Apartment situation - help!!

My husband and I just moved into a new apartment on the 1st. Awesome place, awesome price. We love it. The first day, the leasing agent said the first couple of spots were for apartments x through x, but there was NO assigned spots. If we have more than one car, we're to park them behind each other. Cool. We did that. The second day, we get this woman knocking on our door. She tells my husband that she "knows you're new and all, but we have assigned spots, and yours is on the end" Oh really? So apartments 1-12 have assigned spaces...and apartment 7 is on the very end? No, no you just want the spot RIGHT in front of the steps. So I called the landlord to make sure, because we honestly didn't want to step on toes. She told me no, no don't listen to her, she does this to everyone. The next day everyone got an assertive note from the leasing agency saying basically, leave other residents alone, there isn't assigned parking etc, if you have an issue to call her at blah blah. That was great! She handled it, I loved it! I pull the note in around 9am when Justin went to work. Around 11AM I hear a knocking on the door. I waited, another knock. Then "MA'AM. MA'AM!" Oh no, no I'm not answering. I looked through the peep hole, bam. Same woman.

I call the landlord again, tell her she's yelling at my door, what the heck. The landlord tells me oh, oh no, you don't put up with that. If she does it again, feel free to once again not answer, or if I did answer, to just tell her to call the landlord and close the door. Today, I go to leave the apartment and notice a bag of trash between our apartment and the one next door. I figure someone set it there for a second and they'd throw it out. Didn't really give it a second thought. I come back, 6 hours later. Still there. IN FRONT OF OUR DOOR. RIGHT AT THE DOOR. I move it and open the door, and ask Justin what's with the trash. He freaks and says he's moved it twice so far, back to between the apartment doors, and it magically keeps getting moved in front of ours.

It's the weekend, so the leasing agency isn't in, but I called the landlord and left a message explaining the sitch. I also left a note on the trash saying it isn't ours, and it shouldn't be put in front of our door let alone left out in the hallway. Very polite note. We really aren't trying to rock the boat. We JUST moved here. And the give away? Newport cigarettes in the bag. I've seen her and her husband or boyfriend smoking Newports.

I have no idea what to do at this point. The landlord is pretty on her game, but honestly, if someone is putting TRASH in front of our door? Are you kidding me? Is this harassment? I mean, I know I can't prove it was them, and it honestly may not have been, but what the heck? I'm really beginning to get frustrated. We signed a 12 month lease, I love the apartment and the neighborhood. But really? My husband is concerned if someone is doing juvenile crap like this, what's to stop them from doing crap to our cars? Our last apartment I had my windows busted in and my ipod stolen out of my glove box.

Any advice? At this point I'm waiting to hear back from the landlord, but I'm just frustrated and a little worried, coupled with some confusion!!