How do you find the time?

Jamiepk1985
Jamiepk1985 Posts: 463 Member
edited December 1 in Getting Started
I work full time and have two kids....like I'm sure a lot of you do. How do you find the time between housework. Kids sports, etc. I'm struggling here!
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  • miss_aims
    miss_aims Posts: 64 Member
    I'm in the same boat, my day starts at 5:10 AM and I'm not usually home until 8:30 PM. My recommendation is to find what works for you. Figure out how much time you're able to dedicate to it. If it's only 15, 20, 30 minutes, tailor your workout to that time frame. I'm only able to reasonably dedicate about 30 minutes, 3 times per week, so I need to make sure my workouts are INTENSE. If you're able to spare 30 minutes, try the 30 Day Shred. High intensity cardio/strength and it's effective. Figure out what works and just do it! :)
  • Expatmommy79
    Expatmommy79 Posts: 940 Member
    I have 3 kids under 3 but don't work...

    My mommy friends who work full time do any of the following:

    Wake up early before kids do to workout
    Use the weekend
    Exercise while the kids are at their sport: one mom runs laps while her daughter has soccer practice
    Take the littles for a walk in the stroller or carrier
    Go to the park and play frisbee with kids
    Ask husband to look after dinner prep while they exercise.
    Workout during tv time
    Workout after kids are in bed

    Could some of those work?

    Buy a kettle ball and workout at home. Surely you could find 20 mins a few times a week if not a few times a day?

  • Expatmommy79
    Expatmommy79 Posts: 940 Member
    One lady I know works out at the office! Squats while holding box files for weights.

    Try and get creative!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    I used to work out on my lunch break, and then eat lunch at my desk (with my bosses' permission). Now that my son is a little older, I drop him off at his sports (five nights a week) and head to the gym.
  • zachatta
    zachatta Posts: 1,340 Member
    If you work full time (for me) the best is to go either directly before, or after, work. The bad part about this is it usually means you forfeit some sleep. However if you get in that particular pattern it becomes easier to integrate working out into your life. For me, I usually change once i clock out, and head to the gym. Its harder to come up with excuses not to go if you leave directly after work imho.
  • Wickedfaery73
    Wickedfaery73 Posts: 184 Member
    edited April 2016
    I walk the floors and stairs at work during my breaks. If the kids are small enough you could incorporate them into a workout like using them as weights or put on some music and call it "dance party time". Sometimes I clean , sing and dance around at the same time.... just dont use the tolilet brush as a microphone... :smiley: D
  • peaceout_aly
    peaceout_aly Posts: 2,018 Member
    Not many people actually have time for fitness. They have to make time. That was always my main excuse, that I didn't have time, that I was too tired, etc. I wake up at 5AM, head to the gym for just about two hours, shower there, then make my commute to work (1.5-2 hours each way) for an eight hour day, make the commute home and somehow have to manage to keep a house clean, have dinner ready, pack lunch for the following day and do whatever errands may need to be done. Is it difficult? Yes. Does it get easier? Not really. But once you make it a habit and see results you start to prioritize the gym over other things.
  • gbebedoll570
    gbebedoll570 Posts: 28 Member
    same boat.. one 8 years old, and one 1 year old.. full time job.. and my commute to the babysitter, to work, to babysitter and home is almost two hours!!!

    I wake up early to get my 45 minute walk/bike in the morning..

    and I try to do another 30 minute walk/bike after dinner..

    I also installed the sworkfit app. I do the 5 - 10 minute stretches three times a day while at work. Since I have a desk job I find it very helpful with my back and shoulders..
  • jaga13
    jaga13 Posts: 1,149 Member
    All of the above are great ideas. To add: when I worked in an office I made a point to take lots of short walk breaks. A loop around the building only took a few minutes but it added up over the day. I also walked on my lunch break. On cold
    Days I walked up and down the stairs. Some people don't like the idea of leaving their desks but I figured I wasn't taking smoke breaks, wasn't running out for coffee. And I was keeping myself healthy which in turn benefits the company (rarely used a sick day). Some people use a device to track steps like a Fitbit. I have a free one on my phone (pacer).

    If you can find time
    For formal exercise at home
    Before or after work , that would be great. But if you can't , see if you can step up your daily general activity level. Good luck.
  • ReaderGirl3
    ReaderGirl3 Posts: 868 Member
    It takes under 10 minutes to log your food for the day and then a few minutes to prep food (weigh out serving sizes etc). In the scheme of things, that's nothing when you think how much time most of us waste on FB :p

    As far as exercise goes, I didn't do any during my weight loss phase so it wasn't a factor for me. Now in maintenance I'm a seasonal walker and I walk 15 minute miles. Very doable to squeeze in 15 minutes after supper or before bed.
  • Jazzmine_Rich
    Jazzmine_Rich Posts: 2 Member
    @Jamiepk1985 ...we were born the same year!! I have three small babies (one is 9 months and the others are 4 and twins). Girl I'm tired but I want to lose weight too. I'm young WTF!! I have to be at work by 7:45 am and then I get off at 3:45 pm (most days). I admit I have family support but I'm tired.. and their father is there but I still do everything by myself (it feels). I have 50lbs to lose and I can't just watch myself go down the drain. But I'm tired all the time and have no energy. I can't get up and workout before I go to work (hell no). Every now and then I do something on my planning on youtube (walk away the pounds or something small like that) but that's not getting the results I need for the mode I'm in. I bought a workout DVD and i'm going to do it in my living room. In the past my kids watched me and mock some things I do.. they get in my way..but re-position them and keep pushing (obviously not for long because I'm here). I will restart working out tomorrow when I get my DVD in the mail (4/26)! That's my bday!
  • Jamiepk1985
    Jamiepk1985 Posts: 463 Member
    My bday is the 30th!!!! I may start doing something small in the morning before work. Seems to be the best option. Just so hard to wake up.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I lift two nights per week (Monday and Wednesday) and on Saturday mornings. During the week I go straight from the office to the gym and I lift for about an hour. My wife is responsible for getting the kids fed and bathed and whatnot as well as getting our dinner ready as I won't get home until 7/7:30.

    On Tuesday and Thursday, we swap out...all of the things she does on Mon and Wed I take care of on Tues and Thurs.

    I have two options for getting in my rides...early morning (like 4:30) or during my lunch break. I ride for about an hour four days per week and try to get in a longer ride on Sundays, but yeah...I have to be flexible too...life is busy.
  • rbfdac
    rbfdac Posts: 1,057 Member
    I also work full time and have a two year old, and 7&11 year old step-kids.

    When referring to gym time (the hardest part schedule-wise), I rely on my husband, my parents, and even friends and other family members to help me.

    -- On days that my husband is home in the evenings (he travels), I head to the gym after my toddler goes to sleep (around 8 PM).

    -- On days that my husband is gone, I do a few things:
    * have my mom watch my son while I go to the gym for an hour
    * take a walk around the neighborhood with my son in the stroller
    * I even have had a friend come over after my son went to bed to just sit with him while I went to the gym.
    * do a youtube workout video after my son is asleep
    * walk on my home treadmill after my son is asleep


    Food is the easiest part (and the biggest part of weight loss).

    I do everything ahead of time, as much as possible. I pack my breakfast and lunch for the next day the night before, as well as log it. I use a lot of leftovers and just measure them out for supper the next day before storing the rest in the fridge.
    I do not stray from that food at work. I keep some snacks at my office, but only pre-packaged items that I know the calorie content of (100 calorie popcorn, nuts, etc.) and that also has been pre-logged. I get home around 5:15 PM, then start on supper. I am done around 5:40. I set out anything that needs to be thawed for supper in the morning before I leave for work.

    I clean the kitchen and pick up the house daily, but only do the vacuuming, mopping, etc. on Sundays. My step-kids are in sports, so during these couple of months we use a lot of teamwork! My husband will cook supper on days he gets home before me, we will eat, then run to the games. We also have to make compromises on things. Some nights it's not possible for our toddler to go to the late games, so one parent will go alone while the other stays at home. On those nights, I'll often take a walk with my son while my husband is at the games, etc. You just gotta make it work! There are a lot of early mornings and late nights, but you've got to work for it if you really want it. So cliché, but so true. My husband also goes to the gym and because I go when my son is asleep, he often gets up around 5:00 and goes before we all have to head to work.

    Friend me if you want to talk any more :) Good luck! I'm down 59 pounds in 100 lb journey. I never thought I'd be here in my wildest dreams, but I've stuck to it, so you can too!

  • crazymama2both
    crazymama2both Posts: 195 Member
    edited April 2016
    My gym has child care that my son LOVES so I take him when I have him and he runs around and plays with his "gym friends" and tuckers himself out at the same time! Also we do a lot of hiking when the weather cooperates.
  • MostlyWater
    MostlyWater Posts: 4,294 Member
    I used to take classes at night - or do dvds - when my kids were asleep. Now that they're older, I get up early and go to classes and do machines at the gym.

    You have to make the time!
  • kgirlhart
    kgirlhart Posts: 5,185 Member
    You don't find the time, you make the time.
  • crazymama2both
    crazymama2both Posts: 195 Member
    OOH also you can do the online workouts after they go to bed or while theyre doing homework (I dont know their ages, sorry). dailyburn.com is a good one for not a huge expense.
  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    edited April 2016
    My bday is the 30th!!!! I may start doing something small in the morning before work. Seems to be the best option. Just so hard to wake up.

    it's not hard to wake up early. you just prefer to sleep. that's fine. one day you will change your habits to reflect your preferences.
  • Deena_Bean
    Deena_Bean Posts: 906 Member
    5:30 am for exercise, 7am leave for work, 5:15p arrive home and do mom/house stuff...then bed. I have 12 year old twins and a 14 year old stepson - all of whom play a travel sport. So we are constantly on the go. The 14 year old lives 30 minutes away so the nights we have him are long round-trips. Dinner on practice nights is usually a crock pot meal, sometimes a meal out. It's a juggling act, but it's not impossible. Organization and dedication - that's the only answer to this problem.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    While I clean house, I lift weights.

    Do a rep. Clean the bathroom sink and toilet.
    Do a rep. Do a few dishes.
    Do a rep. Do some more dishes.
    Do a rep. Put clothes in the washer.
    Keep repeating. I set the stopwatch and do this for 20-30 minutes. House is clean and I've exercised. I also try to get a lot of steps in.
  • KANGOOJUMPS
    KANGOOJUMPS Posts: 6,474 Member
    I start at 4am!!! love my mornings!
  • odddrums
    odddrums Posts: 342 Member
    I don't have any kids but get up at 5am every day for work, so I find time in the evenings to do workouts. My friends with children often do early workouts (4am) to get the day started and I think if I didn't have evenings open I would go for this as well.

    The biggest thing is consistency. If you can find 30 minutes 3 times a week that you can do something to raise your heart rate and keep it there, that's plenty. Then it's just diet and maybe 10000 steps a day. It's not easy, but you can do it if you commit to it.
  • fbmandy55
    fbmandy55 Posts: 5,263 Member
    I don't. I struggle to keep up with the household stuff like laundry and cleaning. I had the time to get in exercise the last two days and I probably won't the next two days. I should have evenings at home later this week so I'll probably work in some there. I think figuring out a way to fit it into your lifestyle is the best way to stick with it, for me anyway.

    Diet is the biggest factor in weight loss. I don't have specific fitness goals, so I don't beat myself up because I can't commit to a workout everyday.
  • Serendipity0913
    Serendipity0913 Posts: 385 Member
    edited April 2016
    Check out this for ideas. I'm in the same boat and this lady gave me many ideas. Genius!!

    https://www.facebook.com/everydaylifepro/videos/203794036654854/
  • Jamiepk1985
    Jamiepk1985 Posts: 463 Member
    I guess I may try to wake up in the mornings! That's the only time that wouldn't take away from family time. I just HATE waking up. Guess I have to learn to love it. Thanks for all the ideas!
  • enterdanger
    enterdanger Posts: 2,447 Member
    I go late at night. I'm not into mornings. Come 9pm when those little buggers are in bed I hit the gym. Sometimes, I manage to go on my lunch break since we have a gym in our office, but more often then not I just go at night. I'm already getting up at 6am. I just can't seem to get up earlier.
  • jaga13
    jaga13 Posts: 1,149 Member
    Just a word of caution about early morning workouts: if you have to get up so early that you can't get a decent night sleep, it may not be something you can continue in the long run. But if you can manage going to bed early enough to
    Get enough sleep, it could be an option.
  • NHDaisy2
    NHDaisy2 Posts: 151 Member
    Because going to the gym before/after work doesn't work for me - I walk during my coffee break at work. I'm fortunate that my office has a small gym so in the winter I walk on the treadmil and during the summer I walk around our building outside. This is what works for me and what I will actually do.
  • SpiderGwens
    SpiderGwens Posts: 87 Member
    I keep telling myself that nothing is more important than my health.

    There's always something in my day that I can give up in order to make time to exercise/prepare a healthy meal. Sometimes it means that all I do in one day is work, exercise, and eat. Worth it.

    Also, I make sure my workouts are something I enjoy and look forward to. Find an exercise routine that's fun, and you won't mind getting up early or going to the gym after a long day at work for it!
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