Getting Married need to make a change.

Elizabeth, congrats on your upcoming wedding!!! That is so exciting!

I've been very happily married for 12 years now and think it's one of the best parts of my life

I have 80 lbs to lose myself and I'd like to get at least 60 of it off by Sept. because my baby sister is getting married then and I will be seeing a lot of friends and family that I haven't seen in many years, pictures will be taken and I'll have to buy a nice dress - I just want it to be a day I can enjoy and not worry about if my dress fits etc.. So obviously not nearly as exciting as your motivation but a similar time table for us.

I'm pretty new too and my advice isn't so novel -- just take it one bite at a time. Eat the best choices from what you have and don't worry about perfection. Progress. Cut out as much processed/junk food as you can and add in as many fruits/veggies/lean proteins as you can. I'm not a picky eater but I cook for a family of picky eaters and sometimes "better" is the best we can do.

I sent you a friend request hoping that we can support each other on this journey!

Based on the amount of post, it looks like you're new to MFP. I would recommend not to focus right now on what to cut out. Start with learning how to track your food. Even if you go over your calories every day. The hardest part of changing your habits is learning that every bit counts. As you get used to tracking and learn the balance each food has between calories and how long it keeps you full, you'll automatically start choosing the right foods.

The most important thing to keep in mind is not to do anything drastic. If you cut out too many foods you're used to eating you'll burn out.

Feel free to send a friend request if you need/want any support.