Do you lie to your food diary?
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GirlonBliss wrote: »I remember when I would binge on cookies, I would only "admit" to my food diary that I had 1.
You know it's an issue when you lie to a notebook that no one but you will read! LOL
But the main problem is that I thought I was doing everything right for weight loss but I would "forget" about all of those binge episodes and only complain about the positive things I had done that weren't leading to results.
What about you?
No way. it does no good to lie to yourself.1 -
I find that I genuinely forget things like the dressing I had on my salad at lunch, or the glass of wine I had with it. But why lie to my food diary? The only person I'm fooling if I don't log something is myself. And then there's days like yesterday when I prelogged my planned dessert, but I wasn't feeling very good and went to bed without it. Tonight, when we were discussing what to have for dinner, I said, "I'd love chicken tikka kabob, but I don't think I have enough calories left." And my husband reminded me that I didn't eat those 250 calories last night, I could add them to tonight without guilt. BOORAH!2
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nope. but sometimes if i have enough calories left over for the days, i might not log something. But usually i log it the next day cause i feel guilty.0
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No, never in the short time I have been logging. I stopped lying to myself, guess that's why I haven't I think you wouldn't be the only one who has ever lied to their diary. Try to work out why you feel the need to do it and go from there.0
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Thinking out loud...Could this be because you don't want to actually see the amount of calories you binged on? I would think logging the binge would be helpful. You may see how many calories an actual binge costs.
I'm pretty new to the calorie counting thing and I've not had a binge yet but should I "fall of the wagon" so to speak I will log it. I think it would help me get a better grasp on things.0 -
Thinking out loud...Could this be because you don't want to actually see the amount of calories you binged on? I would think logging the binge would be helpful. You may see how many calories an actual binge costs. .
Thanks! I'm a health coach now (lost 40 pounds and haven't had weight issues in 6 years). I think people want to make a change but admitting to yourself where you're self-sabotaging is really tough and you have to be open to that before being able to make changes3 -
Not that I'm aware of... but I do know that logging can be hard sometimes. I don't give myself permission not to log because those little bites here and there add up and if I feel I am allowed to eat without logging it will get out of control fast.
I do however give myself permission to eyeball. Eyeballing is way better than not logging at all, imo. And quick adding a chunk of calories for a treat day where you don't want to log is better than leaving the diary empty. I use 4000 calories for this because I know if I take the brakes off I generally eat around 3500. The benefit of it is I know that some damage has been done and it doesn't become "invisible".2 -
I have "neglected" to log everything in the past but I try hard to be diligent now. I also put notes in my diary: when I've been sick, tired, emotional. I take a look at protein for the day and vitamins to find patterns. I see the size of breakfast to see if that's a problem. But I also have a more fluid mindset about calories in/out. I try to average calories over the week to be in a deficit. I know what is approximately maintence for me so I work hard to at least be under that number. But this only works if I have more info in my diary. I also intentionally have dessert most days to feel more satisfied.0
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No, what's the point? You're only lying to yourself and hurting your own progress in the end. Plus, if I wasn't losing weight I would want to know why. I would be so frustrated if I wasn't losing weight but according to my diary I ate perfectly all week0
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I think most people do tbh. In all the time I've been on here (years) seldom I come across someone who is willing to log a binge log. The ones that do log it usually announce it beforehand, their post then becomes a platform for others to show support. That rarely happens. So it seems the majority of people are eating absolutely perfectly which is a lie because that would mean most people would be at their goal which isn't the case. I don't blame them tho. But I would advise logging every moment of weakness. It's a part of the journey. If anyone thinks they're gonna drop a whole bunch of weight without any slip ups then they're in for a rude awakening. It's a zig zag pattern and as you become more disciplined the zig zag appears less often and less drastic.1
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That's just wrong imo, I guarantee plenty of people log their "binges". I'd say most, in fact. Most mfpers log pretty much what they eat day in day out, that's the whole point.2
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Not if I can help it. If I can't find a food that I didn't make, I'll take a 'best guess' out of similar foods MFP has counts for, but that's about it. And I do talk back to it when it scolds me.0
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You're only cheating yourself. I just have my diary closed but I log everything.
Your diary is a tool, what are you going to learn from your eating behavior if you don't log everything?0 -
No. My best guesstimating on items I don't prepare myself creates enough room for diary entry error (e.g. how many grams of frozen custard are on that so-called small cone? Did the server really pour 6 oz of wine? How big is that filet and how did the chef prepare it?). I don't deliberately add to it.0
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Guilty of it, embarrassed, it all shows up on the scale. It's one of the things I'm "working on " .3
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No and my diary is public. I need the numbers, I don't care how it looks.0
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Nope, I log everything I eat.0
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Sometimes I work midnights at a grocery store and while making the rounds I sometimes grab a cookie and forget to log it wink wink1
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There was a binge recently that I did not post in real time with accurate measurements. I guessed at it several days later and got over myself.0
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As I mentioned earlier today in another chat - I don't lie in my food diary.. I just don't input on days when I have no idea how many calories I'm consuming by eating in restaurants or home made meals while visiting friends and family. I can't exactly walk up to the chef and ask "how much butter and oil did you put into this"..lol.. On those days I just try to eat healthier and smaller portions.0
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Even if part of me wants to lie about it, I won't. Not only because it serves no purpose, but because if my calories go into the red, it makes me rethink my choices. I feel guilty when I see my calories go beyond my goal but you know what, it tells me I need to make a change and control myself. I may feel bad now, but I will feel worse if I get on the scale and those numbers climb higher.1
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JeromeBarry1 wrote: »There was a binge recently that I did not post in real time with accurate measurements. I guessed at it several days later and got over myself.
I do that sometimes, and it's never as bad as i thought. 9 times out of 10 i don't even go over my calories.0 -
I told myself when I started MFP I wouldn't lie. I don't play games with my dairy and I don't play games with my scale. I think that what you're talking about has to do with shame and I am often ashamed when I overeat. But I log EVERY Single Bite. Every day. I know that if I skip, I'm setting myself up for the big fail....sliding back into weight gain which I have done so many times before. Lying would also be a type of hiding from yourself and your actions. Again, this seems like shame. If you grew up like I did, you probably experience a lot of shame around food and eating.2
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No because it won't change that I ate it. Instead I use it as a wake up call.1
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No, but I have given myself a little bit of a "cheat." I find that trying to figure out the calories for a holiday dinner (ie, food made by other people, so I have no idea how it was made unless I go around begging extended family to give me their recipes and to weigh and measure every single ingredient) was so stressful that it was making me not enjoy holidays. Since that's not happening more than 6 times a year, I decided it just doesn't count. I could eat double my calories every holiday, and it's still not going to derail my weight loss long term. So I just quick add all of my calories for the day, and leave it at that.0
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When I first started, no. I might have been a poor logger but I never lied.
Now I do all the time. I suck.1 -
arditarose wrote: »When I first started, no. I might have been a poor logger but I never lied.
Now I do all the time. I suck.
Lol you're posts are so honest and refreshing0 -
Christine_72 wrote: »arditarose wrote: »When I first started, no. I might have been a poor logger but I never lied.
Now I do all the time. I suck.
Lol you're posts are so honest and refreshing
lol I'm struggling at the moment.0 -
arditarose wrote: »When I first started, no. I might have been a poor logger but I never lied.
Now I do all the time. I suck.
Well it's out there now so you're good right?! lol1 -
arditarose wrote: »Christine_72 wrote: »arditarose wrote: »When I first started, no. I might have been a poor logger but I never lied.
Now I do all the time. I suck.
Lol you're posts are so honest and refreshing
lol I'm struggling at the moment.
Me too We know what we have to do, just need to find the motivation and will power. Anyways, looking at your profile pic you look super awesome to me!!0
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