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struggles123
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I love this site. It helps me account for the calories I am consuming. No more pretending it was a "free" treat or I had enough "points"...this calculates and the math is right there. Love,love, love.
However, I have been on this a week and have not lost. Frustrated. My sister paid almost 2 grand to to the chiropractic weight loss
but all she did was cut out dairy and carbs and consume 800 calories daily in the shakes they sold her. She's back on real food and one shake per day but she's still losing. I'm trying this one without paying someone and failing miserably. Help.
However, I have been on this a week and have not lost. Frustrated. My sister paid almost 2 grand to to the chiropractic weight loss

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Hey there! I'm sorry you're having a rough time of it.
1. If it's been less than 3 weeks or so, don't sweat it! Normal fluctuations happen and unfortunately sometimes we stall for a week or two even when we're doing everything right. Give your body some time to catch up with the changes you're making.
2. If you aren't already, be sure that you're logging everything. Sometimes people forget about things like veggies, drinks, cooking oils, and condiments. For some people these can add up to enough to halt your weight loss progress.
3. Consider buying a food scale if you don't already have one. They're about $10-$20 dollars in the US and easily found at places like Amazon, Target, and Walmart. Measuring cups and spoons are great, but they do come with some degree of inaccuracy. A food scale will be more accurate, and for some people it makes a big difference.
4. Logging accurately also means choosing accurate entries in the database. There are a lot of user-entered entries that are off. Double-check that you're using good entries and/or using the recipe builder instead of someone else's homemade entries.
5. Recalculate your goals if you haven't lately. As you lose weight your body requires fewer calories to run. Be sure you update your goals every ten pounds or so.
6. If you're eating back your exercise calories and you're relying on gym machine readouts or MFP's estimates, it might be best to eat back just 50-75% of those. Certain activities tend to be overestimated. If you're using an HRM or activity tracker, it might be a good idea to look into their accuracy and be sure that yours is calibrated properly.
7. If you're taking any cheat days that go over your calorie limits, it might be best to cut them out for a few weeks and see what happens. Some people go way over their calorie needs without realizing it when they don't track.
8. If you weigh yourself frequently, consider using a program like trendweight to even out the fluctuations. You could be losing weight but just don't see it because of the daily ups and downs.
9. Some people just burn fewer calories than the calculators predict. If you continue to have problems after 4-6 weeks, then it might be worth a trip to the doctor or a registered dietitian who can give you more specific advice.
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Is this your first week? I wouldn't give up just yet. I can understand. I've been here a month. In my first week, I lost 1 pound, which was ok. Obviously was hoping for another 2 maybe 3 pounds for the first week. Then the next week, I lost 2 pounds and I was super excited about it! Week 3, no weight change. Huh. Week 4, gained 2 pounds. "What???" Sometimes you have to tweak things a little to get going again. For me, I had my Fitbit connected to myfitnesspal. I was earning an extra 300 - 400 calories from the walking I do at work. (I work in food service.) What I discovered this past week is that I was eating too much. I was eating those extra 300 calories. So I disconnected the Fitbit from myfitnesspal and just stayed within my calorie range. Lo and behold...4 pound loss! That was this morning. So this is just my long-winded way of saying stick with it. Make some tweaks. Are you consuming a lot of sodium? It can make you retain water. Whatever you do, don't give up!1
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diannethegeek wrote: »Hey there! I'm sorry you're having a rough time of it.
1. If it's been less than 3 weeks or so, don't sweat it! Normal fluctuations happen and unfortunately sometimes we stall for a week or two even when we're doing everything right. Give your body some time to catch up with the changes you're making.
2. If you aren't already, be sure that you're logging everything. Sometimes people forget about things like veggies, drinks, cooking oils, and condiments. For some people these can add up to enough to halt your weight loss progress.
3. Consider buying a food scale if you don't already have one. They're about $10-$20 dollars in the US and easily found at places like Amazon, Target, and Walmart. Measuring cups and spoons are great, but they do come with some degree of inaccuracy. A food scale will be more accurate, and for some people it makes a big difference.
4. Logging accurately also means choosing accurate entries in the database. There are a lot of user-entered entries that are off. Double-check that you're using good entries and/or using the recipe builder instead of someone else's homemade entries.
5. Recalculate your goals if you haven't lately. As you lose weight your body requires fewer calories to run. Be sure you update your goals every ten pounds or so.
6. If you're eating back your exercise calories and you're relying on gym machine readouts or MFP's estimates, it might be best to eat back just 50-75% of those. Certain activities tend to be overestimated. If you're using an HRM or activity tracker, it might be a good idea to look into their accuracy and be sure that yours is calibrated properly.
7. If you're taking any cheat days that go over your calorie limits, it might be best to cut them out for a few weeks and see what happens. Some people go way over their calorie needs without realizing it when they don't track.
8. If you weigh yourself frequently, consider using a program like trendweight to even out the fluctuations. You could be losing weight but just don't see it because of the daily ups and downs.
9. Some people just burn fewer calories than the calculators predict. If you continue to have problems after 4-6 weeks, then it might be worth a trip to the doctor or a registered dietitian who can give you more specific advice.
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And be patient! You can't expect a miracle in a week!
Start by reading the stickies in the beginning of the forum!1 -
Patience. This is a long game with little instant gratification. Take the advice above and keep going.0
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49 lbs lost here. Took a very long time. It is different for everyone.
Make short term goals. Portion control. Lifestyle change.
It is all up to you to lose it and keep it off. CICO, period.
No magic. By any means. Good days, not so good days...just keep trying. Even .5/1 lb a week is great.
Spending big money to lose weight ? NO.Short term, maybe. Long term. No way.
Food scale. Very important. Good luck to you !0 -
Don't quit. Your body is adjusting to the new calories, exercise. Stress plays a part in losing. Water retention. When I first started losing weight months ago, I would gain 5 lbs of water, lose 1/2 lb all in a matter of a few days. I struggled with it like this for a month. Now that it has been 7 months I only put on a pound or two of water and it comes off just as easy as it gets on. So chin up. Keep logging foods and exercise. You WILL see results. If you don't see anything in say 6 weeks ask your doctor and get some blood work done. Until then, no stressing.0
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It sounds like your sister is on a VLCD (very low calorie diet) and isn't even being supervised by a proper specialist. What she's doing doesn't sound healthy or sustainable.
Follow the list posted here in the comments. If you don't have one already, get a food scale and use it! I've lost 43lbs here. It works.0
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