Weight loss while marriage is falling apart.

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  • blue_eyes1978
    blue_eyes1978 Posts: 127 Member
    edited February 2016
    amyvanblaricom wrote: »
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy wrote: »
    Define "Emotional affair"

    She cam first and only thing left for us was a physical relationship. I was pretty well ignored and he did everything with her but take her on dates and have sex with her.

    This man sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too!!

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    I'm sorry for what you are going through!

    I hope you are able to move on without him he he is trying to emotionally control you. He wants you and her he is selfish and only thinking of himself.. I am not sure how the other woman feels but chances are he is telling her only what he wants her to know... HE is the one who deserves to be hurt!
    I hope you come out strong in the end and can brush yourself off and move on!!

    Take care..

    Lift weights, run, find a hobby and don't let it be catering to him!!
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  • gillianomeley
    gillianomeley Posts: 16 Member
    I hate the fact that this site doesn't have a like button!! But exactly @blue_eyes1978
  • Triplestep
    Triplestep Posts: 239 Member
    Amy, be strong and also be careful. I haven't read all the replies so I don't know if this has been brought up yet, but your husband is clearly pushing to make this your decision; most likely this is for emotional reasons (he does not want to see himself as the guy who leaves his wife and kids for another woman) but later he will be able to say to a lawyer or judge that he did not end the marriage - it was your choice.

    Sorry to bring this up when you are nursing your heartbreak, but try to take a moment this weekend to document some of what's happened. Jot down a timeline of their relationship and yours. Do not leave the home you share, even if he won't. This is going to suck for sure, but the process you started to get healthy will serve you and your children well when things are emotionally trying. Take care!
  • Armstrong2409
    Armstrong2409 Posts: 63 Member
    If he want to be poligamist with u my opinion from a guy's point of view is he is confused and wants both , not satisfied loves u but doesn't want to lose u , but then again has never loved u if he wants to do that, my girl and I ? We are best friends , don't need that *kitten* lol
  • TGMotorcycle
    TGMotorcycle Posts: 23 Member
    I was going through the same thing a few months ago, I left him and I am with a wonderful guy now. I still need to get my divorce and my husband calls me constantly begging me to go back to him. He has not changed he is living with his girlfriend he will never be happy with just one and I will not be happy knowing that he will cheat no matter what. I have decided to lose weight for me and get healthier for myself and move on
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