Could use some tips: all motivation has gone for some reason
Sgt_Pepper33
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Hi, everyone. I started my weight loss journey near the end of February. So far I have lost 21 pounds. I feel great about that; my clothes fit much better (or are even too loose), I've received a few compliments, and I'm really proud of myself. However, for the past 3 weeks (maybe even a little more), I have just slowly gone downhill, until I've basically come to a standstill. Whereas before, I was exercising at least every other day, I haven't made a conscience effort to exercise more than a couple times in the last few weeks. When before I was within my calorie range nearly every day, for the past few weeks I went from going slightly over to binging and going a thousand or more over -- until the last two days where I have completely stopped tracking and have eaten whatever I want.
I'm just wondering if anyone else has gone through a hump like this, and how/if they were able to get through it. I love how much better I feel when I work out and eat healthier. I love looking/feeling better! But there's just some kind of block that I can't get around. I keep saying, I will start again tomorrow, and then by noon I've already stuffed my face with all kinds of sweets and chips. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.
I'm just wondering if anyone else has gone through a hump like this, and how/if they were able to get through it. I love how much better I feel when I work out and eat healthier. I love looking/feeling better! But there's just some kind of block that I can't get around. I keep saying, I will start again tomorrow, and then by noon I've already stuffed my face with all kinds of sweets and chips. Please, any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.
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Hiya. I've been there so many times. I lost 25kgs of a 37 kg goal and have stalled. I have good weeks and bad weeks but basically remained in the same vicinity for the past six months. What I find the most helpful is getting support and motivation from these discussion boards. I been in a steady state for too long and so I'm gonna get active on here again. What I have found most helpful is breaking things down to minor tasks/goals that I know I can achieve and con myself into doing them if I need to. Just go for a 10 minute walk I'll convince myself but once I start I go for 40 minutes. Its the starting that's hard. Building momentum is the key. Start with something you know you can achieve and go from there. Supporting and connecting with others and having an accountability buddy is so important.. You can do this. We can do this...5
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I've gone through them, but all the times before I've ended up just giving up completely and I'm determined not to let it happen again.
I've learnt from the times before, and I agree with the post above. I now break everything down to mini goals, some are little daily goals and others are weekly goals. I rarely look at the big picture, as I've got a lot to lose and it would just be too over whelming if I did.
I find support & motivation from the boards too, it's comforting to know that there are other people going through the same thing. Now I don't punish myself if I do over do it one day. I just put it behind me, and use it as motivation to do better/exercise more.
You can get your motivation back, just take it one step at a time
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I've been having a crazy weekend where I've eaten everything foolish finishing with a 200 gram box of chocolates. Finally I got myself to do 15 minutes of meditation and I feel more calm. I hope I'll eat normally tomorrow but am not sure. I don't want to return to the crazy dark place of self destructive eating. I can't calorie count any more but I want to just eat in a healthy way and exercise too.2
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I think everyone on this site wiuld have been there most more than once. I found that going for a walk helped. My down fall is beer so if I want a beer I have to walk to the bar, its not sitting in the fridge waiting. I only keep " good foods" around so if I want junk I have to walk. When I get to the bar I have a scotch and water less calories., I find when I walk I'm not inclined to snack till I get home then there's no junk. Works for me, good luck and remember we've all been there.4
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You're doing well! All you have to do to stay motivated is tell yourself that the end result will be worth it all. Everyone has a point where they feel like giving up with their diet but you just have to remember why you're doing it and you don't have to exercise a lot.. My mum has lost about 6 stone on her diet so far by not eating chocolate, crisps and all the junk same with me, I dropped a stone and 11lbs just by not eating junk. Good luck x1
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It seems so unfair, where you can be on top of it for a few weeks, and then that little self sabotage devil sneaks in, and once again you can't get to grips with a healthy lifestyle, it's as if it wants to destroy all your good work and effort!! Well... It's time to fight back, take control, be the best version of you, your body is worth healthy food and movement!! It carries you round all day, so be kind to it, l am speaking to myself here too!! This post made me see how subtle the changes can be over days or weeks, plan, plan , plan!! Meals, exercise, everything!! Get on top again, and stay on top!! We can do this!! WE ARE WORTH IT!!!!!7
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I've had tons of ups and downs in my endeavor to lose weight/get healthy, and what I've seen in myself, time and time and time again, is that the only thing that makes me FEEL motivated is actually having one or two really good on-plan days. It's WAY easier said than done, but to get to that place where you feel motivated again, you have to just decide to do it and then follow through, and the motivation should follow.
And don't tell yourself you'll start tomorrow. You can start right now! Depending on your morning, you might still go over on your calories for today but that doesn't mean you can't make healthy choices from now until the end of the day. And if you are anything like me and you do that for the rest of today, tomorrow will be a lot easier.
You've got this! Just never give up.6 -
When this happens to me I take my goals down to an easily achievable level. It helps me to feel successful (even with ridiculously easy goals) for a few days. So low or no deficit, and walking for cardio and casual strength training. As long as I just keep going, renewed energy and enthusiasm show up eventually.4
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sgt_pepper33 don't give up. 20# is huge achievement. reassess and keep going! its not all about the food or exercise maybe you need a life coach or therapist. give yourself on non food/exercise treat. you've earned it!3
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Thanks so much for all the encouragement, everyone! It warms me that such a community exists of people who want to not only better themselves, but also help others through the process. I planned my whole day out last night, and so far I am on track. I agree that if I can have a couple balanced days in a row, perhaps it will make getting back into it feel manageable. Thanks for all the help!6
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Hi, I am new to the group. My sister told me about this group and it sounds awesome to have the support. Breaking things into small tasks is a strategy that has helped me. However, I needed more at times. I lost 30 pounds but decided to keep the motivation fresh, so I joined a private on-line weight-loss competition. Everyone set a 16 week goal. Some of us set a goal to be ready for our first body building competition. Weekly postings where we compete against ourselves (not each other) to improve but we did it together and that lead to 16 more pounds of weight-loss and great toning. This provided me with short-term weekly incentive and a long-term very motivating goal! It works great!! My goal is to keep going at least until the lifestyle changes become automatic...like switching to low fat or non-fat milk or other diet changes.
Good luck Sgt. Pepper_33 !!1 -
What if you took a pic of yourself? This is just so you can see what you look like but then imagine yourself how you want to be! I had to see myself so that I could tell myself "NO MORE". Picture yourself thin and healthy and then tell yourself "I want to be healthy and thinner, I can do this". Take one meal at a time and remember: you didn't get this way in one day; it will take time and set backs will happen. You just need to get back on track. Just remember: nothing taste as good as thin feels".
Have to apply my own theory here since I have 10lbs to go and I had a set back last week! Back on track today, one meal at a time. Tomorrow back to working out after 1 week vacation!0 -
I've never tried the pic thingy. Don't have a great mirror in the house but I guess I could just use the self timer on the camera. Ok.. gonna try this. Tomorrow is day 1 pic then weekly after that. Is weekly good for pics? or is that too frequent??0
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I've never tried the pic thingy. Don't have a great mirror in the house but I guess I could just use the self timer on the camera. Ok.. gonna try this. Tomorrow is day 1 pic then weekly after that. Is weekly good for pics? or is that too frequent??
I only do it after every 10lbs so that I can see a difference. Every week might frustrate you. Do a pic now with your camera and the save the pic. Then maybe 1 month later take another pic and put it side by side with the old pic so you can compare. After a few months you will notice a huge difference and go WOW!!0 -
Actually that's a better idea. As my weight loss has slowed right down and I'm actually gaining a bit it might work in the wrong direction if I take a pic every week. Every 10lbs makes sense and gives me a goal to work toward. Weigh in day is Friday and I'll do the pic then me thinks. I gotta start getting real. I just keep pretending this current slow increase in weight is just a small hump in the road when in actually fact its turning into a complete about face1
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Sgt_Pepper33 wrote: »Thanks so much for all the encouragement, everyone! It warms me that such a community exists of people who want to not only better themselves, but also help others through the process. I planned my whole day out last night, and so far I am on track. I agree that if I can have a couple balanced days in a row, perhaps it will make getting back into it feel manageable. Thanks for all the help!
I'm having an "off" day and came on here for some help and your post really motivated me! Thank YOU! I'm going to go get a quick workout in before I start dinner.
And congrats on the weight loss so far. 21 pounds is no joke!1 -
Sgt_Pepper33 wrote: »Thanks so much for all the encouragement, everyone! It warms me that such a community exists of people who want to not only better themselves, but also help others through the process. I planned my whole day out last night, and so far I am on track. I agree that if I can have a couple balanced days in a row, perhaps it will make getting back into it feel manageable. Thanks for all the help!
Girl !!! You inspired me very much as I read this !! You seem like a really great person. Being on a health journey is never easy and it's always so great to have that back up from people that get it I'd love to be able to chat with you throughout our journey. Please add me if you'd like Anyone on this thread I'm a Canadian lady who loves to chat and is a great support !!! 0 -
I've never tried the pic thingy. Don't have a great mirror in the house but I guess I could just use the self timer on the camera. Ok.. gonna try this. Tomorrow is day 1 pic then weekly after that. Is weekly good for pics? or is that too frequent??
I only do it after every 10lbs so that I can see a difference. Every week might frustrate you. Do a pic now with your camera and the save the pic. Then maybe 1 month later take another pic and put it side by side with the old pic so you can compare. After a few months you will notice a huge difference and go WOW!!
I use to take pictures every week and got quite discouraged. I love your idea about taking pics once a month or after every 10 lbs lost 0 -
Thanks so much everyone! I'm feeling the love and support of you all!
I will add you @canadianvampyregurl! Anyone else can add me as well. The last few days I have been back on track. I did decide to move my weight loss goal to 1.5 lbs a week rather than 2. This gives me a little wiggle room but doesn't allow me to go completely out of control. It feels better, but I will see how next weigh-in goes! And about the picture idea: that's a wonderful idea! I've talked to my friend who is also trying to lose weight, and we decided to do a fun pinup girl kind of photo and keep updating it as we lose weight! 1 -
Sgt_Pepper33 wrote: »Thanks so much everyone! I'm feeling the love and support of you all! I will add you @canadianvampyregurl! Anyone else can add me as well. The last few days I have been back on track. I did decide to move my weight loss goal to 1.5 lbs a week rather than 2. This gives me a little wiggle room but doesn't allow me to go completely out of control. It feels better, but I will see how next weigh-in goes! And about the picture idea: that's a wonderful idea! I've talked to my friend who is also trying to lose weight, and we decided to do a fun pinup girl kind of photo and keep updating it as we lose weight!
Love the idea of photograph with a friend.. Having someone to do this journey with in whatever form it takes really makes a difference. Just the support and being able to phone a friend when the going gets tough, great tools to add to your tool box. So glad your feeling strong again, I always find reaching out on here makes a difference.
I'm back to square one with my added sugar elimination.. Cold Rock ice cream with 4 mix ins and banana bread and chocolate brownie for lunch today.. aggghhhhh But here I am getting my support needs met doing my confessing and hopefully getting back on track... I want food... sweet sweet food right no... agghhhh0
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