Uncomfortable with Free Weights

1) by the time you get to those big weights, you will be able to lift them. it is a slow, calculated progression meant for lifters like you
2) i wouldn't call lifting a bar a gym faux pas. as long as you're using the equipment properly and in a timely fashion (i.e. no talking/facebooking on phone instead of lifting) no one will care if you are only using the bar.

trust your body to know if something is too heavy, but don't be afraid to push yourself. plenty of guys and gals have gotten big without the help of a spotter

Well, I'll address #2 first. F those people. Seriously. They typically have no clue what they're doing. And, in this case, don't understand the program. Also, if you're there by yourself usually, who's going to whine?

With regards to #1, it's been a number of years since I've seen the inside of an Anytime Fitness. I don't really remember what is available for equipment. And if it's changed, then I'm even more clueless regarding their equipment. That said, look for a power cage, pictured below. If there's one there, you can set up the bench inside it, so you have something to catch the bar if you fail. Again, if you're typically by yourself, nobody should complain about taking up multiple pieces of equipment. If there's somebody there, then they probably can give you a spot or are doing something where you taking up the bench and cage isn't a problem.

It will take awhile before you're going to need a spotter. And really by that point you will most likely be moving the weight just fine. The app adds weight slowly for you, and once you start to stall, it will show you how to deload. Also, you're not really "lifting to exhaustion". It's not really the point. As a person who trains heavy, I only get up to 95% of my max once per month. Most of my training is done between 75-85%.

Don't worry about just using the bar. It's not a faux pas. It's literally just...the weight you're lifting.

i always start every workout with the empty and add weight until i decide that's the weight i wanna work with for the day. its none of anyone's business how much weight a person has on the bar. And if you are just starting, you dont have to lift 'til exhaustion. You should be lifting to learn form and function and getting comfortable with the movements.

1. When I did SL5x5 I didn't need a spotter. I've only ever used a spotter on a bench press testing a 1 rep max. The other compound lifts didn't require a spotter. You could also learn the roll of shame so that if you couldn't get a rep up and you were alone you wouldn't be stuck. Or you could decide not to put the clips on the end so if you couldn't do it you can tilt the bar so they fall off. I personally prefer the roll of shame because I try to avoid drawing attention and crashing weights have that effect.

https://youtu.be/fEUvI8Q6JDk

2. It isn't a faux pas at all to just use the bar for an exercise. Just use the equipment properly and whatever you do, don't do curls in the squat rack!

#1 Don't worry what someone else thinks about YOUR workout.
#2 If you are pushing limits, and don't have a spotter: use a rack or smith machine; you can also learn " the roll of shame" or you can leave clips off bar & dump the weight(makes a bit of noise, but definitely better than being pinned to the bench). Also you may want to ask somebody around for a spot, just because they don't "work" there, doesn't mean they are not willing to help. If you asked me I would gladly help you; hoping that one day you might could return the favor. I threw this last part in, because for a while I was hesitant to ask for help; till I learned that most people are willing to lend a hand.

cryptobrit wrote: »

Hi dobenjam. I don't/can't lift weights but hopefully I can give some input to your questions.

1: It concerns me that there are are no staff at your gym. I would have thought purely on health and safety there should be staff around. Anybody could have an accident. Not just for example dropping weights, or straining a muscle due to underestimating training; but for any equipment going wrong. Have you tried emailing or phoning the Anytime Fitness head office to clarify on this?

2: Regarding your second question about starting with an empty bar. If another user sees someone doing this and regards it as a Faux Pas, then they have the problem and not you! You are doing everything safely and starting off with something that is within your starting limits. Good on you. Never mind others, raise your own self-esteem and fitness and take no notice of others who are small-minded. Far better to start in a small way and avoid an accident; build up your strength and go on to greater things

Anytime Fitness is an unattended gym model. There are lanyards you can wear that alert 911 when pressed and full remote video feeds. It is a lower cost 24x7 gym.

1. I set the safety pins to just below my chest and bench with an arched back. If I lost control the bar my arch collapses from the bar and the pins catch the bar and protect my neck and chest. If you can't get the pins just right you can put mats under the bench to raise it to a working level. The big thing is to protect your neck.

2. Which pet peeve said empty bar is bad, I want to see this and hear that explanation. I didn't see it but I didn't read every word. Taking a bench, bar, and rack to work out is fine, taking them for a phone call, not so much.

If the bar is toooh much for 5x5 try dumbbells until you get to 45 lbs 5x5. I hesitate to recommend the fixed weight bars because they might not be wide enough for the rack.

SL5x5 will eventually push you to failure.

Does your gym have a power cage?

You can bench inside that if there is no one to spot you. Set the safety bars at a height where, with a proper bench pressing back arch, your chest is above the bars, but when you let your arch collapse the bar can rest on the safeties.

If you are not using a powerlifting arch for your bench press (aka are doing a flat / bodybuilding style bench) then you shouldn't be using a weight that will cause you to come close to failure. The powerlifting arch protects your shoulders from heavy loads and is what was intended for SL5x5. This is an excellent video detailing proper bench pressing arch: Jennifer Thompson, WR bench

bodybuilding bench (elbows at 90 degrees to torso, no back arch) has its uses but it is meant to exhaust the pec muscle. it places your shoulder in a compromised position so should not be used with heavy weight.

It is not a "Gym Faux Pas" to use a bench press station OR a squat rack with as much or as little weight as you want. You paid for a membership and are training for a better bench press, anyone who complains can buzz right off. I've been lifting for years and still warm up starting with an empty bar, every time.