Here I go again....

Well,here goes... I'm now 35,and as unhealthy as I've ever been in my life! I've had a 25 yr long struggle with my weight,during which I've lost, maintained,& then regained it all back+more! But I'm done with that lifestyle! My body is beginning to feel the effects of all these yrs of unhealthy living! It's now or never! Looking for any positive friends and feedback, especially for tips & advice for what's worked for y'all...