i am new

I'm new here and would love support and motivation along with new friends I have been doing this battle for awhile I started sept 29 2014 and I have done a lot of things nothing seems to fully work for me I have a fitbit so new with understand that I have heard counting calories work so I decided to try it out . I love meeting new people and I need motivating to keep at something and I can't talk to family or friends they say I'm fine the way I am and don't need to lose but I'm not happy I go to 205 and bounce back up I need push anyone willing to be my friend and help push me