Save me from myself. (Vent)

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  • whiskey9890
    whiskey9890 Posts: 652 Member
    i think you had a lucky escape he sounds a total jerk, and i bet his picture made him look like a nice guy. mark it down to experience and forget about him, you look like a pretty girl and i'm sure you will find someone, probably when you least expect it.

    and those comebacks are great
  • IMPROVE_NOW_ALL
    IMPROVE_NOW_ALL Posts: 4
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  • ESVABelle
    ESVABelle Posts: 1,264 Member
    "I'm going to collect cats - they don't care as much if you're soft around the middle"

    Babygirl. See my photos. I've got a 135lb bullmastiff. The only male on Earth I trust :-) He drools, but he loves me! And he loves to go for runs with me (one of the many advantages over cats).

    GET A DOG!!!!! :-D Preferably a big one. They're awesome to cuddle with and great with kids. Check out the rescue sites for them. :-D (I'm a little biased here)

    OH. And the moral of my story - the chick he cheated with and is currently dating:
    she's tall (he likes them tall, but she's only about 5'6)
    she's got an *kitten* (that she sits on most of the day because she's a bank teller)
    she's on the skinny side (...well, okay, I'll give her that one but I'm in better shape and have an hourglass...*****)
    she's pretty (seriously? he goes for the "model faces" - another reason why I didn't qualify)
    ...and all I'm saying is I hope he never sees her without make-up on

    Proof positive that men are dumb. Stick with dogs. They are loyal and honest and cute no matter what.
  • Septembergirl23
    Septembergirl23 Posts: 106 Member
    OMG! You are so pretty! He is out of his mind and definitely not for you!
  • Septembergirl23
    Septembergirl23 Posts: 106 Member
    OMG! You are so pretty! He is out of his mind and definitely not for you!
  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    What a JERK!
  • MisterDubs303
    MisterDubs303 Posts: 1,216 Member
    If a close friend insults you, cry.
    If a jerk whom you have just met insults you, sigh, go home and kiss your babies.

    I know it sucks, but you should feel so relieved. The problem is NOT that you are soft around the middle, but that HE is soft in the head. That guy is getting a lump of coal for Christmas, and will probably die young and alone. Unfortunately, he will probably hurt a lot of people along the way. He's a taker, not a giver.

    You are a good woman who deserves someone who will honor you and your children, and love you for qualities much more meaningful than your body weight. A man who isn't looking for the more meaningful things in your relationship will be filling those needs somewhere else, and that's probably not a good thing in the long run.

    Keep your head up. That was a bad experience, and it was a fail, but it was not your fail. The failure is all his.
    You had no way of knowing he would be a bad person.
  • pittielover23
    pittielover23 Posts: 268
    So I met a guy on a blind date at the park. His response: "Well, I don't know if I'm interested. You're pictures make you look thinner."

    Ugh? Sorry? I'll try harder next time to be prettier?

    I'm here because if I go this alone, I will relapse into bulimia. Help me friends. Anything to distract me. And go::

    Thanks and love,

    Em
    At least he let you know that he was a douchnozzle up front. Consider yourself lucky, you found out he was a jerk really fast and you never have to see his stupid face again. Sorry you had to go through that though, I am sure it sucked. Really though, he is the one with the major issue here. You are strong and can get through this!
  • angelicdisgrace
    angelicdisgrace Posts: 2,071 Member
    You are beautiful! That guy was an idiot and like someone said superficial. Just remember he'll get his cause what comes around goes around! You just keep on working out and watching what you eat and you will be fine. Good luck!
  • MochaMixAZ
    MochaMixAZ Posts: 844 Member
    How about some nice immature comeback lines?

    Bwahahaha! OMG. Laughing out LOUD on this one. And I had to add some more:

    - Oh, okay. So I looked thinner in my photos. Wow, that's so crazy - I was just thinking you looked smarter, savvier, cuter.

    - Hmm. I know, right? It's soooo good we met in person. I didn't realize you were so short. This could never work.

    - I understand, and it's so great you had us meet in person so early. Otherwise, you wouldn't have realized I'm not your type, and you're not in my league.

    - Do things seem bigger looking from behind that tiny penis?

    - Oh, really - you think I'm fat? Hm. Everyone's entitled to their own opinion. Want to arm wrestle, pansy-*kitten*?

    - God. It must be awful waking up YOU every day.

    AND, for the record, your size at 5'11'' - Is just about perfect. And the just about perfect guy is out there, too. It took me about 5 years, using online dating services and going out with lots of frogs before my prince finally came in. Almost six years later, we're happily shacking up with 2 dogs, 2 cats, and we still LIKE each other! I was a size 18 when I met him (and I'm 6'0''), now I"m a 20 but working my way back down.... and he's 6'3'' and 170 lbs soaking wet. When he first reached out to me online, I looked at his profile and pic and though--- eh, not my type. But he was lovely in his email and when we met in person: fireworks! Your fireworks are comin', I can feel it!
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