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Hello everyone, My names Cassandra I'm 21 years old, I found this site a few months ago, but for some reason never took advantage of it, instead I went off in my own and lost 27 pound in about two and a half months ( obviously not in healthy manner) I started with only eating 1000 calories and by the end of it I was only eating about 600 a day. i'm back up to 1200 calories a day but I still have 100 pounds to lose but I cant and refuse to do this to my body anymore.

Did anyone have this problem when they first started dieting?

if so.

How did you break these horrible habits?

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  • CassieLEO
    CassieLEO Posts: 757 Member
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    OMG hun you must have felt like crap eating such small amounts of calories. Like you obviously know, starvation is not the way to go and is not any way to sustain your life in the long run. If this hard for you to switch over to a healthy way of losing weight than you might want to see a nutritionist and maybe even a therapist who can help talk you through this long process. And it IS long process. It takes months and it teaches you to be patient and enjoy every single loss. You might lose weight quick like this now, but it would have stalled out really quick. And you know whats even worse? You were losing weight so fast that if you kept up with it, you would have some very loose skin and it wouldnt look right. What you are doing now is much healthier and waaaaay better for you in the long run.
  • beckusjane
    beckusjane Posts: 112
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    You may have already seen this message. I put it as a blog on my page. I truly think this helps when people feel like they are stuck and not sure what to do to continue. I dont want you to give up. I KNOW you can do this:) I also know there is strength in numbers so feel free to message me anytime if you are having issues throughout the day. I can check in daily with you if you would like:)

    Just so you know, this may turn into a novel:) And dont go strictly by any of this. What works for one person may not work for someone else. We did a "Get Fit, Get Healthy" challenge at my work for 8 weeks. I lost about 22 lbs. and 5% of my body fat. We had to do certain things to get points for the challenge. These are the things we needed to do:

    *64 oz. of water each day. This does not include coffee, juices or kool-aid. Now you can have 64 oz. + juices but you must drink 64 oz. When you do drink juices, they have to be 100% juice. Easy enough right? Grape juice, apple juice, orange juice. Tomato juice too but the sodium is ridiculous in it. I'm sure if you want some of that it would be ok for a change. Just dont make it your only juice.

    *7 hours or more of sleep. This can be hard if you have small children or just a hectic schedule. If you are able to lie down for a nap during the day, you can count that, but it is much better if you can get 7 hrs straight.

    *Eat breakfast within 2 hrs of waking up. This is a hard one. Some people just cant stand eating first thing in the morning. I usually grab something quick like an apple or a banana.

    *5 servings of fruits/veggies a day. Pretty straight forward. Again this is where your juices come in. You can use 4 oz. of fruit juice as a serving of fruit. For the record, jelly beans are not a fruit even if they are fruit flavored. :)

    * 210 minutes of cardio a week. Now you can get this walking, biking, swimming, yardwork (raking and push mowing count) snow shoveling is a BIG one but obviously it will be a few months til we can do that again and I dont mind a bit!! Now it doesnt matter how you break this down as long as you do a minimum of 10 minutes for any time you are counting it. You can do more than 210 minutes of course if your schedule allows.

    *Toning with free weights or stretch bands 3 times a week for 10 minutes a piece. You can definitely do more than 3 times. That is only the minimum. Sometimes I will use my free weight and incorporate them into my aerobic routines.

    That's it. Those are the simple rules I am following and the weight is coming off. You dont want it to fall off all at once. If it does, then you're doing something drastic and the chances of sticking with it are slim. Working it off slowly is the best ticket. Making small changes makes it easier to become lifestyle changes not temporary fixes.

    Also, I tend to stay away from white flour. You can eat breads, potatoes and pasta in moderate amounts but it is much better for you if you eat whole wheat breads and pastas or sweet potatoes. Dont get worried about the fact that there are about as many carbs in whole wheat pasta as there is in the regular. It's better for you~trust me!!

    Another trick that helps? If you have time, measure out a serving of your snacks. Use ziplock baggies and have them ready to grab and go. I usually have pretzels, animal crackers stuff like that ready so that I dont have to think about it. If I just try to sit with a bag of pretzels, pretty soon Ive eaten half the bag but if I have a true serving size packaged, I know when to stop.

    If the idea of this process is overwhelming, dont try to change everything at once. Maybe work on 5 fruits/veggies and once you have that figured out, then try 64 oz of water. Keep adding a step to it til you are on your way to healthier choices.

    Good luck. Hope this helps:)

    Becca
  • EmmaShorter
    EmmaShorter Posts: 298
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    that was some good advice becca! Thanks.
    Welcome to MFP. Hope this site helps you out as much as it is helping me out. Feel free to add me if you like.
  • cassmsta
    cassmsta Posts: 75
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    Thank you all for the advice and support, I do not plan on starving myself again, honestly I didn't even realize that I was doing it until the second month.

    beckusjane, Thank you so much for letting me know about that challenge, Once I get back to a normal eating schedule I definitely plan on completing the 8 week challenge. Until then the water intake, extra sleep and veggies definitely couldn't hurt :)
  • lannahgirl
    lannahgirl Posts: 96 Member
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    One trick of drinking that amount water is.......64oz sounds like a lot right which it's 8-8oz glasses of water but I only drink Dasani bottle water the bottle is 16. something oz so if I drink 4 of them that's the 64 ounces but I drink more then 4 thou......good luck! oh and the ziplock idea is a great one I make a big salad and divide it up in the baggies so everytime I want a salad I just grab a bag instead of having to make one each and everytime!