How to beat hunger?

Maybe you have a lack of some vitamins or minerals or the like, when the body miss some of this, it gives you a hungerfeeling / compultion to eat, but possibly your food does not contain those vitamines and minerals.....which makes the body continue to give you hunger signals to get what it needs of those.

Food today are often very commercialized an have often a lack of important vitamins and minerals, but still contains kalories....

So it is best to eat ecological grown food as far as possible :-) I do take vitamin and mineral supplies and use the advices given from others up above, like drinking a glass of water every hour, and it is also important to be conscious about what was in my mind just before the hunger got horrible...then it is often emotional distress...like a phonecall I worry about, or things I had to or should....have done, or have to do...something that I do not have time for in my shedule, but which is expected form me, either by others or myself.

It is easy to live up to others expectations. But being a people pleaser.....makes a lot of distress, so it has been important for me just to admit my limitation of what is possible to fullfill of others expectations and tell them in a friendly way that I do appreciate them asking me for.....whatever....but I do not hve the capacity to help them...meet them...go to the movie...or whatever that is too much for me... I find by test that I am a Higly Sensitive Person, which is true for about 15-20% of the population.... there are tests at the internett, this charactertrait explaines that HSP are higly empatical persons and have difficulties in saying "no"....and that I have to work on that issue...to loose weight ;-) Loosing weight is not just about calories in and calories out...when it is so difficult for some of us to loose wight it is because it involves emotional issues. Being aware of that is tough, but has helped me a lot ;-) Going to a Psycologist can be very helpfull :-)

So be true to yourself, in a positive way, ( which others may consider as selfishness, because they cannot "use" you the way they are used to), and you can be at lot better friend because your yes comes from the heart, because you are taken care of yourself at the same time ;-) All the best to all of you :-)

Kamikazeflutterby wrote: »

Tiptoetherat wrote: »

Ok folks a bit more info.

I have pretty much given up on food because after years of dieting I have grown to hate and resent eating. That's another conversation though!

I don't eat a lot of veg nowadays because I hate them the most and eating lots of them didn't help, so why eat them?

The egg salad sandwiches that I have in my log are NOT from starbucks I typically use that sandwhich because I figure its best to estimate high with what I eat. But no I go very much out of my way to not eat out.

I use a 1700 cal diet because that seems to be the only thing that KINDA works...which makes me think that 1500 is more like what I need to be at. I have gone as high as 2500 in the past, and the hunger is still there.

NONE of my health professionals (and yes I have seen more then one) will give me anything to help with the constant hunger they ALL just tell me to "try harder!" when it comes to loosing weight.

How much do I want to loose?? ALL OF IT!!

hope that helps

John

Your profile says you've lost 32 of 34 pounds. Is this accurate? How much are you trying to lose a week? If the answer isn't "only .5lbs or less" then I think that's your problem. The less you have to lose, the slower you should be trying to lose it. Near the end you should be eating so close to maintenance that poor measuring will blow your calories for the day. Sounds like you could be overcompensating by overestimating, and making yourself miserable.

That "high" egg salad estimate is bad. Enter your egg salad recipe with the ingredients weighed, then weigh the amount of egg salad it makes. Make one "serving" equal one ounce/gram/kropog/whatever, weigh the volume you'd normally eat, then eat the crap out of it. I bet you'll be surprised at the difference between a high guess and reality.

Hi John - I'm also wondering how much weight you have to lose and what you've set your weekly weight loss goal to. If less than 25 pounds, chose 0.5 pounds per week.

For me, I need to have the right amount of calories, and that means not losing weight too fast for my current weight - goal. Also, I find that if I have an equal-ish split of my macros (35c-35p-30f) and I'm much more satisfied and have energy, and I am still losing weight.

By the way, I saw your other post.. I am sorry that you're going through a rough time, but eating the right amount of calories can help boost the mood and regulate hormones... food is not the enemy.

Tiptoetherat wrote: »

cerise_noir wrote: »

For me, I need to have the right amount of calories, and that means not losing weight too fast for my current weight - goal. Also, I find that if I have an equal-ish split of my macros (35c-35p-30f) and I'm much more satisfied and have energy, and I am still losing weight.

By the way, I saw your other post.. I am sorry that you're going through a rough time, but eating the right amount of calories can help boost the mood and regulate hormones... food is not the enemy.

LOL thanks for the support and ideas. Food IS the enemy if you are me, its always been my stumbling block and I think its getting worse as I get older. ANYWAYS I'm gonna see my doc on Saturday (in case you missed it) and see if he can help with my hunger issues. I'm also taking a break from the forum here, seems I have soured people with my negative waves. Take care.

You don't need a doctor to figure out why you're hungry... And no one is being negative. I'm sure your doctor will tell you to eat more. You've been asking for advice and spitting it back and laughing in everyone's face. Everyone had been trying to help you, but you obviously know better. If you ask me, you're pointing the enemy finger in the wrong direction. The only enemy is you....against you.

I used to eat very little because I thought that was the only way to lose weight. I ended up in hospital, lost a lot of hair, my skin looked like hell, my nails stopped growing, my face looked haggard and older, eyes sunken in, my teeth were breaking, IBS got worse, my hormones were all over the place and my depression and anxiety were worse... Oh, did I mention that I ended up in hospital? Was I thin? Yeah, but I looked so nasty, tired, angry. I looked sick. It was NOT a hot look. Not to mention, I could barely lift up anything that had weight to it and I had absolutely no energy.

Take it as you will....there are huge benefits to losing weight the healthy way...you'll look healthy, too. Being thin with hair falling out, no muscles, weak and haggard is not a great look.

Try buying Premier Protein drinks from Costco. The chocolate ones taste so good, and they're only 160 calories per bottle, 30 grams of protein. I used to have 2 a day. While they are a bit pricey, I noticed they really helped with hunger and I wasnt dying for pizza or junk food or crap in the middle of the night. Anyway, worth the try!

Stay away from sugar, replace those carbs with protein. They're both 4 calories per gram but protein makes you feel fuller longer while sugar triggers hunger. Allegedly even calorie-free sweeteners have this effect so replace your diet soda with plain water.

Second, distract yourself. Hunger is a bit like pain, or like an itch. The more you think about it, the worse it gets.

If you're not losing weight at 1700 calories, you may not be eating enough. I don't know how big you are, but if you don't eat enough, your body will think it's starving and will lower metabolism to help you survive longer. I think the trick is to eat enough calories, but the right kind of calories and to do enough (whatever you're capable of) to burn them off.

I'm not a doctor, but I can speak from personal experience. I was a long-distance runner and in the military. Got hurt pretty badly and it altered my mobility and I ended up rapidly putting on weight. So I cut my calories way back to 1600 and lost weight for a little while, but then I plateaued. My weight loss stopped and even though I dropped down to 1500 and increased my activity (I was walking by then), my weight wouldn't move. I did a ton of research on this issue because it seems very counterintuitive. I decided to slowly increase my calories back up to 2000 per day and set a goal to add a quarter of a mile every day until I reached a point that weight loss began again. Sure enough, it did.

I ended up putting on more weight much later because I developed terrible arthritis in my ankle due to the surgeries I went through, and again it limited my mobility and put me back in the same boat. But this time, I'm using what I already know. I'm keeping my calories at around 2000 per day, avoiding most sugar, using protein to fill myself up, and making it a point to walk as far as my ankle can manage. I've dropped 20 pounds in the last 5 weeks or so. That may sound drastic but I had a terrible bout of diverticulitis for a week and couldn't eat or drink anything by mouth. Barring that, I think I'm going through normal weight loss.

And if I can do it, you can do it because I lack a lot of willpower when it comes to food.

Good luck!