Help and Encouragement!

Hi everybody, I have tried numerous times to lose weight. I've tried and failed, but I am really determine to make a change. A healthy lifestyle is very hard and rigorous. I use to wear a 5 after my son was born. Hi is 8 now and I just had my second child (second C-section), I'm a size 14 now. My stomach overlaps, I have back fat, and I'm fatigued. I need support and would love to become a member of the #healthylivesmatter community. I usually don't use that slogan because it takes away from #blacklivesmatter but it really is my struggle.