People at my church seem to dislike, ignore and try to get away from me, especially this one girl wh

ashbashala12
ashbashala12 Posts: 1 Member
edited November 26 in Chit-Chat
People at my church seem to dislike, ignore and try to get away from me, especially this one girl who was about to leave on a trip so this was her last week at church for a while, so at the end of the service she went around to everyone in the room and hugged and said goodbye to them. She did this with everyone except me. Why is that? Why would she just completely pass over me.. And when I walked out to say bye she just ignored me. I have asked in the past if I did or said anything to upset or offended her but she said no everything is fine. Then why does she just ignore and try to get away from me?
Also, she seems to be out of town a lot lately and skipping church meetings. I am wondering if she is out of town as an excuse to get away from being at church groups because she wants to get away from me.

 


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  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,646 Member
    I couldn't find an appropriate time to tell you, but your fly was down...
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    ashbashala12 wrote: »
    People at my church seem to dislike, ignore and try to get away from me, especially this one girl who was about to leave on a trip so this was her last week at church for a while, so at the end of the service she went around to everyone in the room and hugged and said goodbye to them. She did this with everyone except me. Why is that? Why would she just completely pass over me.. And when I walked out to say bye she just ignored me. I have asked in the past if I did or said anything to upset or offended her but she said no everything is fine. Then why does she just ignore and try to get away from me?
    Also, she seems to be out of town a lot lately and skipping church meetings. I am wondering if she is out of town as an excuse to get away from being at church groups because she wants to get away from me.

     


    Maybe your following her around the church makes her uncomfortable. Sometimes people just don't like others. You don't have to be friends with every one. Realizing this and not taking it personally is part of being an adult.
  • ald783
    ald783 Posts: 688 Member
    I do not for the life of me understand why, but this exact post gets posted on various message boards on other websites sporadically. It's not even a good troll post. At least make it controversial!
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    If these are the type of People that are at your Church then maybe this is not a good Church anyway! Going to Church is supposed to be about fellowship and family! Unfortunately there are many who call themselves "Christian" who are anything but and are very far from being Christlike! A Real Christian loves everybody and would not shun or disrespect another person! I myself have left many churches after seeing and hearing a lot!!! Move on Sweetheart and try another church... or a few. You will find that Church Family and Fellowship that you desire. Blessings Luv! :)
  • vingogly
    vingogly Posts: 1,785 Member
    Don't waste your time responding to this. Search for the string "People at my church seem to dislike, ignore and try to get away from me" in Bing or Google. You'll see that this exact post appears on many different forums over the past couple of years, under different names. I have no idea what the payoff is for the persons (or company) involved since there doesn't seem to be a spam link associated with these posts. However, sometimes a post like this will be made on a forum, then later followed by a spam post.
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