pieces of bacon, apple and cinnamon oatmeal, and two eggs..that was 421 cals. Then I had a guilty moment a few minutes ago and had some m&ms and that was 200 cals. I do measure on the food scale. Haven't exercised at all since it's been cold but I'm going to try the Wii fit again...it's not much but it's something for now, since my asthma has been acting up due to the cold.

I have no idea how to spend those last 800 something cals..I have an issue with stress-eating and eating late at night. I keep getting on here for a bit then getting sad and stopping everything. That's when I gain weight. On top of that, I live with my mom and sis until my fiance, daughter, and I move in together in a month or so. My sis is on a diet herself because she's having health issues. But my mom...her eating habits are crazy, I don't see how she hasn't gained a lot of weight. But she cooks these big meals for dinner and breakfast sometimes. So when I wake up I just eat that because it's already fixed up. I've cut down on the fast food..even though for some reason my fiance is losing weight even though he's eating fast food at least twice every day. And if I get any then I don't eat much else for the day because that tales up almost all of my intake.

But what is healthy and filling? What do I even do? I haven't lost weight since I had my daughter. And I stopped breastfeeding so the extra burn from that is gone. I have a thing for sweets all day, especially at night. I keep trying to divide my meals into a certain number of calories (like 400 cals/meal) but it doesn't work out too well. All the weight goes to my thighs and stomach. My arms have gotten a little bigger. But it's my stomach and thighs. It is especially noticeable on my stomach because I had a c-section last September and my stomach is kind of flopping over. I understand that may not totally go away but I'd like to make it smaller. I've noticed when I wear clothes, there's like a very wide "U" shape and I have a fat roll above that. I'm definitely wider. I do have an hourglass figure. When I turn to the side, my stomach doesn't stick out much. I've learned from seeing my daughter grow that it must be hereditary for our weight to go to our thighs more than anywhere else.