5 year MFP veteran returning...need new friends to keep me motivated. Marriage in trouble

Hello everyone,
I've been a member on MFP for over 5 years now. With the help of this place I lost over 60 pounds and even met my wife on here. Before getting married I moved to be with her in Houston, TX. The process of a new city and getting comfortable in our relationship led me to gain back ALL my weight + more. I ended up gaining nearly 70lbs over the past 3 1/2 years. My marriage is only barely over a year old and already feeling strained from us both gaining weight back. I fear if I cannot get my weight straightened out I will end up losing my wife and that is something that has strongly motivated me. In the past 4 weeks I have lost nearly 20lbs by eating right and exercising nearly 5-6 days a week. I need new friends to
Keep me motivated. I will return the favor. Thank you!