Why am I not losing anything??

OK, so the last 6 mos of 2015 really sucked for me and I spent every evening sitting on my couch drinking a 6 pack of wheat beer. So..... realized that lifestyle just wasnt working for me. Fast forward to 2016....I quit drinking or for the most part...I have had 4 beers in the past 8 wks. I also joined a gym and workout everyday. I hired a personal trainer. I do programs designed by him every day o the week. I am doing functional training with him, weight lifting, and cardio. I am working out at least 6 days a week. AS far as nutrition goes, I am not perfect but I am not trying to be. I am trying to live. I eating pretty decent. breakfast usu 2 hardboiled eggs or a protein shake, lunch usu salad with chicken (and sometimes avocado thrown on), dinner usu chicken with quinoa or veggie. I snack on usually carrots or a piece of string cheese.

So I am 8 wks in and I have lost 0 lbs. I think I have actually gained1-2lbs. Just quiting consuming the amount of alcohol I was along should have resulted in something. And I am eating better and working it out in the gym. I just cant believe I havent lost anything. Now granted, I do not focus too much on the scale if my clothes are fitting better, but they arent....at all.

I am so frustrated. What am I doing wrong?

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  • seska422
    seska422 Posts: 3,217 Member
    edited February 2016
    You are consuming more calories than your body is using.

    Eating better doesn't cause weight loss. A calorie deficit is required.

    Read through this chart:

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  • kerishields
    kerishields Posts: 6 Member
    edited February 2016
    I average @1200 calories a day.

    And you would think going from a sedentary alcoholic.

    To a non-drinking gym rate, should result in something. It doesnt add up
  • seska422
    seska422 Posts: 3,217 Member
    edited February 2016
    I average @1200 calories a day

    How do you know that? Are you weighing your solid foods with a food scale? Accurately logging everything every day?

    You are consuming more calories than you think, burning fewer calories than you think, or both. Otherwise, you would have seen some weight loss by now.
  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
    A lot of this is covered in the flowchart above, so hopefully you've already covered those steps, but these are my really general tips when someone stalls:

    1. If it's been less than 3 weeks or so, don't sweat it! Normal fluctuations happen and unfortunately sometimes we stall for a week or two even when we're doing everything right. Give your body some time to catch up with the changes you're making.

    2. If you aren't already, be sure that you're logging everything. Sometimes people forget about things like veggies, drinks, cooking oils, and condiments. For some people these can add up to enough to halt your weight loss progress.

    3. Consider buying a food scale if you don't already have one. They're about $10-$20 dollars in the US and easily found at places like Amazon, Target, and Walmart. Measuring cups and spoons are great, but they do come with some degree of inaccuracy. A food scale will be more accurate, and for some people it makes a big difference.

    4. Logging accurately also means choosing accurate entries in the database. There are a lot of user-entered entries that are off. Double-check that you're using good entries and/or using the recipe builder instead of someone else's homemade entries.

    5. Recalculate your goals if you haven't lately. As you lose weight your body requires fewer calories to run. Be sure you update your goals every ten pounds or so.

    6. If you're eating back your exercise calories and you're relying on gym machine readouts or MFP's estimates, it might be best to eat back just 50-75% of those. Certain activities tend to be overestimated. If you're using an HRM or activity tracker, it might be a good idea to look into their accuracy and be sure that yours is calibrated properly.

    7. If you're taking any cheat days that go over your calorie limits, it might be best to cut them out for a few weeks and see what happens. Some people go way over their calorie needs without realizing it when they don't track.

    8. If you weigh yourself frequently, consider using a program like trendweight to even out the fluctuations. You could be losing weight but just don't see it because of the daily ups and downs.

    9. Some people just burn fewer calories than the calculators predict. If you continue to have problems after 4-6 weeks, then it might be worth a trip to the doctor or a registered dietitian who can give you more specific advice.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    seska422 wrote: »
    I average @1200 calories a day

    How do you know that? Are you weighing your solid foods with a food scale? Accurately logging everything every day?

    You are consuming more calories than you think, burning fewer calories than you think, or both. Otherwise, you would have seen some weight loss by now.

    All of this.

    Also, how tall are you? How much do you weigh? How much are you hoping to lose? Your profile says 3 pounds but I don't know if that's accurate.
  • kerishields
    kerishields Posts: 6 Member
    5'7", 194, want to lose 20 lbs.

    I know nothing is 100% accurate. And that is me rounding up with calories taking that into consideration.
    The trainers in my gym say that I am the most committed person in that gym. I am not going to the gym to look pretty. This is serious stuff to me. I sweat my @$$ off every time I am in there.

    This is my final ditch effort on me. Just trying to see if there was other things people had experienced that maybe I hadnt thought of.
  • seska422
    seska422 Posts: 3,217 Member
    Try accurate logging with a food scale. It should help.

    It's fine if you don't want to believe us but the info given here will help if you are open to it.
  • rpachigo
    rpachigo Posts: 96 Member
    Follow 80/20 rule. 80% diet. 20% exercise. No sense in going to the gym this soon as it can make you quite hungry. My suggestion would be to start from the diet standpoint and then focus on exercise. Good luck.
  • ChrisToler1
    ChrisToler1 Posts: 2 Member
    It sounds like to me with what you have stated that your exercise and amount of carbs that you are trying to build muscle. I would suggest more cardio workout not strength and also cut carbs not calories. I try to be under 150 carbs a day and that is usually about 1500 calories. I also use a sweat suit every other day when working out. This will reduce any water weight as well as boost metabolism. You really need to know your body though when using a sweat suit and make sure you drink a lot of water. In 67 days I have dropped 42 pounds and am just now starting to really watch what I eat. My best advice though is lose whatever weight you want to lose by cutting carbs and exercise, then if you want to add muscles after losing the weight then that’s where you would eat a lot of carb and proteins and cut calories.
  • ChrisToler1
    ChrisToler1 Posts: 2 Member
    One other piece of advice is don't kill yourself with dieting. I usually eat very healthy for breakfast and lunch and snack on things like peanuts or pickles. Pickles are awesome they are basically water and have really no calories or carbs. Hardboiled eggs are great to and if you get tired of them deviled eggs with light mayo are only about 1 carb and 45 calories. At dinner I eat what I enjoy, if I want spaghetti and garlic bread then I eat that just eat smaller portions or find ways to make it healthier low carb spaghetti, low carb bread. Fish is a great way to lose weight also, tuna or a filet of whatever you like. If not a fish fan try cod it’s the least fishy tasting fish. You can substitute turkey for hamburger or use the really lean hamburger. A lot of what people call health food really isn’t that good for losing weight. Bananas, oranges, those box diet dinners even yogurt are really high on carbs. Good luck and don’t give up.
  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
    I don't believe you are eating 1200 calories per day. I also don't believe that a 5'7" 194 pound woman can do great workouts 6 days a week eating 1200 calories per day. Your tracking is off somewhere. Either your input logging is very off or you are actually trying to net 1200 rather than eat it and your output logging is off, or some combo of those factors.
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    Another thing to consider is how are you calculating your calories burned? Unless you're using a heart rate monitor, chances are the burn that any machine is telling you is wrong. Same with MFP. If you're eating back all your exercise calories, that may be the issue.

    Also, I have to agree with having an issue with a 5'7" woman going down to 1200. I'm 5'7" and the lowest I ever went to was 1400. And that was for the last 5 pounds. If you're estimating all your calories, that could fool you into thinking you're doing good on 1200 but you may in reality be much higher.
  • kerishields
    kerishields Posts: 6 Member
    Appreciate all the input. These are all great things I want to hear/know. Its the only way to figure out the issue.

    Maybe I should be eating more. I am exhausted all the time. But I am going to take this week and really make sure I am on top of my food tracking and accurately. Also, I dont drink soda, eat bread. or eat red meat....and cant eat nuts. On occasion those things may happen (well not nuts), but rarely. I love veggies, I love salads, and I love seafood. And drink 80-90 ounces of water/day. I really am trying not to diet but make a new lifestyle for myself. So I have to figure out what works and doesnt work for me.

    Maybe I am not doing the right kind of workouts. I am going along with what my trainer is giving me so I guess assumed as long as I do that, that I am. What kinds of work outs would you guys consider a good workout? What is your weekly workout routines?

    I really appreciate all input, I am frustrated that I havent seen any change on the scale. Most importantly I just want to be in good health and be around for my kids. Thanks!
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    Appreciate all the input. These are all great things I want to hear/know. Its the only way to figure out the issue.

    Maybe I should be eating more. I am exhausted all the time. But I am going to take this week and really make sure I am on top of my food tracking and accurately. Also, I dont drink soda, eat bread. or eat red meat....and cant eat nuts. On occasion those things may happen (well not nuts), but rarely. I love veggies, I love salads, and I love seafood. And drink 80-90 ounces of water/day. I really am trying not to diet but make a new lifestyle for myself. So I have to figure out what works and doesnt work for me.

    Maybe I am not doing the right kind of workouts. I am going along with what my trainer is giving me so I guess assumed as long as I do that, that I am. What kinds of work outs would you guys consider a good workout? What is your weekly workout routines?

    I really appreciate all input, I am frustrated that I havent seen any change on the scale. Most importantly I just want to be in good health and be around for my kids. Thanks!

    Weight loss isn't linear, so there may be a couple weeks you don't see loss on the scale or it goes up. What you can do is track the trend of your weight loss. Some people use Trendweight, I just look at the graph MFP will give you. If you can draw a line from start to finish and it's going down, you're good. ^_^

    Also, yes, eating more will probably help with exhaustion. You don't HAVE to cut out carbs or soda or red meat if you don't want to, just eat less of them. Of course, if you want to, that's totally ok too. Try upping your protein and see if that helps you feel full longer. That will also give your muscles something to repair with when you do exercise.
  • FitEqualsSmile
    FitEqualsSmile Posts: 160 Member
    So I did not see any mention of protein in these posts. I was only eating 1200 calories with little protein and my weight loss was really stales for a while. My journey seemed pretty similar until I gave my MFP food journal to my trainer and he hit me over the head. He suggested my calorie intake should be 1200 after my calorie burn and my protein intake should be around 100G per day if not higher. This really did the trick. I do weigh everything and wear a heart rate monitor.
    I might suggest running your macros, try the web site iffy.com. Really got me going.

    Hope this helps.
  • kerishields
    kerishields Posts: 6 Member
    I wasnt cutting out bread and red meat to get healthy. Thats just something that is a part of my lifestyle. I am just not a big red meat or bread person. Those arent my hang ups. :-)

    Any suggestions on how to increase protein in take? How did you increase this.

    I will take a look at iffy

    Thank you all
  • dubird
    dubird Posts: 1,849 Member
    I wasnt cutting out bread and red meat to get healthy. Thats just something that is a part of my lifestyle. I am just not a big red meat or bread person. Those arent my hang ups. :-)

    Any suggestions on how to increase protein in take? How did you increase this.

    I will take a look at iffy

    Thank you all

    Well, if you can't do nuts, there's other things you can do. Here's a link to some high protein foods that may have stuff on there you like to eat. ^_^

    http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ultimate-list-40-high-protein-foods.html
  • crawlingfish
    crawlingfish Posts: 29 Member
    might you have gained muscle mass? see if your gym can do a body composition evaluation
  • Utah89
    Utah89 Posts: 15 Member
    I know you must be frustrated. I stall for long periods of time and then will have a bump of weight loss. Maybe you could try to reframe what you are doing to make it not about the weight but about taking care of yourself because you deserve it. When we make healthy choices we are investing in our bodies for the long term, we are strengthening our bones and our heart and dealing with our emotions in a positive way.

    Try to get out of your own head and enjoy the fact that you are treating yourself the way you deserve to be treated. It doesn't matter if you lose another pound, every healthy meal you eat and workout you do benefits you and makes you better than you were yesterday.
  • GIMOM66
    GIMOM66 Posts: 30 Member
    My doctor had me add more protein and more calories when I complained about not losing on 1200 & exercising. She said my body was hanging on to the weight because I was "starving it". When I went up to 1400-1500 a day the weight started to come off.
  • BinaryFu
    BinaryFu Posts: 240 Member
    Appreciate all the input. These are all great things I want to hear/know. Its the only way to figure out the issue.

    Maybe I should be eating more. ****I am exhausted all the time.****

    You may be over exercising and under-eating causing your body to go into panic mode. This article may help you understand where you're going wrong.

    Hope this helps!
  • blues4miles
    blues4miles Posts: 1,481 Member
    And I am eating better and working it out in the gym.

    It sounds to me like you need to focus more on how much you are eating and less on how 'healthy' it is. For weight loss, quantity trumps quality. Though quality can help with adherence, health, energy, etc. But for weight loss, eating too much 'healthy' food and you will still gain weight.

    Are you eating back your calorie burns from the workouts? How are you calculating those?

    Clearly you are eating more than you think. Should you be eating more than 1200 calories? Probably. But it sounds like you already are if you haven't lost weight over 8 weeks. Food scale was really eye opening for me. I weigh everything, I weigh my English muffins to make sure they are what "one" English muffin is on the package and adjust up or down accordingly (1.02 or .97 etc.) I tare the scale with the muffins on the plate, then put my butter on and see how many grams of butter I added. You have to be 100% accurate if you expect to complain about your lack of results. ;)
  • kerishields
    kerishields Posts: 6 Member
    Thanks to everyone who contributed to this post. I found the iifym stuff very informative. I increased by calories and upped my protein and the weight is falling off. I wasnt eating enough. who knew. well not me, clearly!

    (I did listen to everything people said. I do have a digital scale and weigh EVERYTHING now. Dont assume the numbers on any package.) My biggest change was upping my calories by about 400 and almost doubling my protein.

    Thanks for all the input.