30lbs down 90 to go

I am 27 and trying to find my way back to being active and happy again. I hit a rough spot after my brother passed away. I decided this year I couldn't use that as my crutch for being over weight anymore. The thing I hate most is everyone telling you what you can and can't eat. If you say no they say it's only a little just have a little bit. If you say yes they question if you should be eating that...... Please tell me I am not the only one who has that problem.

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  • kst69
    kst69 Posts: 24 Member
    No you are not. When you're overweight you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. If it isn't someone else judging you it's yourself. I am sorry about your brother. That is a tough one. You can do this though.
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
    That's one reason I never tell anyone I am dieting, unless they specifically ask. I mean, at 90 pounds down, it's obvious to people that I've lost weight, but I don't talk about it except to answer questions.