I'm struggling and need Motivation

actually you have to think about it, if you give up now you'll have more to lose and it will take longer. Take a deep breath, relax......and start fresh. It takes effort and I've given up a few times and started again, but now instead of 50 lbs to lose I have 76. My biggest thing is weeding through all the wrong calorie posts to find the correct ones, now they are busy verifying everything and that helps cut down on the time it takes to post everything. I'm also a creature of habit when it comes to food, I can eat the same thing day in day out, but my husband can't so I have to think of him too. Even after 9 years I know it can be done, I have done it before....of course I was 40 then and it was easier, but someway somehow I will get it done and you will too -- got my first mud run coming up in July so I am concentrating on getting some strength in these muscles....a goal really helps