are some folks actually happy being extremely overweight?
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Sirius66TheBeat
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Maybe its because I know how I feel about myself...hating how overweight I am but actually doing something about it now...but are there extremely overweight people that have no problem with it?
I only ask because I saw a commercial for that show about the fat woman..My Big Fat Fabulous Life..and she seems to be so happy to be fat. "Empowered" because she's fine with being fat. Is she just full of crap?
I only ask because I saw a commercial for that show about the fat woman..My Big Fat Fabulous Life..and she seems to be so happy to be fat. "Empowered" because she's fine with being fat. Is she just full of crap?
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Sirius66TheBeat wrote: »Maybe its because I know how I feel about myself...hating how overweight I am but actually doing something about it now...but are there extremely overweight people that have no problem with it?
I only ask because I saw a commercial for that show about the fat woman..My Big Fat Fabulous Life..and she seems to be so happy to be fat. "Empowered" because she's fine with being fat. Is she just full of crap?
I think she's full of crap. She may be happy with her life and finding a way to love herself for being overweight. BUT, I think it's just for the show thinking she LOVES her weight.0 -
some people are just happy in the skin they're in. I remember seeing an advert for a show about a woman who was intentionally eating a ridiculous amount of cals to become the most overweight woman in the world. It's hard to say how someone elses mind set works though0
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I think you can be happy DESPITE being extremely overweight, but I don't think many peoples happiness is caused by being overweight.0
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I think she's also lying to herself. Sometimes I feel ok because I was anorexic, and I actually really hated myself for loving how thin I was. But I could finally fit into almost anything and look good- I was breaking down emotionally because I began to feel like I'd never be skinny or pretty enough. But now I've let myself go to the point where I'm struggling with gestational diabetes. I just want to feel healthy again, and happy. Everyone like us who struggles with their weight has an epiphany when the fat is no longer fabulous.0
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i was HAPPY when i was overweight, but that didnt mean i was happy with how i LOOKED.
now im happy and like how i look (most of the time). LOL0 -
I'm sure some people can be happy being extremely overweight - and why not? Happiness shouldn't be limited to one shape or size or excluded from one shape or size.
However, happiness aside, being extremely over weight does carry huge health risks - I would want to lose weight to be healthier not to be happier.0 -
They say they're happy because they don't know what it's like to be thin. The boundless energy, the self confidence, etc. They can only judge on what they know. So no, there's no way that they're "happy". They're just comfortable. Complacent.0
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I disagree.
Not everyone's self confidence comes from being a certain size and not everyone needs boundless energy to be happy.
And not everyone who is extremely over weight has never been thin.
I think it is arrogant and presumptuous to decide whether other people could be happy or not.
Whether they are healthy is another matter.
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I think it's naive to say otherwise. The natural endorphins you get by exercising and leading a healthy lifestyle is not something you'll feel when you're obese. Like I said, they're content. Complacent. Indifferent. I am happy because I feel full. If they're having a bad day, they go home and eat something that'll make them feel good. That is a dangerous and unhealthy mentality and leads to depression more often than not. You can be happy about your job, kids, family etc. Those have no weight restrictions but if you feel sluggish and crappy, it's because your body is telling you that you need to make a change.0
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bperritt21 wrote: »I think it's naive to say otherwise. The natural endorphins you get by exercising and leading a healthy lifestyle is not something you'll feel when you're obese. Like I said, they're content. Complacent. Indifferent. I am happy because I feel full. If they're having a bad day, they go home and eat something that'll make them feel good. That is a dangerous and unhealthy mentality and leads to depression more often than not. You can be happy about your job, kids, family etc. Those have no weight restrictions but if you feel sluggish and crappy, it's because your body is telling you that you need to make a change.
Nope, I disagree too. You're generalizing. Everyone's different with different motivations.
You can be thin and still feel sluggish and crappy because of other reasons...not just because you're overweight.0 -
My mom used to try to lose weight but now she just doesn't care0
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bperritt21 wrote: »I think it's naive to say otherwise. The natural endorphins you get by exercising and leading a healthy lifestyle is not something you'll feel when you're obese. Like I said, they're content. Complacent. Indifferent. I am happy because I feel full. If they're having a bad day, they go home and eat something that'll make them feel good. That is a dangerous and unhealthy mentality and leads to depression more often than not. You can be happy about your job, kids, family etc. Those have no weight restrictions but if you feel sluggish and crappy, it's because your body is telling you that you need to make a change.
Nope, I disagree too. You're generalizing. Everyone's different with different motivations.
You can be thin and still feel sluggish and crappy because of other reasons...not just because you're overweight.
You can be fat and happy. I'm sure being so fat your bones are getting crushed and you run out of breath after walking for more than 5 minutes is ideal for some people. Until, of course, the accompanying health problems come. Ever met someone who was happy they got Type II diabetes? Nope. So lettuce be cereal. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just telling it like it is.0 -
I know fat people who are just happy in general...I know lean people who are miserable in their lives.0
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Sirius66TheBeat wrote: »Maybe its because I know how I feel about myself...hating how overweight I am but actually doing something about it now...but are there extremely overweight people that have no problem with it?
I only ask because I saw a commercial for that show about the fat woman..My Big Fat Fabulous Life..and she seems to be so happy to be fat. "Empowered" because she's fine with being fat. Is she just full of crap?
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@callsitlikeiseeit well said0
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DatGuy_Bry wrote: »You can be fat and happy. I'm sure being so fat your bones are getting crushed and you run out of breath after walking for more than 5 minutes is ideal for some people. Until, of course, the accompanying health problems come. Ever met someone who was happy they got Type II diabetes? Nope. So lettuce be cereal. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just telling it like it is.
You do realize being fat doesn't always mean someone weighs so much they can barely walk, has Type II diabetes and is completely unfit, right? I'm fat - severely obese to be correct - but still manage to walk my dog 2 hours a day, to ride a bike and to use the stairs without getting out of breath. So far my only injury related to my weight is my foot getting hurt because weight + long walks led to plantar fasciitis.
I believe a lot of people think of people weighing 300+ lbs when they hear "very overweight / fat / obese", which isn't true. I will still be considered obese at 192 lbs (I'm 5'7) and trust me, that's far away from bones getting crushed.
As far as the original question goes: I think there are some who are ok with being overweight or obese and some might even be happy about it. It's not something I understand but I also don't get other extreme body ideals that are out there - extremely thin & extremely muscular.
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For context, the OP mentioned the show "My Big Fat Fabulous Life" - the protagonist is a woman weighing 380 pounds who talks about feeling suffocated by her fat rolls.0
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kshama2001 wrote: »For context, the OP mentioned the show "My Big Fat Fabulous Life" - the protagonist is a woman weighing 380 pounds who talks about feeling suffocated by her fat rolls.
Well then she's not "extremely overweight" like OP said. Folks, sugarcoating someone's weight isn't helping any discussion at all.0
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