not diet related just having a sad day

strawberry1969
strawberry1969 Posts: 1,476 Member
edited September 28 in Chit-Chat
im feeling really low today as its the anniversary of my mum passing,ive just been remembering many occasions over the years and what a support to me she was ,i needed to put :: it down how im feeling :brokenheart:

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  • polar5554
    polar5554 Posts: 576 Member
    Aniversary's (death) are always the toughest...You'll get through it. Do you have family near?

    Just do your best to celebrate her life today and keep smiling! :smile:
  • abbz17
    abbz17 Posts: 39
    I'm sorry you're having a sad day :( I hope you find something today that puts a smile on your face!
  • mjf0461
    mjf0461 Posts: 470 Member
    I can understand that low, not in the same way. But I do understand. I've learned thru the years that every birthday, anniversary or special day of that loved one that you have lost is a way to really open the mind to the good good memories. We tend to forget the bad ones as time goes by, but never forget the good ones. Know she would be proud of you, Know she loved you, and she is always with you... In everything you do she is there, cause you are you because she was there....Take care and Good luck....
  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    This year, I lost my grandfather on January 11, my great-grandmother on February 28 and my great-great uncle on March 16...I know how ya feel...
  • ShellyKay67
    ShellyKay67 Posts: 489 Member
    i feel for you.......next month my mom will be gone 24 years, but it still seems like yesterday!
    it helps to write it down or talk with someone about it. just enjoy the memories!!!
    take care!
  • ptpatty
    ptpatty Posts: 18 Member
    Funny, I was just thinking about my mom too...I miss her. Sometimes it comforts me to think she would have been so pleased with how well my sister and I are doing with our weight loss and commitment to a healthier lifestyle. She was a great example and was always very fit. Focus on how lucky you were to have such a supportive influence in your life, and her continuing influence. Cyber-hugs :)))
  • i_love_vinegar
    i_love_vinegar Posts: 2,092 Member
    I'm sorry! Just remember that your mom is still there. I don't want to get too personal, but I can promise she is still there, and although it is a long time from now, you will see her again one day. :)
  • osmoticferocity
    osmoticferocity Posts: 23
    As others have said, today might be a good day to reflect on the things you learned from her, fond memories of your time together, and that she loved you. It is actually very good for us, mentally and emotionally, to spend time considering our friends and family who are gone from this world.

    I hope that when I am gone, people will be comforted and inspired by their memories of me.

    PS: Puppy videos on the Internet always cheer me up. Also, Sharky the Pitbull on Youtube. Sharky's friends include baby chicks and a guinea pig and a cat and an iguana...
  • osmoticferocity
    osmoticferocity Posts: 23
    This was a duplicate post. Now it's just a place for a smiley :smile:
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